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Yes that's the simple truth.
Before you go about trying to apply what you read in the books to your relationship, always bear in mind u dating an African man,not Brad pitt or Leonardo dicaprio.It wouldn't work,dont be so naive. I'v got a list of them,and mind you i'v read ALL.

1)why men love bitches

2)why men marry bitches

3)act like a lady,think like a man

4)for women only

5)rules of love

6)the 5 love languages etc

You see ladies rushing to buy these books,hoping to grab lessons to run their relationship.Don't get deceived,not everything you read should be applied.Apply wisdom!!

what if you ask for his short or long term goals and he tells you a fat lie just to put a smile on your lips?
What if you wait 90days to release the cookie and he dumps you the 91st day after pounding you.
What if he helps you out with all the house chores just to have a taste of the cookie and flees with the speed of light
What if you bring him over to meet the family yet he dumps you.
What if you are too independent and scare him off.

Don't even think of playing that "phone game" thing of waiting a week for him to call. A typical naija man wouldn't call you after acting up or bring flowers and chocolate to your office,that only happens in Telemundo. Wake up!! Pick up the phone and call,that makes you more matured to handle whatever is coming.

If you think being extremely proud would make him fall at your feet,think properly.A lot of girls are looking for boyfriends,you would soon be a side chick before you even blink.

Now even if u cram his 5 love languages,you need wisdom.People are spontaneous,people change their mood randomly.

If you think as a typical African woman,eating outside is best even when you know how to cook,just to tell your man you are posh and sleek and can't get your nails ruined you need to visit TB joshua for prayers. Only a weak man would tolerate that rubbish with you.

Enough said,read those books,grab the meaningful and realistic things and always bear in mind you dealing with an African man not a white puppet.

aye man you are so on point...Nigerian men needs practical approach not all this mushy romantic stuffs.....d woman should do all d caring and pampering

Men are naturally polygamous in nature and nobody can't stop that.

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ABIOLAXYZ:
Men are naturally polygamous in nature and nobody can't stop that.

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This is pure fallacy.

I no gree.
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petkruz:
What if you wait 90days to release the cookie and he dumps you the 91st day after pounding you.

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Lol..

No be small pounding.

Personally,I don't value galz who play hard to get. I make sure I dump them. Why frustrate innocent .
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ABIOLAXYZ:
Men are naturally polygamous in nature and nobody can't stop that.

Bro abeg speak for urself.

Polygamous ke, not all men are polygamous.

petkruz:
Yes that's the simple truth.
Before you go about trying to apply what you read in the books to your relationship, always bear in mind u dating an African man,not Brad pitt or Leonardo dicaprio.It wouldn't work,dont be so naive. I'v got a list of them,and mind you i'v read ALL.

1)why men love bitches

2)why men marry bitches

3)act like a lady,think like a man

4)for women only

5)rules of love

6)the 5 love languages etc

You see ladies rushing to buy these books,hoping to grab lessons to run their relationship.Don't get deceived,not everything you read should be applied.Apply wisdom!!

what if you ask for his short or long term goals and he tells you a fat lie just to put a smile on your lips?
What if you wait 90days to release the cookie and he dumps you the 91st day after pounding you.
What if he helps you out with all the house chores just to have a taste of the cookie and flees with the speed of light
What if you bring him over to meet the family yet he dumps you.
What if you are too independent and scare him off.

Don't even think of playing that "phone game" thing of waiting a week for him to call. A typical naija man wouldn't call you after acting up or bring flowers and chocolate to your office,that only happens in Telemundo. Wake up!! Pick up the phone and call,that makes you more matured to handle whatever is coming.

If you think being extremely proud would make him fall at your feet,think properly.A lot of girls are looking for boyfriends,you would soon be a side chick before you even blink.

Now even if u cram his 5 love languages,you need wisdom.People are spontaneous,people change their mood randomly.

If you think as a typical African woman,eating outside is best even when you know how to cook,just to tell your man you are posh and sleek and can't get your nails ruined you need to visit TB joshua for prayers. Only a weak man would tolerate that rubbish with you.

Enough said,read those books,grab the meaningful and realistic things and always bear in mind you dealing with an African man not a white puppet.

I am in love with you and I mean it!

some will come here and shout polygamous kee but they keep crushing on someone else babe plus keeping a side chick.
smh for una oh
HYPOCRITE.

she's a wife material, I'd give her that.

petkruz:
Polygamous ke, not all men are polygamous.

Petkruz mama. How you doing?

@Petkruz is killing it. Av followed her comments and threads since I checked her out. That bae is a LADY to take to mama. Some bros should hold and pride with her wella else someone'z gon'get snatched.

I no drink talk am o.

very good points... unfortunately only few girls reason like this

petkruz:
Yes that's the simple truth.
Before you go about trying to apply what you read in the books to your relationship, always bear in mind u dating an African man,not Brad pitt or Leonardo dicaprio.It wouldn't work,dont be so naive. I'v got a list of them,and mind you i'v read ALL.

1)why men love bitches

2)why men marry bitches

3)act like a lady,think like a man

4)for women only

5)rules of love

6)the 5 love languages etc

You see ladies rushing to buy these books,hoping to grab lessons to run their relationship.Don't get deceived,not everything you read should be applied.Apply wisdom!!

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Another pretentious crap from petkruz, the voodoo _bitch

When did you abandon your man-enslaving shrine for natural feminine appeal ?

You gave me 90 days to live when I slammed your fake butt hard on Nairaland's asphalt.

Now tell me, if you could actually snuff life out of my lungs metaphysically, aren't you definitely potent enough to compel a man to love you against his will?


Quit the charade. You're not one of us human. You're not in any position to tell us how relationships work.
We seduce, appeal and endear to earn love.

You take yours by force through means of incantations and occult measures.

Your heart is alien to the emotions you're trying to sell here.

Dark Child.