Stillfire:


Mr njokusboy, what was the damn consensus in the first two pages before the generic, wish washy anti NL feminists rants took over?
If you find that threads are one sided, create your own threads to highlight your issues and create the balance you are looking for.

hottestlesbian:

Keep wishing i am francis and did he tell you he's sitting 4 jamb except a lie sold to you by kimoni?.
birds of a feather.

hottestlesbian:
likes means a lot to him?
same way u created ova 15alternates to like ur posts when u buy e-fight.

hottestlesbian:
Francis kor, Francis ni.
Jamb kor, jamb ni.

Lyk i adviced yew, ignore senseless rants.

TooNoisy:


Which women need to be more assertive? The average Nigerian woman like you? People have personality traits. Some people will be assertive, some will not. Some will have a temper, some will not. Different people are born with personality traits. .

You said we are all agreed that women can live their lives the way we want. Then you say society discriminates against how women make choices. Please tell me when someone held a gun to your head to demand you live your life a certain way.

I will suggest you get an education and a job for starters. You sound unintelligent and unemployable!

TooNoisy:


You said your mum told you a woman should not be educated. Please go home and tell your mum you deserve an education or just get one.

You said your mum told you not to buy a car. Go ahead and buy a car if you can afford it.

You said your mum told you not to buy expensive things. Bloody well go ahead and buy it if you can afford it.

You said your mum told you never to get a job. Na hunger go clear ya eye, I pity you.

You said your mum told you never to talk back at your husband. You can slap him for all I care. He's your husband not mine.

Why don't you preach that NIgerian women should be less materialistic and stop focusing on Channel and Prada bags, Telemundo and Nollywood, etc. Well I guess you wouldn't focus on that because it's their choice. But there are lots of Nigerian women who have decided to succeed

kaboninc:
Stillfire...

That tongue that goes vavavavava...

I pity whoever you settle down with.

njokusboy:
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Aint got time to be creating useless threads about some perceived injustices, I am too busy solving all the problems in this country, you guys spend your whole life whining, its little wonder Nigerian women are dangling at the bottom of the food chain... those discriminations are actually what spur me on, LEARN...
You guys have been whining about some discrimination, by men, society, ur parents, siblings, pastors, in laws, churches and just about anything on this planet, as far back as I can remember... Now that is what generic is...

freshvine:


No hard feelings dears.

There's few or no section of Nairaland "gender supremacy" is fiercely contested expect on family section or "maybe" romance section.

Let suppose these 2 are where grown men and mature women desirous of family life congregate to share views on marital relationship in order to make the society a better place.

In view of my explanation it's assume you based your statistics on the male population of the highlighted sections of Nairaland. In your reaction you pinpoint that these male nairaland members (Quantum) represents what you aren't familiar with probably in overview of life. You went on to "Canonized" all male members of your family including your extended members. That's where my problems lies.

My argument is that some of these male nairaland members having different views of your opinion might have Wives here praising their husbands too. Telling us your male acquaintances is better than the guys here is unbelievable.

Men of this generation cooks. I mean the educated ones. No biggie.

Sorry for typo errors, uncoordinated contexts, grammatical blunders and malapropism. I just stressed and fatigued.

Would you agree my mother is better than yours? I don't think so. There is nothing unbelievable about me saying my male acquaintances are better than "some" here. I won't retract that statement in decades to come, they are my circle, the ones I can vouch for.
I can't speak for the whole Nigerian men, there are actually good guys out there but I don't know them!
That's why I didn't generalise, or say 70/80/90%... I try not to generalise. I used the word "quantum" _ it's now dependent on what ratio of the main population is "quantum".

Let their wives praise them. I love to see women venerate the men in their lives_ it's bliss.

Different views is the spice of life, if I even mention the names of my favourite male nairalanders _ you would see we don't share the same view on every. How they put forth their views (albeit different from mine), is what endears me to them.

Rest na @ fatigue. Today is friday, you should be somewhere eating isiewu

Stillfire:


Female issues will be discussed to our satisfaction. Gender relations MUST be discussed! Otherwise quit Nairaland. If I see it, I will discuss it.
As far as there is ANY one Nigerian woman that is facing discrimination, even if it is 0.5% of the population, it will be discussed and she would be given tools to face her adversaries- male or FEMALE alike!
Any person who CANNOT take the heat, should take a rope and kill herself. Don't worry I would be there to push the chair.

njokusboy:


Ofcourse, keep on whining... it's not as if ya'll are good at anything else...
Lol, I think that female needs tools to enable her raise her standard of living more...
your last paragraph is meant for someone else up there, I think... I wonder why you are telling me of your desire to watch her die

Stillfire:


Everyone needs tools to raise their standard of living. However would standard of living or sucking it up in order not to whine change ideologies, thought processes, and nuances that enforce these discriminations? Not so much! Discourse, consistent dialogue and legislation are what would weed out these ignorance exhibited daily on social media. That is what we are doing here, and that is how it will be!

Considering the last statement- It skipped my mind to add another pronoun so that no-gender would be left out. Since you feel left out, should I add 'himself' so that it can be balanced, fair and equal?

Stillfire:


The stupidity here is beyond redemption.
More and more emotional outbursts than concrete and logical statements. I can only say Welcome to Stillfire's class for the mentally retar.d.ed.

Stillfire:

For you to succeed in life you must have these traits assertiveness and doggedness. And Society does discriminate on people who deviate from the norm. The fact that one can be assertive and ignore these social ills does not mean these discriminations would not suffice and exist in society. If you cannot understand this I cannot help you here, other than to blame your parents for your half-baked education.

Stillfire:

More issues with no relation whatsoever with the topic. The stup.idity here is beyond sickening. In logical fallacies, this is termed as NON SEQUITAR: (literally means "does not follow in a general sense any argument which fails to establish a connection between the premises and the conclusion. There is currently a thread on family go there and discuss materialism.