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A lot of ladies are in a haste to get married, but most of them are not even ready to a wife. Marriage is not the same with dating/courtship. Marriage is a different ball game. where according to African tradition, the man is always right, he's the 'boss' and the law. while the wife is usually the submissive and supportive partner. Saddled with the task of tending to her man (husband), their kids and their home 24/7. Cos getting married and becoming a wife comes with a lot of responsibilities. Though a man and his wife are suppose to be helpmates. But you know how most men behave and couple with their African mentality. They usually end up making their wives do everything at home. And most ladies are usually not prepared for this.

Dont stop there... Advise them more... Let them understand... There is diference between Ankara, guinea and lace wife materials and it comes in yards too... 6yards preferable

is it a problem to remain as single?

marvelck:
A lot of ladies are in a haste to get married, but most of them are not even ready to a wife. Marriage is not the same with dating/courtship. Marriage is a different ball game. where the man is always right, he's the boss and the law. while the wife is usually the submissive and supportive partner. Saddled with the task of tending to her man (husband), their kids and their home 24/7. Cos, getting married and becoming a wife comes with a lot of responsibilities...

its so sad that you don't know what marriage is and just like you many men out there don't know want marriage is. 1st, dating/courtship is expected to be a pre-marriage but its sad that most ppl don't see it that way. The same way I act and do things when dating, that is how I will act in marriage.

2nd the man is not always right. While the lady is expected to be submissive, the husband is expected to be loving & caring & not bossy.

Its obvious you don't even have an understanding of what marriage is. This got me thinking, how old are u.

Marriage again?

This one is looking for master-slave type of relationship

realdee44:
1st, dating/courtship is expected to be a pre-marriage but its sad that most ppl don't see it that way. The same way I act and do things when dating, that is how I will act in marriage.

2nd the man is not always right. While the lady is expected to be submissive, the husband is expected to be loving & caring & not bossy.

I like your response .
Most ladies would always say they can't act like a wife while dating because the guy would take advantage of that when married.
I always ask them, how do u expect a guy to propose when he doesn't see u as someone he can spend the rest of his life with? Then they would come up with senseless arguments.
Good to know there are still people with moral reasoning.