| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by volcanoash(f): 4:40am On Dec 03, 2015 |
You dream about and fuckkz cr7 using some Love Machine, now someone want to fuckkz you in real life and you are complaining. |
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| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by permanentgrace(m): 4:52am On Dec 03, 2015 |
kaziblake:
Am scared I won't lie I'm or i am, not the above as you wrote. For the topic, i beg go and start your work if you really need it. That mad looking dreadlock carrier wont do anything. 1 Like |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by miqos02(m): 5:06am On Dec 03, 2015 |
good kaziblake:
thanks I won't go cos am so scared right now |
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| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by stchinedu: 5:16am On Dec 03, 2015 |
kaziblake:
Good day all, Please pardon my grammatical error if you observe any because as am typing this am not my self.
I finished my ND last year and proceed to work because I want to get my Bsc direct instead of going for HND. So I got a job at Palms lekki. Right from when I started, he was already showing me sign that he was interested in me but I just waved it aside. After working for about 1 year and 1month, the man asked me out but I ignored him and continued working, since that time he started treating me anyhow, shouting at me, but I endured. October this year, he asked me to choose either my job or I quit. I had no option than to quit. I used the opportunity to register for jamb and attend preparatory class. So, I told my mum I want to do part time job and attend lectures at the same time to get money, she agreed.
I started hunting for job and told my friends about it. Last week, my friend called me and told me about an opening in their organisation, so I went there on Monday. Immediatly I saw the manager I knew I was in for trouble (a manager with dread and ear rings drinking dry gin on duty). He saw me and smiled, ask of my name age and qualifications, I told him everything about myself. After the interview, he asked me to resume on Wednesday that's today. I prepared and went to work. After sometimes, he called me into his office and started saying silly thing "how he liked me from the first day he saw me, blah blah blah". I was just looking at him like ode, after saying his mind, the next thing I heard was "can we have sex now?". I was so shocked to hear it from him but all the same I played cool and started telling him stories of about my bf and how my mum will kill me if she found out. He still insist,i lied again that I was on my period, he said he want to see the period. I was shocked and short of words. I told him I wasn't interested, the next thing he said was if I was not interested I should go, so I got up, picked my bag and left his office, met my friend and told her everything that transpired at the office between me and her boss,on my way out if the building I met the security man who asked me if I was not working that day, I told him no and explained everything to him he got so angry and promised to do something about it. Just this evening my friend called me saying the security man told their boss about what happened between me and the manager that the man would like to speak to me, the man called me and ask me to come tomorrow around 8am. My questions are: did I go far by reporting him to the security or should I go tomorrow (although am no longer interested in the job) because the manager looks scary, he can arrange for me if the owner sacks him, am so scared right now pls matured advice, thanks. My honest advice. .. It will be good you go, not necenecessarily to get the job, to set the record straight. Reasons: 1. If you don't go, you will put the gate man at a tight corner. Don't forget he reported to the boss on your behalf and that prompted the invite. If you refuse to go, it will make the gate man, who at this time is your helper, to be a lier. That might cost him his job and that can be painful. 2. Your friend will be pleased too. I guess your friend knows the boss and I am sure the boss is already impressed by your decency for not falling for the manager's 'untamed libido'. It's a credit to your friend and to you too. If you don't go, it will turn the whole 'story' to mere rumore and that will not be good for your friend's reputation. 3. Finally, like I said at the beginning, it's not a must to work there but it will be good to go set the record straight, at least save the face of those who have put their reputation and job at stake to help you. The boss is trying to play a good elder who hears from the horse's mouth before taking action. Even if you leave after narrating your encounter to the boss, you will be doing a lot of good to the gate man, your friend and future job seekers. *my two cents. 5 Likes |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Pidggin(f): 5:48am On Dec 03, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:
you shouldn't have reported him, I mean he's not the only one in the game. your guess is as good as mine, he could be sacked and hell knows he'd come in search of you. for safety sake don't go. sweep that under the carpet and concentrate on your job hunt. I just hope you get a job this time without perverse encounter from the Manager. Are you for real? If your sister experienced this will you tell her to sweep it under the carpet? @OP, I see no reason why you want to chicken out at this point. If you do not do something about it, he will do it to someone else. I know you may not care if he does, but sometimes it is actually worth it to help others if you can. Why should he sack you for his own shortcomings? 3 Likes |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by bayulll01(m): 5:58am On Dec 03, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:
you shouldn't have reported him, I mean he's not the only one in the game. your guess is as good as mine, he could be sacked and hell knows he'd come in search of you. for safety sake don't go. sweep that under the carpet and concentrate on your job hunt. I just hope you get a job this time without perverse encounter from the Manager. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Ilaje44(m): 6:06am On Dec 03, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:
you shouldn't have reported him, I mean he's not the only one in the game. your guess is as good as mine, he could be sacked and hell knows he'd come in search of you. for safety sake don't go. sweep that under the carpet and concentrate on your job hunt. I just hope you get a job this time without perverse encounter from the Manager. Iru isokuso wo leyi? Woo, lo wa ibikan joko si joo.
