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A friend of mine asked me for an advice on what he should do. He met a lady on one of the social site and they exchanged contact and started chatting and calling each other. He initially has the intention of dating her in the first place but, he was discouraged to tell her his mind becasue the lady told him he has a boyfriend when they were chatting. But recently the lady requested to see him in physical. They both later fixed a date that they will meet and finally met. The lady cooked in his house and both of them ate even in the same plate. They watched movies and gist throughout her stay. When she was about going he asked her about her boyfriend but, she felt reluctant to answer. She later replied him that ‘he is fine’. He jokingly asked when they are going to get married and she told him the guy is yet to propose. According to her they have been dating for 3 years but the guy is yet to define the relationship with her. To my friend biggest surprise he asked to see the picture of her boyfriend, on showing him her boyfriend was his colleague at work and hold her that he knows her boyfriend that they work with same company, but not working in the same state. My friend really has feelings for her and he said the way the girl carried herself when she visited him seems like she likes him too but shy of expressing herself. The question now is should my friend woo this lady or just remain as friend since his colleague is her boyfriend? Thanks for your contribution

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Don't ask me why

Going by the "Boy's Code"!!












He should have "nothing" to do with her!!

Hmmm

The way I see it, the girl's relationship with her "boyfriend" is clearly undefined aka casual thang, which automatically puts her in fair play zone imo. Three years is a very long time not to know where you stand with somebody & I don't blame her for trying to find a stand with someone else because she can't be stuck in limbo forever. It doesn't seem like she & her boyfriend are on the same page, I doubt they're even on the same book, probably on different shelves altogether

She's fair game. Your friend can go ahead as far as I'm concerned because it doesn't seem like the BF is making any claims if she's still in the dark about where they're heading as a couple. However, your friend better have good intentions of boning it to own it & not waste three more years of her life in a "whatever" type of relationship. My rusty 2c.

PunkyVeer:
Hmmm

The way I see it, the girl's relationship with her "boyfriend" is clearly undefined aka casual thang, which automatically puts her in fair play zone imo. Three years is a very long time not to know where you stand with somebody & I don't blame her for trying to find a stand with someone else because she can't be stuck in limbo forever. It doesn't seem like she & her boyfriend are on the same page, I doubt they're even on the same book, probably on different shelves altogether

She's fair game. Your friend can go ahead as far as I'm concerned because it doesn't seem like the BF is making any claims if she's still in the dark about where they're heading as a couple. However, your friend better have good intentions of boning it to own it & not waste three more years of her life in a "whatever" type of relationship. My rusty 2c.

thank u so much

Some ladies sha. My brother the fact here is that, if your friend tries making a move with that girl, OLO, na yakata for bed. And if he happens to knack her congo better than that 3yrs shadowy guy, he will instantly disappear like a shadow in dakness.
But me I'll advice that, since he knows the dude, he should just forget every network with the babe and change his channel to somewhere else.. .YOLO

xpac01:
Some ladies sha. My brother the fact here is that, if your friend tries making a move with that girl, OLO, na yakata for bed. And if he happens to knack her congo better than that 3yrs shadowy guy, he will instantly disappear like a shadow in dakness.
But me I'll advice that, since he knows the dude, he should just forget every network with the babe and change his channel to somewhere else.. .YOLO

thanks bro