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Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 25, 2015

johnsonjosbles:
Op go still com tell us here sey you do make up too much,,

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by johnsonjosbles(m): 8:11am On Dec 25, 2015

YourMain:
Ya.

op go still com tell us say u r too clean! he can't mentain you

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by malikisah: 8:13am On Dec 25, 2015

Run

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by sirkenny30(m): 8:15am On Dec 25, 2015

Just forget her immediately

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by merrymaker2: 8:21am On Dec 25, 2015

rry807:
Dear Nairalanders,
I attached this picture so that others will understand my feelings because the other place i shared they said am not serious or just trying to frame her, there is a girl i have been dating before God and man she brings food for me at times and i eat but each time i request to visit her house she will refuse with silly excuse and God knows i really wanna marry her then as God may have it, I did some investigations and with help of God i met an old friend who knows her and family very well, so he took me to the girls house to see her family casually, the front door was locked so we passed through kitchen, my people what i saw made me speechless the whole house was so dirty from the kitchen to the parlor was all messed up, and this is a girl that made me believe she’s cool, make ups, claims her family is rich etc. Please what do I do?

vomit wan catch me

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by creepsyme(f): 8:21am On Dec 25, 2015

rry807:
Dear Nairalanders,
I attached this picture so that others will understand my feelings because the other place i shared they said am not serious or just trying to frame her, there is a girl i have been dating before God and man she brings food for me at times and i eat but each time i request to visit her house she will refuse with silly excuse and God knows i really wanna marry her then as God may have it, I did some investigations and with help of God i met an old friend who knows her and family very well, so he took me to the girls house to see her family casually, the front door was locked so we passed through kitchen, my people what i saw made me speechless the whole house was so dirty from the kitchen to the parlor was all messed up, and this is a girl that made me believe she’s cool, make ups, claims her family is rich etc. Please what do I do?

why did u go to her house without letting her know?

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by nnamdismart25(m): 8:25am On Dec 25, 2015

Bros nawa for you oh, so you just da snap for person kitchen as you the pass, by the way complement.

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by Nobody: 8:25am On Dec 25, 2015

rry807:
Dear Nairalanders,
I attached this picture so that others will understand my feelings because the other place i shared they said am not serious or just trying to frame her, there is a girl i have been dating before God and man she brings food for me at times and i eat but each time i request to visit her house she will refuse with silly excuse and God knows i really wanna marry her then as God may have it, I did some investigations and with help of God i met an old friend who knows her and family very well, so he took me to the girls house to see her family casually, the front door was locked so we passed through kitchen, my people what i saw made me speechless the whole house was so dirty from the kitchen to the parlor was all messed up, and this is a girl that made me believe she’s cool, make ups, claims her family is rich etc. Please what do I do?

Lies.

This is an old picture that's been circulating around town.

This OP no even mind say na Christmas day e dey lie like this!

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Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by DedeNkem: 8:32am On Dec 25, 2015

The girl is a liar and pig while you're a gold-digger.

If she could be this dirty, I wonder how dirty her body and p*ussy would be. A neat man shouldn't have her as a girlfriend, not even to talk of wife, she's not willing to change.

Another bad thing about her is that she's a terrible liar. Having this type of woman in your life is the worst thing any sane man could do, unless she changes for good.

Now lets talk about you. As I stated earlier, you're a gold-digger (Yes, a man can be that too). You planned marrying her for her "family's wealth" but now you're so dissappointed that what you hoped for wasn't f*ucking real!

You expected to see a huge masion surrounded by a majestic garden and fence. But your expectation came down crashing like a pack of cards when you saw where your "rich" chic lives.

You're now so upset that she played you for a f*ool. Well, I don't blame you for feeling bad, because anyone who targets a chic for money, will feel the same.

If you actually had real love for the chic, discussing your concern with her would have been the best thing to do. Maybe she lied to you because she was ashamed of showing you her home. Who knows?

If her dirty home is the ONLY problem she has, you can try helping her to change if you really love her. People can sometimes change for people they love, if she loves you too.

But my mind tells me you were only interested in her for money. If I'm wrong about you, then show her you love her by helping her change.

Another thing, don't sneak into people's houses without permission. Someone could easily accuse you of burglary and mob-lynch you.

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by rallymento(m): 8:33am On Dec 25, 2015

Plz I am seeking for a nice Yoruba Lady to date.... I am Igbo just incase.... Nice Yoruba lady...

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by HURUCHI(m): 8:34am On Dec 25, 2015

iffydave:
Liesssss

....... And they allowed you took d pix of their kitchen??
Seen this pix severally online

Thank u

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by excel101(m): 8:36am On Dec 25, 2015

rry807:
Dear Nairalanders,
I attached this picture so that others will understand my feelings because the other place i shared they said am not serious or just trying to frame her, there is a girl i have been dating before God and man she brings food for me at times and i eat but each time i request to visit her house she will refuse with silly excuse and God knows i really wanna marry her then as God may have it, I did some investigations and with help of God i met an old friend who knows her and family very well, so he took me to the girls house to see her family casually, the front door was locked so we passed through kitchen, my people what i saw made me speechless the whole house was so dirty from the kitchen to the parlor was all messed up, and this is a girl that made me believe she’s cool, make ups, claims her family is rich etc. Please what do I do?