Some people need to lose their job to regain their sense. How can you expect a better Nigeria when you continue to tolerate indecent behavior, taking advantage of vulnerable people, and abuse of power?
@OP: Young woman, I'd encourage you to help in combating this menace. If you're afraid, you can let the boss know about your fear. If he's sensible, he would understand you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by awa(m): 6:08am On Dec 03, 2015 |
You have made alot of mistakes already and I encourage you not to make more. Leave the Company alone. If you are from a family that cannot comfortably support your University education why not go for your HND? Thereafter you further your education. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by sunch(m): 6:20am On Dec 03, 2015 |
I dont know you nor seen you, but you should have it at the back of your mind that you would be addressed just as you are dressed. Wearing hugs, skippy and exposed wears would attract undue and unpleasant approaches. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 6:28am On Dec 03, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:
you shouldn't have reported him, I mean he's not the only one in the game. your guess is as good as mine, he could be sacked and hell knows he'd come in search of you. for safety sake don't go. sweep that under the carpet and concentrate on your job hunt. I just hope you get a job this time without perverse encounter from the Manager. So she shouldn't have reported him and allow such to continue to happen.How many have gone through this from same man,and if it's your sister you would support she gives in. 1 Like |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by frenchboy(m): 6:39am On Dec 03, 2015 |
Good morning....pls i am new here if some repley to ur comment,how can i write d person back...pls i dnt knw how to reply msg hereñwhat shud i click |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 6:41am On Dec 03, 2015 |
On matters like this, one has to be as cunning and wise as a serpent yet calm as a dove. My sister please go, this might serve as the end of the Manager.
Secondly what's the take your mum on this issue I feel you should take advice from mature and educated elders.
Also consider the stake of your friend and the gateman who reported the issue on your behalf.
May God save us oo. 1 Like |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 6:43am On Dec 03, 2015 |
emekamigo:
So she shouldn't have reported him and allow such to continue to happen.How many have gone through this from same man,and if it's your sister you would support she gives in. . . . . I considered her safety first, I never in any way support the perverse attitude of the man, even if she is to go, she should find a way to make known to the Boss her fears for safety sake and thereafter the pervert should be dealt with accordingly. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 6:45am On Dec 03, 2015 |
Vikmoks:
On matters like this, one has to be as cunning and wise as a serpent yet calm as a dove. My sister please go, this might serve as the end of the Manager.
But who knows the boss might be no different, for him to have employed such a manager with such a ranty appearance from your description... May God save us oo. . . . . you have a point. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by LuckyLadolce(m): 6:49am On Dec 03, 2015 |
kaziblake:
Good day all, Please pardon my grammatical error if you observe any because as am typing this am not my self.
I finished my ND last year and proceed to work because I want to get my Bsc direct instead of going for HND. So I got a job at Palms lekki. Right from when I started, he was already showing me sign that he was interested in me but I just waved it aside. After working for about 1 year and 1month, the man asked me out but I ignored him and continued working, since that time he started treating me anyhow, shouting at me, but I endured. October this year, he asked me to choose either my job or I quit. I had no option than to quit. I used the opportunity to register for jamb and attend preparatory class. So, I told my mum I want to do part time job and attend lectures at the same time to get money, she agreed.
