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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by ddaammyy(f): 5:26pm On Dec 26, 2015

Biko buy ur car nd live as comfortably as u like. Any guy that values nd appreciate u will definitely come cool

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by queendalyn(f): 5:26pm On Dec 26, 2015

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by dramenda(f): 5:26pm On Dec 26, 2015

Yes she will.

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Abduletudaye(m): 5:26pm On Dec 26, 2015

You are calling your brother myopic? angry

Lool...

Anyway, it takes a real man to overlook that... Why should a guy be scared to approach a lady because she has a car?? undecided

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by jrerico1(m): 5:27pm On Dec 26, 2015

Your moniker will also chase men away undecided

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 26, 2015

omotohdarajugbogbolo:
Good day fam,

I really need your advice on something.

I am a lady in my late twenties and I work with a multinational company here in Lagos.
This is my third year on the job and I know I need a car now.

Now here's the issue; my siblings think that getting a car is a bad idea. Why? Cos am single.

My beloved brother said it would push men away from me

Please does this not sound myopic? I really don't get it.

House how do you see this cos I feel down right now.

Cc lalasticlala , seun

Please, go ahead and buy the car. This is 2015, not 1970!

Live your life to the fullest. Sometimes our greatest enemies are those very close to us. They think they're doing us a favour or that they're protecting us, whereas they're simply keeping us mediocre and average. This, amongst other reasons, is why Africa is still largely underdeveloped; our minds are still pretty underdeveloped.

Any man who's intimidated by a lady's success should go and become successful.

Our society is in so skewed against our women.

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by queendalyn(f): 5:27pm On Dec 26, 2015

omotohdarajugbogbolo:
Good day fam,
I really need your advice on something.
I am a lady in my late twenties and I work with a multinational company here in Lagos.
This is my third year on the job and I know I need a car now.
Now here's the issue; my siblings think that getting a car is a bad idea. Why? Cos am single.
My beloved brother said it would push men away from me
Please does this not sound myopic? I really don't get it.
House how do you see this cos I feel down right now.
Cc lalasticlala , seun

Are you beautiful?

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 5:28pm On Dec 26, 2015

lol

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by SexyStrawberry(f): 5:28pm On Dec 26, 2015

omotohdarajugbogbolo:
Good day fam,

I really need your advice on something.

I am a lady in my late twenties and I work with a multinational company here in Lagos.
This is my third year on the job and I know I need a car now.

Now here's the issue; my siblings think that getting a car is a bad idea. Why? Cos am single.

My beloved brother said it would push men away from me

Please does this not sound myopic? I really don't get it.

House how do you see this cos I feel down right now.

Cc lalasticlala , seun

Its a myth. Buying a car won't stop men from coming, its all about u making a good choice when selecting the men that comes ur way.

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by G12(m): 5:28pm On Dec 26, 2015

Please, drop your digits here so that I can call and congratulate you after buying the car

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by babylawyr(f): 5:29pm On Dec 26, 2015

Truth be told and I'm speaking from experience now, driving in a car will limit the number of guys that will have access to you.

However, it will improve the quality of guys that approach you.

So its quality over quantity. You choose.

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by tivta(m): 5:29pm On Dec 26, 2015

She needs to watch the movie "think like a man but act like a lady"

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by marshalcarter: 5:30pm On Dec 26, 2015

Jimdonnet:
Babe no buy car yet.my auntie who deals in cars is 44 and yet to see a man.

#clears throat.....errm....dat ya aunt...it wouldn't be a bad idea if you gimme her kwantakt grin

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Lighthouseman: 5:30pm On Dec 26, 2015

My igbo brothers will run away from you!

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by watered(m): 5:31pm On Dec 26, 2015

I'm sure this lady must be from SE cos that's their mentality down there that single women are not supposed to live big because they are waiting to be taken by one ingrate or less than a man in the name of marriage.

Babe, pull over such cheap and irrelevant talks and live the good life. Some men too are irritated by "low lifers". The car is nothing, even house; what matters is your attitude and your carriage.

So please dearie be of good conduct, do not drink alcohol excessively, club or smoke cos my kind of men are put off by such things.

When the suitor comes please bring it up to this forum and give us an invite. Till then, I wish you a happy married life in 2016.

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by sebali: 5:31pm On Dec 26, 2015

Well working with a multinational firm already limits d no. of guys bold enuff 2 approach u, buying a car further reduces d no 2 a few brave men. Bt den again u need a car. My advice is buy a small, simple car; be way more friendly 2 guys(car owner or a trekker); try u best 2 appear simple.