. My friend you should know what you want in a woman. After what you saw, you can decide the next step to take.

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by banio: 8:37am On Dec 25, 2015

Everybody's huz got dirty one time or the other. If she is a dirty girl, U would have noticed. Anyway still wash her closely. Put her in the spot, and see her response.
Marriage is so complex and guys marry with the option of divorce but ladies marry with the idea of better or worse.
Hope U don't have guys mentality, because You have not got into the wedding ring but You have started seeing reasons to run out at the first punch

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by sinaj(f): 8:39am On Dec 25, 2015

just2endowed:
Can it be translated

evil spirit in woman's form wink

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by unibenstudent1(m): 8:45am On Dec 25, 2015

sinaj:
evil spirit in woman's form

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by denony(m): 9:20am On Dec 25, 2015

no, kill her

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by MANOSUB(m): 9:29am On Dec 25, 2015

You choose who to love!!! Love shouldn't be overrated

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by yassjib: 9:29am On Dec 25, 2015

u re not serious

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by sinaj(f): 10:11am On Dec 25, 2015

daclint:
Sinaj u get mouth I swear

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by dikeigbo2(m): 10:18am On Dec 25, 2015

Just looking for an excuse to runaway, nobody is perfect, only Jesus is.her weakness may be your streinght and your streinght may be her weakness also.......merry Christmas to all of us grin

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by Elparaiso(m): 10:46am On Dec 25, 2015

Pennyways:
you are still the same even though change has come

I don't get you tho.

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Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by CallMeMadMan: 11:00am On Dec 25, 2015

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If you haven't shown her the picture or talked to her about it, why report it here?

Mad Woman You Don Come Again?

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by Jhappy(f): 11:03am On Dec 25, 2015

Why can't u call her and talk to her about?

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by Jhappy(f): 11:03am On Dec 25, 2015

Why can't u call her and talk to her?

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by salvation77177: 11:41am On Dec 25, 2015

Talk to her about your observations. Don't take decision without making some findings about an issue. You may act wrongly.

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by Bobnotrouble: 11:58am On Dec 25, 2015

Just assist by reorientating her and her family sanitarily and financially. Or are you only looking for a rich girl to marry?

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by andyanders: 12:09pm On Dec 25, 2015

mostyg:
Why not? Because her family house is unkept does not mean she's dirty. I actually do not see that as a reason not to be married to someone. Everybody has his own dirty secret/weakness.

You are wrong. She is equally dirty.As a lady, if her house is like that and she comes out to display neatness outwardly, she is dirty inwardly also she will display dirtiness if married to a new place. If she cannot clean her parents house, she cannot carry neatness to any new place.She sees nothing wrong with dirtiness

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by ImpactWorld(m): 12:18pm On Dec 25, 2015

Many people are actually neat outside but very dirty at home.

This include some of the people passing judgement here.

Years ago, I read a book and I got a point which says:

If you cannot pick a particular shirt/item from your wardrobe when the light is out, then maybe you are not really organised (paraphrased)

How many people can confidently receive important visitors in their home impromptu without trying to do emergency rearrangement of the house/room?

*** Dirty homes/environments are a no-go area for me***

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by andyanders: 12:23pm On Dec 25, 2015

ImpactWorld:
Many people are actually neat outside but very dirty at home.

This include some of the people passing judgement here.

Years ago, I read a book and I got a point which says:

If you cannot pick a particular shirt/item from your wardrobe when the light is out, then maybe you are not really organised (paraphrased)

How many people can confidently receive important visitors in their home impromptu without trying to do emergency rearrangement of the house/room?

You are 110% true here. Many, many, many exhibit this habit even personal hygiene is a problem to many. I was went to a guy's house who is married and a banker and was shocked to see his armpit bushy and dirty, looking brownish in color.I was shocked.

I was wondering how he sleeps with his wife and for his to be like that, his wife should be something else.

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Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by adelujohn(m): 12:29pm On Dec 25, 2015

First, let her know u would have appreciated If she's sincere with u all the while.
Nonetheless, You will help in that area ni. I believe everybody is a Work-In-Progess. We Just lack in different ways ni.

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by gab264(m): 12:34pm On Dec 25, 2015

mostyg:
Why not? Because her family house is unkept does not mean she's dirty. I actually do not see that as a reason not to be married to someone. Everybody has his own dirty secret/weakness.

THAT HER HOUSE IS UNCLEAN DOESN'T PORTRAY HER AS A DIRTY GIRL,,,,YOU SHOULD HAVE CONCLUDED YOUR INVESTIGATION BY VISITING HER OWN APARTMENT,,THEN THE OUTCOME WILL HELP YOU TO CONCLUDE IF SHE IS REALLY WHAT SHE CLAIMS TO BE.................

IF SHE IS STILL LIVING WITH HER PARENTS NOW,,,,,,,I DONT THINK IT IS NECCESARY TO JUDGE HER WITH WHAT YOU SAW AT HER PLACE,,,, THAT IS MY POINT,,,,UNLESS YOUR NOT COOL WITH HER PARENT FINANCIAL STATUS...... undecided

ALWAYS GAB264

Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by lyricalz: 12:43pm On Dec 25, 2015

Xo wat should we do? I tot dey said love gat no eyes.

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