Wrong except of course she wants to do it willingly.

I don't think anyman would change the names on his properties to that of his wife.

Worst is to add his name to the documents if he has also done so to his own.

Any man asking his wife to do that have Uwa Mmebi spirit in Him..

I really don't think the man should force her to do so. With time she could do so. However, the truth is whether she changes the name or not, if you are married under the Marriage Act in Nigeria, the Marriage presupposes that whatever a Spouse holds in his/her name is held in trust for the other Spouse. You can only escape this if you are married under Customary Law.

no jare

peeparty:
Ladies can you change the name of a property,you bought from your savings worth millions of naira to his name?

Really easy to do I guess.

NO!!! the husband la thief!!!






Any lady/woman that do that la mumucos!!!

I am a (married) man and any woman who does that is a f00l. Why should a woman change the title of a property she bought to her husband's name? Because the law forbids a woman to own a property?

peeparty:



I really see nothing wrong in doing that, if she does it willing then it common sense.

u r a suspect.

Where I come from, a woman CAN NOT own land. 'nuff said. And a married woman, totally not.

amokeme:
well, she bought it before they got married, so I believe it can still pass as a harmless secret, I mean it's not like she bought it when they were married (when married no more secrets)

you are right but you also shouldnt HIDE anything from your partner... starting marriage life with dishonesty will only lead to failure.

Chinom:
Where I come from, a woman CAN NOT own land. 'nuff said. And a married woman, totally not.

Are you from Saudi Arabia?

gifttracy:
Even if na jazz,back to sender,we will nullify d
marriage.Mscheeww.

Don't worry, i m changing your moniker soon

peeparty:



Lol

just imagine Linda ikeji husband asking her to do that..

If I jam and marry Linda Ikeji, she go change am without force. It will be a natural progression. After all, she changed her surname to mine, or at least added mine to hers. Once she drops the first child, the rest will follow. Even Linda knows that if she marries an Igbo man.

MRBrownJ:


you are right but you also shouldnt HIDE anything from your partner... starting marriage life with dishonesty will only lead to failure.

I won't necessarily "hide" it from him, I won't even talk about it. It's a different thing for him to ask me if I have a land, and I say no (now, this is deceit and not being honest ) but in a situation where I don't talk about it or let it known, he won't have any idea that such exist, and I don't think that is dishonesty.

peeparty:


@the word willingly.

The two shall become one na...shebi its for
better and for worse? including properties.

nice one, also implies that whosoever owns the property owns it for the family.
In my rightful sense, I will never ask that of my wife and will never encourage any lady to do such. The husband has a vicious agenda

All this end time marriages .
I thought marriage should be 1+1=1.Why would my wife own a property and didnt deem fit to convert to the family property rather to be in her name.If my wife does that, no problem.It would be a wake up call for me any thing i owe she we never be my next of kin.since na endtime marriage we dey .

AfricanApple:
the love has not gotten to that stage and it never will, unless I have excess of it and it won't be when you ask for it

If wat is mine is her's then wats her's shud be mine as well.

If not then, let me keep wats mine n u keep wats urs.

I dey craze. The me him marry abi na my property?

amokeme:
I won't necessarily "hide" it from him, I won't even talk about it. It's a different thing for him to ask me if I have a land, and I say no (now, this is deceit and not being honest ) but in a situation where I don't talk about it or let it known, he won't have any idea that such exist, and I don't think that is dishonesty.

Well that is technically lying by omission.

peeparty:

Do the pm thingy thanks

dont mind him ooo, he already knows

Only insecure men do that.

All they need is understanding and love i will transfer all my asset to my wife when am married and if she wants it in my name no p so far am not forcing her or she forcing me

pcguru1:


Well that is technically lying by omission.

I won't agree to the word "lying" cause it is not
Let's say she has malaria( ) now, she didn't tell him about it because he did not ask.. she goes to the hospital for treatment, and act as tho she never had malaria, will you regard that as lying as well?

amokeme:
I won't necessarily "hide" it from him, I won't even talk about it. It's a different thing for him to ask me if I have a land, and I say no (now, this is deceit and not being honest ) but in a situation where I don't talk about it or let it known, he won't have any idea that such exist, and I don't think that is dishonesty.

i guess if thats what you believe, BUT let us reverse the case for a minute..... and imagine that your husband had a kid before marriage, and since he didnt talk about it or let you know, you wouldnt know that the child existed. wouldnt you think that this is dishonesty?!

MRBrownJ:


i guess if thats what you believe, BUT let us reverse the case for a minute..... and imagine that your husband had a kid before marriage, and since he didnt talk about it or let you know, you wouldnt know that the child existed. wouldnt you think that this is dishonesty?!

I won't as long as I NEVER get to know and so long as the child's essence never come up.
So its just as good as saying there is no child.. (ignorance )
But really, you can't compare a child senario with this na, that's an unfair case comparism

peeparty:


@the word willingly.

The two shall become one na...shebi its for
better and for worse? including properties.

And I dont see 'compulsion' anywhere in the above biblical quote you cited.


The question is will you sincerely do same for her if reverse was the case?

amokeme:
I won't agree to the word "lying" cause it is not
Let's say she has malaria( ) now, she didn't tell him about it because he did not ask.. she goes to the hospital for treatment, and act as tho she never had malaria, will you regard that as lying as well?

You don't have to change the property to his name. The property is already his when you are married under the law (Marriage Act). To the issue of whether you will tell him or not, one of the challenges we have in this generation is that we use less grievous words for bad things to make it less frightening. e.g Adultery, we say it is extra-marital affair. Adultery sound frightening, while EMA sounds cool. The truth is when you are married to someone and you have something that you are not telling him/her either by omission or commission, the appropriate word is DECEIT. It is one of the factors that scatter marriage like fast. If you can by omission not tell him/her about your property, then you can do same if you had a child before marriage.

I won't ask her for such thing and I wouldn't encourage her to if she has the intention. But if she insist, I will ask her to put it in our son's name. Lobatan

amokeme:
I won't agree to the word "lying" cause it is not
Let's say she has malaria( ) now, she didn't tell him about it because he did not ask.. she goes to the hospital for treatment, and act as tho she never had malaria, will you regard that as lying as well?

Well yes because the culprit is going the extra mile to omit those information, in your case it's a bit mild compared to Conspiracy of Silence. then again i see no big deal telling someone about properties, but for you hiding it might have it's positive side, because I have watched enough CSI and Law and Order to know husbands can kill their wives just to get their hands on her property.

Only at gunpoint. I can only do it for my kids.

peeparty:


@the word willingly.

The two shall become one na...shebi its for
better and for worse? including properties.

why are you so bent on getting someone else's property, are you planning to murder someone and take over because that's one of the scenarios it usually leads to.

BIGkoboko:



But if he dies you would want to inherit his own.

For Christ sakes must everything related to relationships & marriage on nl always be turned into a battle of sexes. Haba mana!