fr3do:
Stop this slavery! Employ an adult part time to do chores for you.

First sensible comment.

Momcherry:
When I read d heading I was thinking of something worse than what u posted. Just thank God d only issue is that she left without you or your husbands consent leaving your child with neighbours.

I can't leave a 15yr old maid with my husband 4 two weeks no matter how holy he might be.

Ah aha Mommy Sheri wetin ur husband wan do with a 15 year old girl, abeg I be man too o, we no be dog na, ah ah what happin na?

5minsmadness:

Bros I wasnt supporting you.
I think you were rude to her.

Alright....

Don't need a support though...

There was no reason for any insinuation. The Op never complained of her husband molesting or harassing the girl. If she wouldn't leave a 25yr old with her husband no matter how holy, she could have kept it to herself.

No need for the suggestive comment.

And I don't think my response was rude.

Thanks

OP you're a careless woman and that girl actually did you a big favour, she could have had se.x with your husband or kidnapped your baby

Fast forward to this time, d official assignment that would take me away from the country was close. I couldn't risk leaving her in Lagos with my super active toddler for almost two weeks that I would be away. I had to take them to my husband.

Early on Thursday, 19th, I received a call that my girl had left home with her belongings and she left a note that she was angry with me that I did not let her go to school and that if not that she loved my son ehn.....

My husband's job is a shift- based job and he was on night duty to be back home by 8am the morning she left.

A neighbour called my husband who was at work that the girl took my son to them very early in d morning that we sent her on an errand and that they should borrow her N500. They took my son from her and told her to wait for my husband to return. They said they did not know when she left.

The girl scattered the whole house took all the pieces of meat in d pot, the juice packs at home. I Knew she wouldn't get money, my husband isn't as careless.

My husband spoke with her mum that didn't sound surprised and all she said was that she would scold her when the girl comes home. Yes, d girl is home now.

I was devastated and destabilized for two days. I never ever maltreated this girl. My conscience is as clear as a gallon of distilled water.

Well, my son is now with my mum.

My mum also spoke with her mum that the girl said neighbors were calling her omo-odo (house girl). She left the 6th day she got there. We stay in a compound of 5 flats where everyone minds his business. So who called her a house-girl.

I think the mistake we made was that we got her a phone and even loaded the phone. My husband said he noticed she was always calling someone and he once heard her telling the receiver the address of where she was.

I really wish to visit her mum when I return and I hope to see her and ask her questions.

I really appreciate my family for staying with me throughout this period and I'm glad I'm not hypertensive maybe I'd have lost this pregnancy. And I thank God most that she didn't hurt my son because I never hurt her.

Well, it's all good. Life goes on.

I am not trying to discourage people from getting house helps....







@Op I really feel your pain from the bad experience you had as regards your house help. But some salient points needs to be raised here, irrespective of what you do for people a human being is still and will remain a human being.

The young girl in question felt cheated that while will she be denied education! Remember this is city where education is priced. Forget that thing that they are poor, poverty those not take away common sense all the time. Even if you don't adopt her she may probably still find her way round school may be as an external candidate of sort. So you sending her to a conventional schooling method for her may not necessarily be viewed as a privileged by her. Hence the reason she absconded.

Now considering the nature of job and that of your husby which gives little or no time to properly manage the home I doubt if any future househelp will want you to trade her going to school with your own career arrangements. It will surely backlash again, or what would you do if she is writing her exams nko? And how long do you wish to do this?


Why not speak to your husband for two of you to review your work life, child rearing is serious work my sister. Ask our mothers then how they mould us in the 80's and be assured they gave us 100percent dedication that's why we panned out to be of good morals today. Everything is not money! Social vices abound nowadays that kids pick up things easily, let monitor our kids so as to give us peace of mind tomorrow.

As my granny will say " always put yourself in a position in life where money is the one looking for you and not the other way round",

So sorry for my epistle, it is well.

shndy:
Nigerians! Do u know employing d services of an underage maid is a criminal offence? No matter how u look at it.

Another sensible comment.

gabinogem:
House help are always not helpful. They even add more stress to the already stressful life at home... that's why I always advice folks to engage in family planning. If ur home was well planned, such a situation wouldn't have occurred. Good spacing is healthy for breeding.

