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Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Nobody: 10:17pm On Dec 10, 2015
enieme:
I doubt that the in-laws would agree to their son always being in the kitchen instead if the wife.
they'd be like ' hes taken the role of the wife and the wife is now the one controlling'
Now u say it's always! Before it was once in a while or switching roles. I don't think u have much point. It will only be a disadvantaged for egotistic ladies.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by homesteady(m): 10:17pm On Dec 10, 2015
#4. Nothing new under the sun: trying to surprise ur husband with a really 'wow' delicacy prepared by u? Chances are he's tried that recipe before.
Lmaoooooooooooo gringrin
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by menxer: 10:17pm On Dec 10, 2015
I like cooking and take it as creating a piece of art work to be tasted and savoured.

I had girls always wanting to come around because they are sure of good soups in the fridge.

It's fun helping my Lady in the kitchen, and have to restrain myself from taking over or being too over sabi. grin
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by freshvine(f): 10:19pm On Dec 10, 2015
My hussy cook better not that I cannot cook. He add finesse to it and sometimes when I'm unhappy I critique his cooking just to make self feel good and dampen his confidence but in all, I feel worthless inside grin
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by obiak4(m): 10:19pm On Dec 10, 2015
[quote author=enieme post=40881869][/quote]op if you can't cook go to cathering class
out of the plenty-plenty of the heart the hand typing.........
By thier fruits yea shall know them.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by donkelz(m): 10:21pm On Dec 10, 2015
LadyX:
Marrying a man that can cook is a big advantage.

1. When you are sick he can cook.
2. When you are tired, he can cook.
3. You can cook together... bonding.

In short there are more advantages than disadvantages. If a lady feels threatened by her man's cooking she should ask him to teach her.
Abi ooo!! It is a big advantage than disadvantage.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:22pm On Dec 10, 2015
Nothing turns me on like a guy's ability to cook.But that doesn't mean he should take it upon himself to cook when the wife is healthy and present.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by lacicrips(m): 10:23pm On Dec 10, 2015
Very true. Number 5 wanna make me go buy a diamond ring.

Ladies are always uncomfortable around a man who's a great cook. Ask me. I've been with lots of women, and yeah they'll enjoy your meals and shower you with praises but at the same time the thought scares the heck outta them.

Altho I dated an Akwa Ibom girl who's an excellent cook, but she's always looking forward to my meals. Hehehe grin
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Nobody: 10:24pm On Dec 10, 2015
enieme:
that's something common with both husband that coook and the ones wjo dont.
What I'm talking about here is family eating out on a normal day cos mom can't cook.
Shey na u go dey pay?
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by pedrilo: 10:24pm On Dec 10, 2015
LadyX:
Marrying a man that can cook is a big advantage.

1. When you are sick he can cook.
2. When you are tired, he can cook.
3. You can cook together... bonding.

In short there are more advantages than disadvantages. If a lady feels threatened by her man's cooking she should ask him to teach her.
Dis is a matured lady ryt here. The OP is still a baby
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 10, 2015
Insecurity alert!!! undecided undecided
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 10, 2015
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Nothing turns me on like a guy's ability to cook.But that doesn't mean he should take it upon himself to cook when the wife is healthy and present.
As in u go wet?
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by tranxo(m): 10:31pm On Dec 10, 2015
Dagaya:
no time for me cooking ....to me it is a no no...I get where the op is coming from... in between... why would a man want to be a good cook anyway? after all the plenty wahala wen we dey think about everyday.... to those men who know how to cook...well done...as for me and my kind.. we wud compensate in other ways...so op I think Ur rite...considering Ur thinking the way am thinking...
Weak pickup line
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Dagaya(m): 10:37pm On Dec 10, 2015
tranxo:
Weak pickup line
thank u...it is not a criteria for a man to know how to cook... is it by force?...I have never enjoyed entering the kitchen...even if it Is to carry my food.... that's me...it might be different for u..but I bet there are people like me out dere... so it all boils down to individual differences... as for me...team no cooking
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Bishops10(m): 10:42pm On Dec 10, 2015
LadyX:
Marrying a man that can cook is a big advantage.

1. When you are sick he can cook.
2. When you are tired, he can cook.
3. You can cook together... bonding.

In short there are more advantages than disadvantages. If a lady feels threatened by her man's cooking she should ask him to teach her.
Abeg come shop kwolanut joor
soo on point.
This thread don make me fear sef coz I sabi Cook wella
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by dandostism88(m): 10:43pm On Dec 10, 2015
Another disadvantage is that, you cannot manipulate money for ingredients..."Lol"
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by rasheedmalik113: 10:45pm On Dec 10, 2015
shai disadvantage my peaple bawaala
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by darlingtonVII(m): 10:46pm On Dec 10, 2015
Adaure4ever coman saw what i'm saw o. Hope there wont be competition between us
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Macgreat(m): 10:47pm On Dec 10, 2015
LadyX:
Marrying a man that can cook is a big advantage.

1. When you are sick he can cook.
2. When you are tired, he can cook.
3. You can cook together... bonding.

In short there are more advantages than disadvantages. If a lady feels threatened by her man's cooking she should ask him to teach her.
I for say "Marritage" - meaning to marry you instantly.


