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| Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Tunchi101(op): 2:46pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
At this century,with the world becoming a global village, providing both genders equal opportunities; it's a pity some ladies,in fact, majority of our ladies still have the ideology that it is the sole responsibility of man to work and cater for the family. I am not disputing the fact that it's the duty of the man to work and provide for his family ; what has got me talking is that some ladies have turned this to a norm at this age. They go about saying things like, 'if him no get ride, me no fit reply him hi o'. Well I don't know about you but I think it's only hungry ladies that still go about with that mode of thinking at this age. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you helping your man become that husband / boyfriend you've always dreamed of.  There is this saying that ' the man is the head and the woman is the neck' RIGHT! Girls always forget the neck part in this saying cause if they don't,they would know what the head without having neck would look like.  Ladies I mean no offence but you guys really need to upgrade your mode of thinking. WANT A GUY TO HOPELESSLY BE IN LOVE WITH YOU, THEN BE A PILLAR IN HIS LIFE. IT IS INDEED VERY RARE FOR A *NORMAL GUY NOT TO TREAT LIKE A QUEEN WHEN THAT MONEY COMES 
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| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
I agree on this, any lady shud not depend everything to her man...living in this generation where everything are so expensive, modern ladies shud learn how to dig holes too. |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Tunchi101(op): 2:54pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
KashyBaby:a woman after my own heart. |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 3:01pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Tunchi101:U shud start teaching ur ladies up there to be independent |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Tunchi101(op): 3:06pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
KashyBaby:wish it was that easy. It has become a thing for most of em n trust me when I say it's a real turnoff |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 3:11pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
100 percent with you op my hubby should be able to request a million naira from me proudly as his wife...and I should be able to provide it... 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Tunchi101(op): 3:18pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
tollyB:the world would be a happier place with more people like you in it. Nicely said |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by TheeReaper(m): 3:24pm On Dec 05, 2015*. Modified: 3:40pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Oh men!!! How many times will you low self esteem males repeat this trash huh?? As long as am okay financially i dont care if my woman support's me financially!!,GOD gave me(male) the responsibility to be the bread winner in my family,so why should i care if my woman support's or not? Na WAH OOO 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Tunchi101(op): 3:36pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
TheeReaper:low esteemed? U real amusing man. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by TheeReaper(m): 3:40pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Tunchi101:mistake bro,thank for the correction |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by misspicy(f): 4:17pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
mtchw |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by misspicy(f): 4:19pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
TheeReaper:God bless you.....its all.this lazy ass men.looking for women to feed them that types trash.... yet they will be demanding for respect....confused people 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Tunchi101(op): 4:39pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
misspicy:I'm not sure if you're not matured enough to understand what you just read or ur brain isn't capable of comprehending it. All d same, stop being a bimbo. No one is saying a man shld not provide, wot I'm saying is dat ladies like u shouldn't turn urselves to liability on guys head Grow Up Girl. No Offence 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by misspicy(f): 4:42pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Tunchi101:okay thanks for your advice hustle hard to feed your family.....only sissys wait for help from any woman,its her choice to help you not a must,ask God to bless you beyond waiting for a woman's help because this your mentality is called poverty mentality  1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 4:44pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Kudos 2 my mama. She didn't raise me to depend on guys that's why I keep hustling hard. Just too sad when u see 'ladies' with the mentality that the husby should do everything. |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 4:45pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
tollyB:Only 1 million?? Trillions of naira sef! 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 4:46pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Hmmmmm guys will be saying ladies are depending on them but most times the same ladies will be cleaning their mess up.. Be independent in yourself,boo will say you are cheating,demand they wil say you are a sissy,go work and earn your money. Mthewwww. |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
All the ladies above be claiming independent,who are those demanding?me? Let be real for once!! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by misspicy(f): 4:49pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy: even you sef don confuse |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 4:50pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by TheeReaper(m): 4:50pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
misspicy:avoid such men sister,God bless you. |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by cruzita(f): 4:51pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
if we have to support financially den we will have to share house maintainance and other things too.just saying |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by misspicy(f): 4:51pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
The husband should and must do everything financial in the house....only a broke ass poverty induced chauvinistic man will expect his wife to assist in that aspect and still be submissive and slave around the house ...... confused set of people.... |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by misspicy(f): 4:53pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy:later now you will say spicy is too blunt...babe you are my twin in that aspect ....inshort you blunt pass me |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
misspicy:me blunk kwa ogini? Am just saying the truth,some of them claiming independent ladies are those with 'demand' on their forehead.. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by misspicy(f): 5:02pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy:you dey mind them.....they are d ones that ask for hair money,money for cloth,money to buy bra,transport money if they visit guy......onshort handout money.... they are looking for prey now,they are forming independence,thunder fire their yansh i yam saying it bold and clear....poor man no come my way o |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
misspicy:hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahh spicy you wouldnt kill me with laugh. I now understand what you mean by 'poor man is a no no'. Think you are ok with someone that is comfortable,not living from hand to mouth,not necessarily rich but comfortable and focused... |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 5:10pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
cruzita:now this is funny  |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Maxi112: 5:12pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Vivian abeg run come for here ooooo, shay u dey ask me reason why I won quite u, Is cause of this type of thread...... (1)am tied of paying all ur bills for u (2)am tired of buying gift for happy Sunday, happy New month, happy December, happy Christmas, happy New year, happy Val, for u(3)u ask me to go Xmas shopping for u while I never do for my self and u dnt even care if I have d money..... I never wanted to quit u but after reading few comments here I hv no other option.... oya! is over! I no be ya pape, u dey fine who u go killl with sex na only with I dey get from u..... sex na food, leave my house b4 I call d police for u..... |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Maxi112: 5:12pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
KashyBaby:thanks for this |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 5:24pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Estharfabian:That's my bae... I like the spirit Dear.. |
| Re: Ladies, Seriously U Have To Do Away With This Way Of Thinking. Not Cute At All! by Nobody: 5:25pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
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