It is not possible to survive without house help,she just need to find a better one

Sh0llypopz:


How much is minimum wage per hour in Nigeria?? Calculate the number of hours that this girl would work as a maid and a nanny in the home, and figure out her salary for a month. Now deduct expenses for books and sundry, I bet the op is the one getting the better deal here.

The op is not her madam and there is no dignity in child labor. You clearly have a barbaric mentality.

Another sensible post.

Rukemi291:
I work with a very wonderful organization and as my job demands, one of my very crucial academic meetings is always held outside Nigeria.

I am also married with a 1yr 11 month old son and pregnant (few weeks gone).... My husband works and lives in a town that is 4hours away from Lagos where I work.

The need for a house help arose when morning sickness started. So I told a lot of people in the office that I needed a girl. Luckily one of the staff told me she could help me send down her half sister who is 15years old and her mum can no longer carter for because they are poor. She said she's also with the girl's elder sister.

I spoke with the girl's mum, she was so excited and prayed for me and all she requested was for her girl to go to school. I promised her that the girl would go to school. The girl was brought to me on 19th October.

So I went in search of a school and I was lucky she was admited into a Lagos State Government School that is close by. The principal said that it was late actually but she doesn't want the girl to be idle at home, so she could resume immediately but her academic session would be from January. I paid all d fees and got her two sets of uniform. She started school early this month.

My son has also started school, so she drops him in school and picks him up when she's back too.

Fast forward to this time, d official assignment that would take me away from the country was close. I couldn't risk leaving her in Lagos with my super active toddler for almost two weeks that I would be away. I had to take them to my husband.

Early on Thursday, 19th, I received a call that my girl had left home with her belongings and she left a note that she was angry with me that I did not let her go to school and that if not that she loved my son ehn.....

My husband's job is a shift- based job and he was on night duty to be back home by 8am the morning she left.

A neighbour called my husband who was at work that the girl took my son to them very early in d morning that we sent her on an errand and that they should borrow her N500. They took my son from her and told her to wait for my husband to return. They said they did not know when she left.

The girl scattered the whole house took all the pieces of meat in d pot, the juice packs at home. I Knew she wouldn't get money, my husband isn't as careless.

My husband spoke with her mum that didn't sound surprised and all she said was that she would scold her when the girl comes home. Yes, d girl is home now.

you also are very detailed to what you and what you did not do for her... And I'm sure if she had done you wrong you wouldnt have forgotten, perhaps wouldnt have forgiven. I do not support what that girl did, totally not. But change your heart (we dont need to know all you did for her for you to win our gratitude, concern, affection. Whatever terminology that you can deal with) pride and ego are mistakened for right and proper

@Op I really feel your pain from the bad experience you had as regards your house help. But some salient points needs to be raised here, irrespective of what you do for people a human being is still and will remain a human being.

The young girl in question felt cheated that while will she be denied education! Remember this is city where education is priced. Forget that thing that they are poor, poverty those not take away common sense all the time. Even if you don't adopt her she may probably still find her way round school may be as an external candidate of sort. So you sending her to a conventional schooling method for her may not necessarily be viewed as a privileged by her. Hence the reason she absconded.

Now considering the nature of job and that of your husby which gives little or no time to properly manage the home I doubt if any future househelp will want you to trade her going to school with your own career arrangements. It will surely backlash again, or what would you do if she is writing her exams nko? And how long do you wish to do this?


Why not speak to your husband for two of you to review your work life, child rearing is serious work my sister. Ask our mothers then how they mould us in the 80's and be assured they gave us 100percent dedication that's why we panned out to be of good morals today. Everything is not money! Social vices abound nowadays that kids pick up things easily, let monitor our kids so as to give us peace of mind tomorrow.

As my granny will say " always put yourself in a position in life where money is the one looking for you and not the other way round",

So sorry for my epistle, it is well.[/quote]

I am tired of hearing this same arguments all the time. I don't think a 15 year old girl is too young to assist in the home. If she was the posters child shey the mom will be doing house chores and the daughter will sit down or taking care of a younger one is a big deal.

And u all keep wondering why our girls are not better prepared to be wives and mothers.

On this same forum your see women being bashed everyday for choosing to stay at home and take care of there kids instead of pursuing a career or starting a business.

Not all women can be mediorce in there choosen field, should she sabotage her growth in the office so she is labeled a good wife.

I really don't understand anymore

Sh0llypopz:
I'm so confused as to why everybody is feeling sorry for the op; da fvck??!!

