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Most times I hear ladies say no sex b4 marriage. Its fine. I support dat but wat surprises me is when she still expects u, d guy to be giving her money, gifts, recharge cards etc in d name of caring.
can no sex b4 marriage be witout money or gifts given out?.

A girl doesnt want to have sex with you, you invite her to your house, she comes, you try to make move, she denies you, you invite her another day, she comes, you make move, she denies you, you invite her again, she comes.....WHY THE HELL IS SHE COMING?

seriously which kind of reasoning some guys get sef

How does having sex corrolate with material or financial things

Do you mean you exchange sex with money?
because its only prostititutes i know that sells their body in exchange for money

It is to know if you will be responsible before and after marriage na.
Do your duty or marry your substance. Marriape is the liability of man.

saasala:
A girl doesnt want to have sex with you, you invite her to your house, she comes, you try to make move, she denies you, you invite her another day, she comes, you make move, she denies you, you invite her again, she comes.....WHY THE HELL IS SHE COMING?

she does not come around. she just said it should be a pure no-sex, less visits relationship.

misspicy:
seriously which kind of reasoning some guys get sef

How does having sex corrolate with material or financial things

Do you mean you exchange sex with money?
because its only prostititutes i know that sells their body in exchange for money

not exchange sex for money. its abt a lady saying no sex b4 marriage but she still expect u to be helping her financially.

GIVING HER GIFTS IS NOT COMPULSORY BUT IMPORTANT.IF SHE IS A TYPE THAT UNDERSTANDS YOUR FINANCIAL FLUCTUATIONS SHE WOULD UNDERSTAND WHEN U DONT HAVE.IT'S NOT EVERYTHING SHE ASKS U GIVE SOMETIMES,BUT U HAVE TO CONTROL HER MINDSET TO BE EXCESSIVE IN ASKING AND SPENDING

Niceman4u:
not exchange sex for money. its abt a lady saying no sex b4 marriage but she still expect u to be helping her financially.

My question remains....how does sex equivalent to money in a relationship.....and why is it money that was picked out of everything people share in a relationship to be an exchange for sex......why not pick care,or calls eg she should not expect you to be caring or calling her since she refused sex