I cook fire! meaning I dey cook wella . . .


Seriously though, more advantageous for both couple to know or have the skill.

I just like good meal - no favorite for me - if it taste good then its a wow!

#endtimeCooking cheesy
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Nobody: 10:47pm On Dec 10, 2015
darlingtonVII:
Adaure4ever coman saw what i'm saw o. Hope there wont be competition between us
lol, so funny. I love cooking.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by localblood(m): 10:48pm On Dec 10, 2015
brainbucks:
Last Days
Shey na must 4 u to show us say na yaba left you dey?
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by TITIEBI(m): 10:49pm On Dec 10, 2015
Come marry me I no Sabi cook
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:49pm On Dec 10, 2015
kosplateau:
As in u go wet?
will find out if I go when when I see a guy that can cook cos as fro now, I'm not really sure about that. Just know it turns me on.
Bad mind grin
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by tamquezee(m): 10:51pm On Dec 10, 2015
I'm really surprise when Op tagged it disadvantage. Anyway its only showing how selfish and dubious some women can be.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by TITIEBI(m): 10:51pm On Dec 10, 2015
Come marry me I no Sabi cook smiley embarassed
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by darlingtonVII(m): 10:54pm On Dec 10, 2015
I was the only child for 17years and with that mother-son bond i'm always with her, even in the kitchen and i can cook almost every african delicacy(Thanks to mum) Sometimes i even cook at home sef for the family and mum says my wife will be lucky to have me. So i totally disagree with you.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by DavidEsq(m): 10:59pm On Dec 10, 2015
enieme:
I'll just go straight to the point

#1. critical of your food: burnt food, salty or too spicy, recipe that didn't turn out well? E. T. C. A man that can cook is sure to notice that more than one who can't cook will. you can always sweet talk a husband that can't cook about how strenous it is preparing that particular kind of soup blalbla bla but u sure can't deceive a man that holds the big spoon.

#2. Responsibiltiy neglect: as it is th a our culture dictates th a it's the responsibility of the woman tocookfor the family, u may find yourself 'getting time's frequently and having your husband cook most times.

#3. No dine outs : since you both can cook. If u for some reason are unable to cook at a certaintime, ur husband would most probably choose to fill in rather than taking u out to eat/ bringing home take away food as one who can't cook would ssuggest.

#4. Nothing new under the sun: trying to surprise ur husband with a really 'wow' delicacy prepared by u? Chances are he's tried that recipe before.

#5. Competition: whoever likes it when the kids enjoy daddy's cooking more than mmY, the natural born cook's cooking?

*No time for elaborate explanation, No time for editing.
Is#3 supozd to be a disadvantage? It rather sounds like a good support to me sha, or maybe d word "disadvantage" has a new meaning. embarassed
enieme:
I'll just go straight to the point

#1. critical of your food: burnt food, salty or too spicy, recipe that didn't turn out well? E. T. C. A man that can cook is sure to notice that more than one who can't cook will. you can always sweet talk a husband that can't cook about how strenous it is preparing that particular kind of soup blalbla bla but u sure can't deceive a man that holds the big spoon.

#2. Responsibiltiy neglect: as it is th a our culture dictates th a it's the responsibility of the woman tocookfor the family, u may find yourself 'getting time's frequently and having your husband cook most times.

#3. No dine outs : since you both can cook. If u for some reason are unable to cook at a certaintime, ur husband would most probably choose to fill in rather than taking u out to eat/ bringing home take away food as one who can't cook would ssuggest.

#4. Nothing new under the sun: trying to surprise ur husband with a really 'wow' delicacy prepared by u? Chances are he's tried that recipe before.

#5. Competition: whoever likes it when the kids enjoy daddy's cooking more than mmY, the natural born cook's cooking?

*No time for elaborate explanation, No time for editing.
Is#3 supozd to be a disadvantage? It rather sounds like a good support to me sha, or maybe d word "disadvantage" has a new meaning.
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by JOSHFEM097(m): 11:00pm On Dec 10, 2015
LadyX:
Marrying a man that can cook is a big advantage.

1. When you are sick he can cook.
2. When you are tired, he can cook.
3. You can cook together... bonding.

In short there are more advantages than disadvantages. If a lady feels threatened by her man's cooking she should ask him to teach her.
I love your points. You are damn right
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by DavidEsq(m): 11:00pm On Dec 10, 2015
tamquezee:
I'm really surprise when Op tagged it disadvantage. Anyway its only showing how selfish and dubious some women can be.
You forgot to add insecure
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Nobody: 11:03pm On Dec 10, 2015
oh christ. women are literally insatiable, aren't they. huh
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by tamquezee(m): 11:04pm On Dec 10, 2015
DavidEsq:
You forgot to add insecure
Abi!!
Re: 5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook by Booyakasha(f): 11:08pm On Dec 10, 2015
Teempakguy:
oh christ. women are literally insatiable, aren't they. huh
up all night? well please provide a node to which i can chat with you in real time... cheesy
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