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I Am Confused by surbrown(op): 6:57am On Nov 11, 2015
Dear nairalander, I need your opinion! I met a beautiful girl on Facebook, she is those kinda Porsche girl, she is always ignoring my chat, being a jambite, seeking admission to lautech, she told me she is in unibadan 100lvl, so I lied that I am in lautech 200lvl! we met, aww I really love this girl! so after the lautech post ume, I didn't make there postjamb so I was nota admmited! my dad help me work my admission now to alhikma university in kwara, so I am now wondering how to tell her I am not going to lautech before! she is expecting me to be in 300lvl when lautech resume now! I dont want to loose her! HELP ME
Re: I Am Confused by evanscheck(m): 7:00am On Nov 11, 2015
Just lie d same way u started that u got scholarship in kwara state, and u had to loose like a year to get,am sure she wud see reasons to accept that. Then u try as much as possible to always remb dis lie cos it cus be used at a latter datec
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 7:02am On Nov 11, 2015
Why did you Lie to Her?

You lieing to her clearly shows that you are not worthy of Her. You probably have a self Estemm that is either Low OR Non-Existent.

That lie will cost you One thing; The Girl. But if you continue lieing, it will cost you more.

Be happy with what you are at the moment, We all know how Sudden the hands of Time can Change.

If you think lieing that you are already in school will make her become more attracted to you, Think Again.


EOS...
Re: I Am Confused by Cutehector(m): 7:05am On Nov 11, 2015
The way ds babe go use u as maga....
grin


Look at d way he is even sayin it... "Aww I love this girl eh"


Lwkmd
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 7:15am On Nov 11, 2015
what will it cost you to just say the truth?
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 7:16am On Nov 11, 2015
These kids again.

Ok, my advice: Tell her your dad is the VC in that Ilorin University so he asked you to transfer over to there and remember to update your lies each year like anti-virus undecided
Re: I Am Confused by Omotayor123(f): 7:18am On Nov 11, 2015
Time to tell the truth OP....
Re: I Am Confused by Baddo101(m): 7:18am On Nov 11, 2015
Its best u end it sharperly cos u av lied from d onset and it mait not really help u in any way.
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 7:18am On Nov 11, 2015
Just tell her the truth and make her understand why u lied in the first place.
Re: I Am Confused by surbrown(op): 7:20am On Nov 11, 2015
i thought she would snub me if i made mention that i am a jambite. sadi thought she would snub me if i made mention that i am a jambite.
Re: I Am Confused by surbrown(op): 7:22am On Nov 11, 2015
SirJeffry:
These kids again.

Ok, my advice: Tell her your dad is the VC in that Ilorin University so he asked you to transfer over to there and remember to update your lies each year like anti-virus undecided
bro vc ke
Re: I Am Confused by boboLIL(m): 7:22am On Nov 11, 2015
u b jonsing guy
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 11, 2015
surbrown:
bro vc ke
No be lie you want? I don help give you a super lie format now, you come dey fear.angry
Re: I Am Confused by surbrown(op): 7:27am On Nov 11, 2015
SirJeffry:
No be lie you want? I don help give you a super lie format now, you come dey fear.angry
dat lie too much bro
Re: I Am Confused by Djboosting: 8:22am On Nov 11, 2015
All I see here contextually with ur story are:-

1. A young guy hyping a girl's value more than what she is.

2. A guy who's afraid to face reality.

3. A guy who has NO other option except this girl.


When will u ever stop manipulating ur awesome baddass brain worrying about just ONE girl.

The fact u need to face here is clear.. Which are :-


1. U're not your own fvcking boss.

2. Even if she claim to "love" u like u afore-claimed that u love her.. Cool.
U're in kwara now, she's in ogbomosho, lautech.

U think she won't meet handsome sugarcoated guys there too; which she'll give some chances to feel her body and heart..

Now u're in kwara, do u think u're still in the picture of this young girl in lautech (another location)?

Now my challenge for you right now :-

1. It's either u keep manipulating urself and refuse to face the reality dat she'll leave u... either she know the truth or not. (Sticking to wot doesn't exist)

OR

2. It's either u pick urself up, stop worrying and enjoy ur little ride with her, go out there and meet other girls and be the fvcking man every girl is attracted to and finally have ur hands full with something.


Your choice. Pick and Do whatever the fvck u want to do.


#peace
Re: I Am Confused by obiorathesubtle: 8:48am On Nov 11, 2015
undecided well, you've already killed the chicken, you might as well start plucking its feathers. One more lie won't hurt, tell her you wrote another jamb and you had a preferred offering at kwara. That you want to follow your 'passion' and be 'adventurous' girls love that kinda sh/t.
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:05am On Nov 11, 2015
Cutehector:
The way ds babe go use u as maga.... grin Look at d way he is even sayin it... "Aww I love this girl eh" Lwkmd
When you go fall in love huh
Re: I Am Confused by Cutehector(m): 10:23am On Nov 11, 2015
Oyind17:
When you go fall in love huh
urm leme hav money first.. Love follows...
Re: I Am Confused by tony4u035(m): 10:36am On Nov 11, 2015
Jst tell her u changed course dat u were managing d course u had at lautech n dat wasn't ur dream course of study. Shikena! But if she no gree, abeg post her no. make boys examine her for u...
surbrown:
Dear nairalander, I need your opinion! I met a beautiful girl on Facebook, she is those kinda Porsche girl, she is always ignoring my chat, being a jambite, seeking admission to lautech, she told me she is in unibadan 100lvl, so I lied that I am in lautech 200lvl! we met, aww I really love this girl! so after the lautech post ume, I didn't make there postjamb so I was nota admmited! my dad help me work my admission now to alhikma university in kwara, so I am now wondering how to tell her I am not going to lautech before! she is expecting me to be in 300lvl when lautech resume now! I dont want to loose her! HELP ME
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 11, 2015
Cutehector:
urm leme hav money first.. Love follows...
I never see your own love story for Nl before na im make I ask
Re: I Am Confused by Cutehector(m): 10:54am On Nov 11, 2015
Oyind17:
I never see your own love story for Nl before na im make I ask
I really dnt kiss and tell.... I dnt bring my personal life into social media.. Ma standard...
Re: I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:56am On Nov 11, 2015
Cutehector:
I really dnt kiss and tell.... I dnt bring my personal life into social media.. Ma standard...
Good one
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