How many of you would be fine if your employer tells you that you wouldn't be getting paid for two weeks while you're working because they need to travel?

Her education was the payment for her services. Btw, isn't Lagos State Public schools free?? How much is the op paying for tuition??


Secondly, we are dealing with a 15 yr old child here, not an adult. So, this young girl must be treated as such. Is she allowed to eat in the op's home?? If yes, then how did she steal meat and juice?? As far as I'm concerned, she took food to eat for her journey.


Thirdly, the op clearly dismissed the girls'd feelings and it's obvious that the op hasn't taking the time to get to know this young girl. Nigerians look down on their helps and talk to them disrespectfully, it's not far fetched for the neighbors to refer to her as omo-odo. The op is not the recipient of the insult, so she is not in a position to dismiss the little girl's claims.


Yes, speaking to the the mother would be the right thing to do here. Take time to build genuine relationships with those that work in your home. Especially, if you are going to trust them with your child.

God will bless you for your analysis.

Toying with the girls education...nonsense

Ok I have read lots of good comments here need I just add,if you'll need someone to babysit while you're at work,get a creche close to your place of work or better still get an elderly nanny.Am totally against using anyone below the age of eighteen as a help in the house (there is a law against it in this country)Last line,if you cannot afford to pay professionals to do your home chores for you,then please consider enlisting part time people who can do tedious home chores on weekends.

Rukemi291:
gabinigem....
What else is family planning? is a 2year spacing not family planning enough? I don't want to train kids with pension. I'm still young and this is the best time to have kids so as to focus on my life, my family and career.

I wish to see her to really know the reason for the lies. What exactly chased her from my home?

Sincerely, I am so happy mature minds are here. Reasonably thought out comments. Bless you guys a bunch.

Yes, she's never coming back. NEVER. and really, they should look for me.

most young househelps are hypersensitive and believe you will maltreat them or are maltreating them, they are psychologically distorted even if you treat him/her fairly. Of a truth , every child is better of under his/her parents, no matter how poor the parents are.

Rukemi291:
I work with a very wonderful organization and as my job demands, one of my very crucial academic meetings is always held outside Nigeria.

I am also married with a 1yr 11 month old son and pregnant (few weeks gone).... My husband works and lives in a town that is 4hours away from Lagos where I work.

The need for a house help arose when morning sickness started. So I told a lot of people in the office that I needed a girl. Luckily one of the staff told me she could help me send down her half sister who is 15years old and her mum can no longer carter for because they are poor. She said she's also with the girl's elder sister.

I spoke with the girl's mum, she was so excited and prayed for me and all she requested was for her girl to go to school. I promised her that the girl would go to school. The girl was brought to me on 19th October.

So I went in search of a school and I was lucky she was admited into a Lagos State Government School that is close by. The principal said that it was late actually but she doesn't want the girl to be idle at home, so she could resume immediately but her academic session would be from January. I paid all d fees and got her two sets of uniform. She started school early this month.

My son has also started school, so she drops him in school and picks him up when she's back too.

Fast forward to this time, d official assignment that would take me away from the country was close. I couldn't risk leaving her in Lagos with my super active toddler for almost two weeks that I would be away. I had to take them to my husband.

Early on Thursday, 19th, I received a call that my girl had left home with her belongings and she left a note that she was angry with me that I did not let her go to school and that if not that she loved my son ehn.....

My husband's job is a shift- based job and he was on night duty to be back home by 8am the morning she left.

A neighbour called my husband who was at work that the girl took my son to them very early in d morning that we sent her on an errand and that they should borrow her N500. They took my son from her and told her to wait for my husband to return. They said they did not know when she left.

The girl scattered the whole house took all the pieces of meat in d pot, the juice packs at home. I Knew she wouldn't get money, my husband isn't as careless.

My husband spoke with her mum that didn't sound surprised and all she said was that she would scold her when the girl comes home. Yes, d girl is home now.

I was devastated and destabilized for two days. I never ever maltreated this girl. My conscience is as clear as a gallon of distilled water.

Well, my son is now with my mum.

My mum also spoke with her mum that the girl said neighbors were calling her omo-odo (house girl). She left the 6th day she got there. We stay in a compound of 5 flats where everyone minds his business. So who called her a house-girl.

