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bluntness and sincerity are the cornerstones of
most relationships. Talking candidly and honestly
about s.εx, passion, commitment, and one’s
aspirations for the future helps it grow into a long
lasting union.
However, there are some questions that a man
never wants to hear come out of his woman’s
mouth.
These are questions that are irrelevant in the
relationship yet women insist on asking them.


Tell me about your ex

As might be expected, the topic of the ex is
bound to come up at some point in the
relationship. It is okay to ask why they broke up
and whether they are still friends. This
conversation becomes dangerous when you start
obsessing over it and ask questions like ‘is she
hotter than me’ or ‘between me and her, who is
the better kisser’. When you constantly bring up
his ex, you come across as hopelessly insecure.


How many lovers have you had

Nothing positive can come out of this one.
Whatever he did in his past is between him and
his conscience. Questions about numbers only
beget more questions and create more insecurity.
It is none of your business how many women he
has slept with. The only thing you need to know
about his sexual past is whether he’s disease free.
‘How many women have you had s’εx with is
blond. What should bother you is, “Do you have
an STD”


I’m I the best you have ever had


It sounds sεxy and seductive when you ask, but
you only reek more of your insecurities. Chances
are, you are not the best he has ever had and
hearing him say that will demoralise you. Most
men won’t come right out and say it, so you end
up putting him in a difficult situation where he
has to lie because he wants you to feel confident
and beautiful on a daily basis.


Do you love me

If a man truly loves you, he will let you know.
Asking him this question puts him on the spot
and he will most likely lie to avoid hurting your
feelings or tell you the truth and hurt your
feelings. Either way, the outcome is undesirable.
Those three little words should not be forced out
of someone. Men do not always wear their
emotions on their sleeves but that doesn’t mean
he doesn’t love you.


Do you see a future with me.

This question is perfectly appropriate and even
important to ask after you have been dating for a
while. The timing makes all the difference.
Needless to say, there is a problem with asking
this question early on in the relationship. There
is a big chance that you will just scare him off if
you begin addressing the “serious” issues before
you are far enough into the relationship


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Tell me what I don't know

crazy threads everywhr

That do you love me, Sabi vex me

Would you ever get tired of me

dumb my blak axe!

I ask all of those..

#i am not insecured.

mizquote:
I ask all of those..

#i am not insecured.

u are (no offence)

mizquote:
I ask all of those..

#i am not insecured.

tbh u are insecured :-(

I see nothing wrong in these questions, most especially the last

what's wrong about them.mtcheeeeeeew .I see no biggy

ebukaddon:
However, there are some questions that a man
never wants to hear come out of his woman’s
mouth.


http://facebook.com/lilasapgang

You might as well title the post, 5 questions insecure men never want to hear come out of their woman's mouth.

Those questions are annoying only to a man that has lived carelessly. A woman would always end up feeling more secured after asking any of those question to a man of integrity.

Are u cheating on me?


Like they will ever tell us they are

cruzita:
what's wrong about them.mtcheeeeeeew .I see no biggy

then u are insecured na

Medunah:
Are u cheating on me?

Like they will ever tell us they are

lol

WOMEN again...... ?

Please, How many SATURDAYS are left now..?

Actually, the last question is a valid one