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Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 11:19am On Nov 07, 2015
I am 30years old, am good looking and have lots of qualities a lady would dream of in a guy and i've been willing to settle down. Am a good in wooing so having a girlfriend is not a serious ish.

I have wooed the beautiful and ugly, Good and Bad, brilliant and dull, slim and fat and they all agreed to b mine. they always show me care and loving and they never bother me financially they try to be the best.


I main problem is immediately they accept me the entire feeling I had before chasing them just dry up automatically. I tried in many of the relationship feel something but it all ends the same way. I end up breaking their hearts which is never intentional and they have all been good.


what baffles me the most is that I don't even lust after them at all I end most of the relationship without touching them. The few I slept with had to tongue-lash me before I slept with them.

pls Nairalanders I need your advice and if it comes with insults I will still welcome them. thanks.
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 11:26am On Nov 07, 2015
cheesy
Where is Legend when you need Himhuh grin.
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Ezerbullet(m): 11:26am On Nov 07, 2015
Your village people are using 4G network
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by obiorathesubtle: 11:28am On Nov 07, 2015
swaggprofessor:
I am 30years old, am good looking and have lots of qualities a lady would dream of in a guy and i've been willing to settle down. Am a good in wooing so having a girlfriend is not a serious ish.

I have wooed the beautiful and ugly, Good and Bad, brilliant and dull, slim and fat and they all agreed to b mine. they always show me care and loving and they never bother me financially they try to be the best.


I main problem is immediately they accept me the entire feeling I had before chasing them just dry up automatically. I tried in many of the relationship feel something but it all ends the same way. I end up breaking their hearts which is never intentional and they have all been good.


what baffles me the most is that I don't even lust after them at all I end most of the relationship without touching them. The few I slept with had to tongue-lash me before I slept with them.

pls Nairalanders I need your advice and if it comes with insults I will still welcome them. thanks.
bros. Have you gone for prayers at THE SYNAGOGUE CHURCH OF ALL NATIONS? The prophet T.B. Joshua dy solve your case well well
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by misspicy(f): 11:32am On Nov 07, 2015
shocked
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by CaroLyner(f):
difficulty setting and maintaining healthy
boundaries in romantic relationships.
A treatise on setting boundaries in intimate
relationships is way, way outside the scope of
a Nairaland response.grin
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 11:48am On Nov 07, 2015
misspicy:
shocked
I dont read cartoons pls
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 11:49am On Nov 07, 2015
CaroLyner:
sad
this doesn't seem like an advice dear....
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 11:50am On Nov 07, 2015
Why Are 30yr Olds on Nairaland?? shocked cry undecided




Anyways....maybe you're gay..."grin"
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 11:54am On Nov 07, 2015
Estharfabian:
Why Are 30yr Olds on Nairaland?? shocked cry undecided




Anyways....maybe you're gay..."grin"
come closer behind closed curtains then u can find out
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 11:55am On Nov 07, 2015
Estharfabian:
Why Are 30yr Olds on Nairaland?? shocked cry undecided




Anyways....maybe you're gay..."grin"
that's if u cud still walk afterwards
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by obiorathesubtle: 11:56am On Nov 07, 2015
Estharfabian:
Why Are 30yr Olds on Nairaland?? shocked cry undecided




Anyways....maybe you're gay..."grin"
aunty sidi please, did oga seun say "no 30 year olds allowed on Nairaland"?
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by CaroLyner(f): 11:58am On Nov 07, 2015
swaggprofessor:
this doesn't seem like an advice dear....
look up
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 11:59am On Nov 07, 2015
CaroLyner:
look up
to whr, dear b specific
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 12:03pm On Nov 07, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
aunty sidi please, did oga seun say "no 30 year olds allowed on Nairaland"?
LoL! "grin" Which wan kan be "sidi"?? undecided


Anyways...by 30...u shouldn't be on Any social media..You should be working your Butts off consistently....undecidedleave NL for The kids and Young adults nah..."grin"
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by kk4kiss(m): 12:05pm On Nov 07, 2015
Deliverance is what I think that u need, cos u re married in spiritual world
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 12:06pm On Nov 07, 2015
Sometimes its not about holding down a relationship but making it look real, that way hold it down. How does this work?