I think the mistake we made was that we got her a phone and even loaded the phone. My husband said he noticed she was always calling someone and he once heard her telling the receiver the address of where she was.

I really wish to visit her mum when I return and I hope to see her and ask her questions.

I really appreciate my family for staying with me throughout this period and I'm glad I'm not hypertensive maybe I'd have lost this pregnancy. And I thank God most that she didn't hurt my son because I never hurt her.

Well, it's all good. Life goes on.

I am not trying to discourage people from getting house helps....

Well, this is your version of the story.

By this report I still have blames for you still. The girl was right by calling off the contract. -you agreed she would be going to school in Lagos, so why was she to be trsfd off Lagos and school without holding a proper conversation with her?

All the best, lady. Call us for chicken when cutie arrives. Cheers.

Rukemi291:


Yes, I have spoken to her. She was so apologetic and surprised too. We will see when I return.

Shollypopz.... I doubt you read well/understood the post.

You speak of chores..... I have a washing machine... so washing plates is a chore? Picking up my boy from school with transportation fully paid for... is a chore? They are things I do myself before she came.

mind you, she hawks for her mum where they stay.

From ur post I can see you don't have a child yet if at all you are working... When you have all combined like it is for me, I will task you to come back and read your post and judge yourself.

Did you even read the part that her academic year would start counting from January? She was in JS2 with very poor results and her mum said she should repeat JS1 so that she would improve. I assure u, we had both started learning together too.

You speak of tuition fee obviously u didn't read d post. Did u see that I just registered her? U won't pay for registration? uniforms and all? I paid.

You are the type that gets a teacher on one topic for weeks.

Does your child go to a government school?

Rukemi291:
I work with a very wonderful organization and as my job demands, one of my very crucial academic meetings is always held outside Nigeria.

I am also married with a 1yr 11 month old son and pregnant (few weeks gone).... My husband works and lives in a town that is 4hours away from Lagos where I work.

The need for a house help arose when morning sickness started. So I told a lot of people in the office that I needed a girl. Luckily one of the staff told me she could help me send down her half sister who is 15years old and her mum can no longer carter for because they are poor. She said she's also with the girl's elder sister.

I spoke with the girl's mum, she was so excited and prayed for me and all she requested was for her girl to go to school. I promised her that the girl would go to school. The girl was brought to me on 19th October.

So I went in search of a school and I was lucky she was admited into a Lagos State Government School that is close by. The principal said that it was late actually but she doesn't want the girl to be idle at home, so she could resume immediately but her academic session would be from January. I paid all d fees and got her two sets of uniform. She started school early this month.

My son has also started school, so she drops him in school and picks him up when she's back too.

Fast forward to this time, d official assignment that would take me away from the country was close. I couldn't risk leaving her in Lagos with my super active toddler for almost two weeks that I would be away. I had to take them to my husband.

Early on Thursday, 19th, I received a call that my girl had left home with her belongings and she left a note that she was angry with me that I did not let her go to school and that if not that she loved my son ehn.....

My husband's job is a shift- based job and he was on night duty to be back home by 8am the morning she left.

A neighbour called my husband who was at work that the girl took my son to them very early in d morning that we sent her on an errand and that they should borrow her N500. They took my son from her and told her to wait for my husband to return. They said they did not know when she left.

The girl scattered the whole house took all the pieces of meat in d pot, the juice packs at home. I Knew she wouldn't get money, my husband isn't as careless.

My husband spoke with her mum that didn't sound surprised and all she said was that she would scold her when the girl comes home. Yes, d girl is home now.

I was devastated and destabilized for two days. I never ever maltreated this girl. My conscience is as clear as a gallon of distilled water.

Well, my son is now with my mum.

My mum also spoke with her mum that the girl said neighbors were calling her omo-odo (house girl). She left the 6th day she got there. We stay in a compound of 5 flats where everyone minds his business. So who called her a house-girl.

I think the mistake we made was that we got her a phone and even loaded the phone. My husband said he noticed she was always calling someone and he once heard her telling the receiver the address of where she was.

I really wish to visit her mum when I return and I hope to see her and ask her questions.

I really appreciate my family for staying with me throughout this period and I'm glad I'm not hypertensive maybe I'd have lost this pregnancy. And I thank God most that she didn't hurt my son because I never hurt her.

Well, it's all good. Life goes on.

I am not trying to discourage people from getting house helps....

