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Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Baddo101(op): 7:12pm On Dec 07, 2015

For the Ladies and Gentlemen who might be having doubt about their relationships here are tips to help U out.

You’re (almost) always together: And in case this is not possible, you grab every chance to spend time with each other. You always have things to share, or simply revel in that glorious thing called companionable silence.

This is my boyfriend/girlfriend: When you introduce each other to friends and colleagues as your better half, you know something serious could well be taking form. Not many people go around publicising their “relationships” with sxx friends or losers they’re ashamed to date but date anyway.

unclothedness is not a big deal: Not the unclothedness that’s a natural part of having sxxx… with the lights dimmed, the blankets covering half your body and your eyes not drawn to dimpled cellulite and love handles. When you start nonchalantly changing/showering in front of each other, it’s a big step up.

You value each other’s opinions: When faced with issues regarding your career, family, friends and of course, your relationship, you take important decisions together. You talk about things and then come to a consensus, as opposed to a situation where you decide all by yourself and coolly him or vice-versa.

Families have been met: If this doesn’t spell S-E-R-I-O-U-S, what does? The very fact that you’ve met his folks and that he’s met yours means you’re in it for the whole haul.

You know each other’s financial situation: Have you begun sharing account details and bank statements? It definitely shows a deep commitment to each other.

At home in each other’s homes: His pad could well be a second home for you, and vice-versa. If you’ve gone as far as exchanging keys, you might just be exchanging rings/vows soon.

The future has been discussed: You’ve spoken about moving in together or getting married at a certain point in the future. about holidays you’ll take together, the kind of home you’ll live in, your kids’ names etc.

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Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Isaacmacdon(m): 7:15pm On Dec 07, 2015

Oh yea!

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:16pm On Dec 07, 2015

Am gonna buy all of these you listed out, except bank details. (too deep for her)

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Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by MzPecs(f): 7:17pm On Dec 07, 2015

Some people still don't end up together even after this.

Couples that are meant to be will be!

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Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by misspicy(f): 7:17pm On Dec 07, 2015

Even with this you can still be a side chick undecided

true talk

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Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Baddo101(op): 7:17pm On Dec 07, 2015

PrimeMinisterr:
Am gonna buy all of these you listed out, except bank details. (too deep for her)

hahahaha. Dat got me laughing..

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by mizquote(f): 7:19pm On Dec 07, 2015

this re signs of being married.

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by MzPecs(f): 7:20pm On Dec 07, 2015

misspicy:
Even with this you can still be a side chick

true talk

"Factualism"

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:20pm On Dec 07, 2015

Pfffft

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 07, 2015

Baddo101:
hahahaha. Dat got me laughing..

. . . . #Chuckles, yeah it's too deep for her to know. A Man got to do what a Man got to do, you dig?

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by misspicy(f): 7:24pm On Dec 07, 2015

MzPecs:
"Factualism"

Fact

my male friend has 3 girlfriends and all of them knows everybody in his family and all those this Op listed

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Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by dachaste(f): 7:24pm On Dec 07, 2015

My dear guys ain't smiling ooh. Dey can do all these#some might be lies though jus to sex u and clean mouth esp wen the gal insisting on no sex relationship

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by ggrin(f): 7:26pm On Dec 07, 2015

misspicy:
Even with this you can still be a side chick

true talk

dem don do her strong tin grin

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Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Baddo101(op): 7:26pm On Dec 07, 2015

PrimeMinisterr:
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#Chuckles, yeah it's too deep for her to know.
A Man got to do what a Man got to do, you dig?

Its hard though. I av found myself in that situation but since she neva asked i also neva mentioned it however i talked about it as if its a meagre amount and its really small though cos "Human wants are unlimited grin

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by MzPecs(f): 7:28pm On Dec 07, 2015

misspicy:
Fact

my male friend has 3 girlfriends and all of them knows everybody in his family and all those this Op listed

And what about a lady who actually met the guy's parents, always flaunt herself as "chinedu's wife", gives the guy her atm to withdraw cash for her, share his house with him et all and still don't married to each other in the end. Lol!

Couples that are meant to be will be!
Shikena!

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:29pm On Dec 07, 2015

dachaste:
My dear guys ain't smiling ooh. Dey can do all these#some might be lies though jus to sex u and clean mouth esp wen the gal insisting on no sex relationship

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hm....

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Baddo101(op): 7:30pm On Dec 07, 2015

dachaste:
My dear guys ain't smiling ooh. Dey can do all these#some might be lies though jus to sex u and clean mouth esp wen the gal insisting on no sex relationship

misspicy:
Fact
my male friend has 3 girlfriends and all of them knows everybody in his family and all those this Op listed

MzPecs:
Some people still don't end up together even after this.
Couples that are meant to be will be!

YourMain:
Pfffft

misspicy:
Even with this you can still be a side chick
true talk

Its all about your Attitude in handling issues when they come. If u handle it lackadiasically it might likely crumble

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by MzPecs(f): 7:32pm On Dec 07, 2015

Baddo101:
Its all about your Attitude in handling issues when they come. If u handle it lackadiasically it might likely crumble

That's for married couples please...

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by misspicy(f): 7:32pm On Dec 07, 2015

Baddo101:
Its all about your Attitude in handling issues when they come. If u handle it lackadiasically it might likely crumble

expantiate undecided

....handle the fact that knowing a man's ancestors does not make it a serious relation or what hulalabo do you want to gif me

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:33pm On Dec 07, 2015

Baddo101:
Its hard though. I av found myself in that situation but since she neva asked i also neva mentioned it however i talked about it as if its a meagre amount and its really small though cos "Human wants are unlimited

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she really doesn't have to know .

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by naijaboiy: 7:33pm On Dec 07, 2015

[color=#1980BC]Meeting family members doesn't necessarily guarantee anything these days. [/color]

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 07, 2015

Pvssy nkor?
If she nor gimme pvssy to gonk, she's not taking me serious.

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by noble2faith(m): 7:35pm On Dec 07, 2015

YourMain:
Pfffft

Angel

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by misspicy(f): 7:35pm On Dec 07, 2015

ggrin:
dem don do her strong tin

meaning

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Baddo101(op): 7:38pm On Dec 07, 2015

stupidity:
Pvssy nkor?

If she nor gimme pvssy to gonk, she's not taking me serious.

Yeye dey smell.. cheesy

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Meeloreh(f): 7:40pm On Dec 07, 2015

I'm happy

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:50pm On Dec 07, 2015

Baddo101:
Yeye dey smell..

be like say na pvssy dey smell

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by dachaste(f): 7:51pm On Dec 07, 2015

Baddo101:
Its all about your Attitude in handling issues when they come. If u handle it lackadiasically it might likely crumble

U think so? My dear d hear of guys are desperately wicked

Minus a few sha. Lolz

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by dachaste(f): 7:53pm On Dec 07, 2015

PrimeMinisterr:
. . . . hm....

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 07, 2015

[quote author=dachaste post=40784816][/quote]. . . . hmm *lemme reserve My comment*

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by dachaste(f): 8:04pm On Dec 07, 2015

PrimeMinisterr:
. . . . hmm *lemme reserve My comment*

#smiles

Re: Signs Of A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 07, 2015

dachaste:
#smiles

. . . . uh oooh, now Am smiling too.

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