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Hello fellow nairalanders,i need advice,there is this gorgeous lady i loved,but we were not getting along based on the kind of girl she is(materialistic) though she is fun to be with and she took me more of a friend,m in 200 level and she is doing cert program of which she is awaiting admission chances are that she wouldn't get it.about four to five months ago they got to finish the program and parents would be expecting to see their children but she bluntly refuse to go home.so many occasion i got to persuade her to go home and wait for the list her Bro even stays in town of the same state but she wouldn't stay with him,i later summoned the courage to call her bro and ask whats the matter.they don't send her money again,one one cares concerning her upkeep according to her,i told him that she is now leaving a life that is not of a modest girl. he later got to tell me that she has refused picking his calls ever since she left his place about some months ago.but she has been telling me that she has been going over to his place,she later found out about me and her bro conversation because he narrated the story to their mum of which i bluntly told him not.the plan was to come and pick her unaware when returning her sim card that was with me,she later called and said she coldnt believe i would do such ...fellow naralander what i did was it wrong? she has been very desperate about the admission stuff saying she ready to do anytin to get it you all know what that means knowing fully well she aint got the finanace to runs the admission and i know this people out there are just out to find prey.

You did nothing wrong, you are just trying to get her help before she completely self destruct.
No worry, she go soon calm down.

when u use paracetamol overdose for someone's else headache, very soon u will develop acute liver failure and u will begin to question God.

yomi007k:
when u use paracetamol overdose for someone's else headache, very soon u will develop acute liver failure and u will begin to question God.

you mean helping a friend who is going astray is wrong esp a friend you have something special for

darthv:
you mean helping a friend who is going astray is wrong esp a friend you have something special for

Alright mehn..

"Ur gona get hurt soon"..There is nothing u can do for her unless u wana start solving her problems n start paying her bills which will cripple u.

I can guess wat she is going thru.
1.Psychological stress She is ashamed of going back home n wen everybody asks wats up wit school, she can't say much.
2. Financial stress- family usually won't give much wen dey know she is not in Uni per se.
3. Freedom- she is enjoying where ever she is n home is dulling.

Solution:
1.Get her addmission.
2.Pay her bills
3.Its up to her.