Well, this is your version of the story.

By this report I still have blames for you still. The girl was right by calling off the contract. -you agreed she would be going to school in Lagos, so why was she to be trsfd off Lagos and school without holding a proper conversation with her?

All the best, lady. Invite us for chicken when cutie arrives. Cheers.

Some women get mind sha,leaving ur young family for two weeks!oga is busy,madam is very busy,baba that money ur hustling for is it more important?abeg look for a job that will allow you to be with ur family ESP wen ur Oga is super busy.

gabinogem:
since u feel two years is good enough, then deal with the situation. There will be a time where we will be faced with choosing either our family or our career. Life's all about calculative choices which sums up to effective planning.

Why don't you keep quiet? You're such a Nasty, grimy little fellow. Women make these sacrifices to manage their careers and family, and it's a balancing act that we should not shame or guilt-trip them about.

Rubbish

Of what use is this form of marriage for God's sake?

Get a matured woman between 50-65 to your nanny.
Preferably older than yourself and hubby. best morning to evening shift ,she should sleepover when u travel out.
I think u would hav time for family and career ............gudluckk

I dnt buy d idea of those tellin u not to go to d mother. U went to dem wen u wanted d girl. U still need to go dia and explain tins to dem and let u and dem confirm dat d girl has come bak to dem in case of 2moro dey'll accuse u and even said u neva cared 2 come. It may be hard 4 u explain ur reason den.

Majority of househelps 2day r evil. Imagine, a househelp forced a stone into d anus of a toddler under her care. Her reason is dat d baby poo a lot. Anoda one fed a baby with some quantities of kerosene alleging dat her aunty used to beat her. Well 4 us we r lucky wt d one living wt us. Though we dnt take ha as a house help. She's lik a daughter. Her parents (4rm Nasarawa State) gave her to my wife(Igbo lady) as a gift after ha Youth service dia. As at den we wia not yet married. Dey love my wife and asked her to make d girl be like herself. D girl was 5yrs den(2010).
D girl takes care of our kids even more dan we d parents.

Okay. All those on the front page speaking against house-helps, imagine the helps are one of your own, would you easily degrade them the same way? Or, are you people trying to imply that your adolescence was saintly? Does being a house help automatically translate adolescents to adults? Even the lady complaining, if you're wanting in parent-craft, your own kids will do worse to you. Fine. Some helps may even be witches or wizards, okay. Are our own biological children free from witchcraft and the occult? Forgive the lass and move on. It's not the reason you people will condemn every help in hostile generic terms. Every child has a right to good life and environment. I bet you that the same help might live with someone else and not dream of leaving. Onesimus was a thorn to Philemon, but living with Paul the apostle turned him into a saintly servant. Did your husband bother to caution her when he noticed her odd calls? The heart of the young are like bare earth which must grow weed and thorns if not catered/cared for. I have heard of such horrible helps, but the attitude of some help mistresses is hateful. I'm not in support of the maid's misconduct a bit, yet I condemn the generalised condemnation meted out on helps in this thread. There are good helps, besides. Choose mature helps today

gabinogem:
House help are always not helpful. They even add more stress to the already stressful life at home... that's why I always advice folks to engage in family planning. If ur home was well planned, such a situation wouldn't have occurred. Good spacing is healthy for breeding.

FALSE



we once had a house help whom we named blessing ( may you see help and blessing all the days of your life) this girl is just everything. Smart, intelligent, hardworking and above all I've never met a bigger clown than her (despite being a joker myself). This girl would make everyone of us laugh so hard I cried bitterly when that bastard woman took her away when I even promised to double her money


How I wish I knew where blessing is now. I would kidnap her and report my good intentions about her to the police station

Madam just thank ur God cos some of d househelp can be bad whether treated well or not

gabinogem:
House help are always not helpful. They even add more stress to the already stressful life at home... that's why I always advice folks to engage in family planning. If ur home was well planned, such a situation wouldn't have occurred. Good spacing is healthy for breeding.

Ur right abt child spacing.. Bt I feel, dat d factor surrounding nt following d rules is cos of Age... Most Nigerians marry late....

The F.G needs to do something fast about under age nannies & career centred couples.


If you know you cannot manage your career and your family, then don't even think about getting married.


I think the institution called marriage should be the sole right of couples who are willing to give their offsprings adequate attention.