I started hunting for job and told my friends about it. Last week, my friend called me and told me about an opening in their organisation, so I went there on Monday. Immediatly I saw the manager I knew I was in for trouble (a manager with dread and ear rings drinking dry gin on duty). He saw me and smiled, ask of my name age and qualifications, I told him everything about myself. After the interview, he asked me to resume on Wednesday that's today. I prepared and went to work. After sometimes, he called me into his office and started saying silly thing "how he liked me from the first day he saw me, blah blah blah". I was just looking at him like ode, after saying his mind, the next thing I heard was "can we have sex now?". I was so shocked to hear it from him but all the same I played cool and started telling him stories of about my bf and how my mum will kill me if she found out. He still insist,i lied again that I was on my period, he said he want to see the period. I was shocked and short of words. I told him I wasn't interested, the next thing he said was if I was not interested I should go, so I got up, picked my bag and left his office, met my friend and told her everything that transpired at the office between me and her boss,on my way out if the building I met the security man who asked me if I was not working that day, I told him no and explained everything to him he got so angry and promised to do something about it. Just this evening my friend called me saying the security man told their boss about what happened between me and the manager that the man would like to speak to me, the man called me and ask me to come tomorrow around 8am. My questions are: did I go far by reporting him to the security or should I go tomorrow (although am no longer interested in the job) because the manager looks scary, he can arrange for me if the owner sacks him, am so scared right now pls matured advice, thanks. What's really their line of business in that organisation? I will love to know about this before I proceed to give you my little words of wisdom. Thanks. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 6:50am On Dec 03, 2015 |
frenchboy:
Good morning....pls i am new here if some repley to ur comment,how can i write d person back...pls i dnt knw how to reply msg hereñwhat shud i click . . . . under the person's comment , click 'quote' after typing click submit. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by mrdino(m): 6:55am On Dec 03, 2015 |
pls, don't go bak. if d company needs u to testify against d manager, u can do that thru a phone conversation. what kind of establishment keeps a male manager with dreads and earrings sef plus drinking alcohol on duty, that's not a good place to work. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 6:55am On Dec 03, 2015 |
AVRecruit:
OP do u were trousers? tight clothes? start wearing gowns and niqqab and pretend to b muslim. Even if she wear Gbagada, some Men are just Perverts. 1 Like |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by coronaprof(m): 6:58am On Dec 03, 2015 |
Pray and be bold. Go, God of Oyedepo help us |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 7:07am On Dec 03, 2015 |
Ilaje44:
Iru isokuso wo leyi? Woo, lo wa ibikan joko si joo.
Some people need to lose their job to regain their sense. How can you expect a better Nigeria when you continue to tolerate indecent behavior, taking advantage of vulnerable people, and abuse of power?
@OP: Young woman, I'd encourage you to help in combating this menace. If you're afraid, you can let the boss know about your fear. If he's sensible, he would understand you. . . . . can you et least translate what you wrote. yes sure perverse act needs to be dealt with,but from another angle think about her safety. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by maxti: 7:07am On Dec 03, 2015 |
If U don't go, then no one will believe u n no will definitely put the security man in trouble. My opinion. Please go but u can refuse the job.
If u prefer to go or not,...... Kindly make an entry at the police station. Just for security reasons n so your mind will be at rest. 1 Like |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Abbey2sam(m): 7:13am On Dec 03, 2015 |
kaziblake:
Good day all, Please pardon my grammatical error if you observe any because as am typing this am not my self.
I finished my ND last year and proceed to work because I want to get my Bsc direct instead of going for HND. So I got a job at Palms lekki. Right from when I started, he was already showing me sign that he was interested in me but I just waved it aside. After working for about 1 year and 1month, the man asked me out but I ignored him and continued working, since that time he started treating me anyhow, shouting at me, but I endured. October this year, he asked me to choose either my job or I quit. I had no option than to quit. I used the opportunity to register for jamb and attend preparatory class. So, I told my mum I want to do part time job and attend lectures at the same time to get money, she agreed.
I started hunting for job and told my friends about it. Last week, my friend called me and told me about an opening in their organisation, so I went there on Monday. Immediatly I saw the manager I knew I was in for trouble (a manager with dread and ear rings drinking dry gin on duty). He saw me and smiled, ask of my name age and qualifications, I told him everything about myself. After the interview, he asked me to resume on Wednesday that's today. I prepared and went to work. After sometimes, he called me into his office and started saying silly thing "how he liked me from the first day he saw me, blah blah blah". I was just looking at him like ode, after saying his mind, the next thing I heard was "can we have sex now?". I was so shocked to hear it from him but all the same I played cool and started telling him stories of about my bf and how my mum will kill me if she found out. He still insist,i lied again that I was on my period, he said he want to see the period. I was shocked and short of words. I told him I wasn't interested, the next thing he said was if I was not interested I should go, so I got up, picked my bag and left his office, met my friend and told her everything that transpired at the office between me and her boss,on my way out if the building I met the security man who asked me if I was not working that day, I told him no and explained everything to him he got so angry and promised to do something about it. Just this evening my friend called me saying the security man told their boss about what happened between me and the manager that the man would like to speak to me, the man called me and ask me to come tomorrow around 8am. My questions are: did I go far by reporting him to the security or should I go tomorrow (although am no longer interested in the job) because the manager looks scary, he can arrange for me if the owner sacks him, am so scared right now pls matured advice, thanks. you can go my dear, nothing will happen to you by God's grace, make known your fear to your boss that invited you |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Rockstar07: 7:14am On Dec 03, 2015 |
menix:
OP After reading, I jejely go view ur pinshure make I know weda nah so u take fine wey dey make men dey think with their prik but u get big nose  ...