Since you financially stable, Get your choice out of them ladies and impregnate her then watch how dedicated you hold down the relationship. Sounds dumb but actually works.
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by obiorathesubtle: 12:09pm On Nov 07, 2015
Estharfabian:
LoL! "grin" Which wan kan be "sidi"?? undecided


Anyways...by 30...u shouldn't be on Any social media..You should be working your Butts off consistently....undecidedleave NL for The kids and Young adults nah..."grin"
btw. Aunty sidi is from tha Lil kesh song 'gbese' + so you're saying social networks are for young and jobless people? You better not even be 29!
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Cre8(m): 12:13pm On Nov 07, 2015
Is not all about going for any kind of a person so far she is on skirt. You need to know and be disciplined in going for that singular kind of a person you desire.
And according to myles munroe 'there is no woman best for you, you create her'.
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 12:20pm On Nov 07, 2015
Cre8:
Is not all about going for any kind of a person so far she is on skirt. You need to know and be disciplined in going for that singular kind of a person you desire.
And according to myles munroe 'there is no woman best for you, you create her'.
thanks a lot ur advice goes well with me
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 12:21pm On Nov 07, 2015
aaronson:
Sometimes its not about holding down a relationship but making it look real, that way hold it down. How does this work?

Since you financially stable, Get your choice out of them ladies and impregnate her then watch how dedicated you hold down the relationship. Sounds dumb but actually works.
Ur advice is a bit complicated but is worth a try.
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 12:24pm On Nov 07, 2015
Estharfabian:
LoL! "grin" Which wan kan be "sidi"?? undecided


Anyways...by 30...u shouldn't be on Any social media..You should be working your Butts off consistently....undecidedleave NL for The kids and Young adults nah..."grin"
who told u that a worker can't be a Nairalander?? u just sound like broke ass babe dreaming of a rich nigga as a husband. but guess what" WAKE UP"
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 12:31pm On Nov 07, 2015
U need prayers
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 12:35pm On Nov 07, 2015
Harbosede02:
U need prayers
tanks but u can start for me.
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 12:36pm On Nov 07, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
btw. Aunty sidi is from tha Lil kesh song 'gbese' + so you're saying social networks are for young and jobless people? You better not even be 29!
17-27prefferably...undecided
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 12:41pm On Nov 07, 2015
swaggprofessor:
who told u that a worker can't be a Nairalander?? u just sound like broke ass babe dreaming of a rich nigga as a husband. but guess what" WAKE UP"
Lol....you sound pained..."grin" just so You'd know....I was only being sarcastic...tongue

FYI....yes, I'm broke..very broke..."grin"...Every student is...undecided cry: buh you're wrong on one thing...i Ain't looking for any rich nigga..."grin" Ain't even looking for Any Nigga...tongue
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Stevez32(m): 12:44pm On Nov 07, 2015
CaroLyner:
difficulty setting and maintaining healthy
boundaries in romantic relationships.
A treatise on setting boundaries in intimate
relationships is way, way outside the scope of
a Nairaland response.grin
Pretty lady
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Spydamannn(m): 12:47pm On Nov 07, 2015
Jim iyke brother,Jim iyke got saved after a Visit to T.B Joshua I Suppose
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 1:07pm On Nov 07, 2015
Stevez32:
Pretty lady
If u wan toast her go another person post thank u
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 07, 2015
swaggprofessor:
Ur advice is a bit complicated but is worth a try.
sure bro, that's why I wrote, it sounds dumb but works. Its like actually falling in love with whom you already married.
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by Stevez32(m): 12:59pm On Nov 08, 2015
swaggprofessor:
If u wan toast her go another person post thank u
.



Hahaha... See this guy!
Re: Help!! I Cant Have A Stable Relationship by swaggprofessor(op): 1:22pm On Nov 08, 2015
Stevez32:
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Hahaha... See this guy!
no surprise say I know wetin dey ur mind we b guys.
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