Marriage is not a must, you should have stayed SINGLE. There is no dignity in avoidable stress.

Nigeria needs to quickly utilize the Saudi Arabia strategy. Married women should be banned from taking on difficult and time consuming jobs. For those who want the stress, they should stay off marriage.

I don't know why I hate young couples who live apart. I see them as desperate folks whose interests lie on WEDDING RING & MONEY.

you are lucky that your house help did not disappear with your son.....................

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Thank God she didn't hurt your son. That would have been worse. As long as you know you didn't do anything to warrant her misbehavior, try to forget the episode. Anyone who decides to get a house help must do so with prayers and must remain prayerful. The devil use a lot of them to cause havoc and only a few of them appreciate what you do to help them. You must be very devastated considering how well u tried to treat her. It is well.

Sh0llypopz:


How much is minimum wage per hour in Nigeria?? Calculate the number of hours that this girl would work as a maid and a nanny in the home, and figure out her salary for a month. Now deduct expenses for books and sundry, I bet the op is the one getting the better deal here.

The op is not her madam and there is no dignity in child labor. You clearly have a barbaric mentality.

Howz op getting a better deal? Won't you calculate her feeding, clothing, housing, transportation, nuisance value and as you said all and sundry.

Rukemi291:
I work with a very wonderful organization and as my job demands, one of my very crucial academic meetings is always held outside Nigeria.

I am also married with a 1yr 11 month old son and pregnant (few weeks gone).... My husband works and lives in a town that is 4hours away from Lagos where I work.

The need for a house help arose when morning sickness started. So I told a lot of people in the office that I needed a girl. Luckily one of the staff told me she could help me send down her half sister who is 15years old and her mum can no longer carter for because they are poor. She said she's also with the girl's elder sister.

I spoke with the girl's mum, she was so excited and prayed for me and all she requested was for her girl to go to school. I promised her that the girl would go to school. The girl was brought to me on 19th October.

So I went in search of a school and I was lucky she was admited into a Lagos State Government School that is close by. The principal said that it was late actually but she doesn't want the girl to be idle at home, so she could resume immediately but her academic session would be from January. I paid all d fees and got her two sets of uniform. She started school early this month.

My son has also started school, so she drops him in school and picks him up when she's back too.

Fast forward to this time, d official assignment that would take me away from the country was close. I couldn't risk leaving her in Lagos with my super active toddler for almost two weeks that I would be away. I had to take them to my husband.

Early on Thursday, 19th, I received a call that my girl had left home with her belongings and she left a note that she was angry with me that I did not let her go to school and that if not that she loved my son ehn.....

My husband's job is a shift- based job and he was on night duty to be back home by 8am the morning she left.

A neighbour called my husband who was at work that the girl took my son to them very early in d morning that we sent her on an errand and that they should borrow her N500. They took my son from her and told her to wait for my husband to return. They said they did not know when she left.

The girl scattered the whole house took all the pieces of meat in d pot, the juice packs at home. I Knew she wouldn't get money, my husband isn't as careless.

My husband spoke with her mum that didn't sound surprised and all she said was that she would scold her when the girl comes home. Yes, d girl is home now.

I was devastated and destabilized for two days. I never ever maltreated this girl. My conscience is as clear as a gallon of distilled water.

Well, my son is now with my mum.

My mum also spoke with her mum that the girl said neighbors were calling her omo-odo (house girl). She left the 6th day she got there. We stay in a compound of 5 flats where everyone minds his business. So who called her a house-girl.

I think the mistake we made was that we got her a phone and even loaded the phone. My husband said he noticed she was always calling someone and he once heard her telling the receiver the address of where she was.

I really wish to visit her mum when I return and I hope to see her and ask her questions.

I really appreciate my family for staying with me throughout this period and I'm glad I'm not hypertensive maybe I'd have lost this pregnancy. And I thank God most that she didn't hurt my son because I never hurt her.

Well, it's all good. Life goes on.

I am not trying to discourage people from getting house helps....

Madam no vex but no house help. The atrocities they cause are more than the good. Imagine ur house help leave ur toddler with neighbours? I almost fainted hearing that. No mata how bad or difficult our kids stay with our parents.

Ahahahahhhahahshshshshshahahahgsgs. Funny guy what are you insinuating..... Anyways he still be of help in the topping up things you know

ITbomb:

No need to go, she said she's pregnant