So I will advise u to start bathing with Ghana soap to be free from the below guyz cous this is just the start...
Is this the magnificient 7 or the 7 Rudder blade? 1 Like 
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| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by maxti: 7:14am On Dec 03, 2015 |
Please what mistakes are u referring to? awa:
You have made alot of mistakes already and I encourage you not to make more. Leave the Company alone. If you are from a family that cannot comfortably support your University education why not go for your HND? Thereafter you further your education. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by ladycomfort(f): 7:17am On Dec 03, 2015 |
What exactly is the problem here? You can't allow a manager to have sex with you in exchange for a job as if its not a guy that will still straff you at the end of the day. Abi u no get bf ni wey no fit give you job but dey straff you |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by serikiYCU(m): 7:20am On Dec 03, 2015 |
OP, it seems u too fine. Joke apart, I think u shld rather have a discussion with d boss on phone nd let him know ur fear. Based on his response, u can decide to go back their or not. Best of luck. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by luckyman1010(m): 7:22am On Dec 03, 2015 |
My sister you tried,my advice for you is you should go but it must be in diplomatic way,I mean inform security in case of any misbehave,I advice you to inform Civil Defence they know how to handle things like this.thanks. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by menix(m): 7:23am On Dec 03, 2015 |
Rockstar07:
Is this the magnificient 7 or the 7 Rudder blade? Hahahahahahah.. Certainly not the Rudder blade.. |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by Nobody: 7:31am On Dec 03, 2015 |
kaziblake:
Good day all, Please pardon my grammatical error if you observe any because as am typing this am not my self.
I finished my ND last year and proceed to work because I want to get my Bsc direct instead of going for HND. So I got a job at Palms lekki. Right from when I started, he was already showing me sign that he was interested in me but I just waved it aside. After working for about 1 year and 1month, the man asked me out but I ignored him and continued working, since that time he started treating me anyhow, shouting at me, but I endured. October this year, he asked me to choose either my job or I quit. I had no option than to quit. I used the opportunity to register for jamb and attend preparatory class. So, I told my mum I want to do part time job and attend lectures at the same time to get money, she agreed.
I started hunting for job and told my friends about it. Last week, my friend called me and told me about an opening in their organisation, so I went there on Monday. Immediatly I saw the manager I knew I was in for trouble (a manager with dread and ear rings drinking dry gin on duty). He saw me and smiled, ask of my name age and qualifications, I told him everything about myself. After the interview, he asked me to resume on Wednesday that's today. I prepared and went to work. After sometimes, he called me into his office and started saying silly thing "how he liked me from the first day he saw me, blah blah blah". I was just looking at him like ode, after saying his mind, the next thing I heard was "can we have sex now?". I was so shocked to hear it from him but all the same I played cool and started telling him stories of about my bf and how my mum will kill me if she found out. He still insist,i lied again that I was on my period, he said he want to see the period. I was shocked and short of words. I told him I wasn't interested, the next thing he said was if I was not interested I should go, so I got up, picked my bag and left his office, met my friend and told her everything that transpired at the office between me and her boss,on my way out if the building I met the security man who asked me if I was not working that day, I told him no and explained everything to him he got so angry and promised to do something about it. Just this evening my friend called me saying the security man told their boss about what happened between me and the manager that the man would like to speak to me, the man called me and ask me to come tomorrow around 8am. My questions are: did I go far by reporting him to the security or should I go tomorrow (although am no longer interested in the job) because the manager looks scary, he can arrange for me if the owner sacks him, am so scared right now pls matured advice, thanks. cool down and do ur mind |
| Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by boyesky(m): 7:35am On Dec 03, 2015 |
Zceesneh:
cool down and do ur mind Pls go... eeven if ure not working there again, you have the opportunity of putting an end to that rubish!... and if u dont go ull be diappointing the gate man who has taken a bold step also... its not compulsory u take the job, but pls go. 2 Likes |