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 5:32pm On Dec 26, 2015

Kazrem:
Why not think of real assets like land instead of car? OK, you have gotten one. Why not develop it? It is also developed. Get another. Develop it. If then, save, save and save. After then you can get a car. I know what am talking about.

oga she's in need of a car, not land.

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by victorVIC1(m): 5:32pm On Dec 26, 2015

@ op go ahead and get a car if u really do need one. You shouldn't allow the fear of unknown to deter u from taking certain steps in life.When you have eventually bought the car abeg no let pride/arrogance set in o.Cos that's one of the major factors that turn guys off.
Merry Christmas

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by fm7070: 5:32pm On Dec 26, 2015

Every consistent nairaland member is blessed
Blessed with people with rich and broad experience and wisdom
If they're paying 10k/year to join this forum, I will not cease to be a member
@OP, I sense you have good level of virtue, for you to have come open to seek other's opinion and advice.
you have been advised.
1. Buy the car, it will ease so much burden, solve mobility challenge, you'll be anywhere right on time, etc
2. Remain godly and virtuous. c'est fini

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by watered(m): 5:33pm On Dec 26, 2015

babylawyr:
Truth be told and I'm speaking from experience now, driving in a car will limit the number of guys that will have access to you.

However, it will improve the quality of guys that approach you.

So its quality over quantity. You choose.

Babylawyr: grin

you killed it and I owe you one bottle of amstel malt (though not cold)

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by IMO22(m): 5:33pm On Dec 26, 2015

It's a two faced coin, tho one is a lesser evil. My advice; get mobile if necessary.U won't want a guy dealing with complex issues as ur man in d 1st place, would u?

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Kazrem(m): 5:34pm On Dec 26, 2015

MissGdope:
oga she's in need of a car, not land.

OK.

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by bettercreature(m): 5:35pm On Dec 26, 2015*

Eleniyan15:
CAPITAL YES

DON'T GET A CAR YET

TAKE CHILL PILL NAH

MAKE BETTER NIGGA COME

BUH IT YOUR CHOICE THOUGH!!!

JUST DO WHAT IS RIGHT AT THE RIGHT TIME

You are wrong! it will only increase her MARKET VALUE,if you ever wish to marry a rich,handsome man,buy yourself a car and move to expensive environment,average guys would find it difficult to ask you out

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by drnairalov: 5:35pm On Dec 26, 2015

u ve beeen on the search for a while.. what is wrong?? sad

i feel 4 u sha no worries keep the hope alive

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Skywalker5(m): 5:35pm On Dec 26, 2015

omotohdarajugbogbolo:
Good day fam,

I really need your advice on something.

I am a lady in my late twenties and I work with a multinational company here in Lagos.
This is my third year on the job and I know I need a car now.

Now here's the issue; my siblings think that getting a car is a bad idea. Why? Cos am single.

My beloved brother said it would push men away from me

Cc lalasticlala , seun

When will Nigerian women stand up and show their self worth? So because you are looking for a husband,people expect you to suffer.Your brother expects you to take a bus when he knows getting a car will make life easier for you

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Kazrem(m): 5:36pm On Dec 26, 2015

MissGdope:
oga she's in need of a car, not land.

If you were her sibling, would you advice her to buy the car?

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by IMO22(m): 5:37pm On Dec 26, 2015

MissGdope:
oga she's in need of a car, not land.

LOL!!! Some guys Nd their opinion sha...SMH!!!

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Royals1st: 5:37pm On Dec 26, 2015

My dear pls go and buy ur car sharp sharp only man from a poor background or a man who look down on him self will ran away for u bcs u own a car so if ur father is dasuki so won't u own a house or personal company and even ur staffs will own a staff car under u so pls understand any man who is urs will come for u and plus when u own a car u will meet correct man not man on okada

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Officialkenshin(m): 5:37pm On Dec 26, 2015

omotohdarajugbogbolo:
Good day fam,

I really need your advice on something.

I am a lady in my late twenties and I work with a multinational company here in Lagos.
This is my third year on the job and I know I need a car now.

Now here's the issue; my siblings think that getting a car is a bad idea. Why? Cos am single.

My beloved brother said it would push men away from me

Please does this not sound myopic? I really don't get it.

House how do you see this cos I feel down right now.

Cc lalasticlala , seun

To me though, I just assume the lady is married whenever I see one riding a car. So it has disadvantage and advantage, disadvantage is that; some men might just automatically assume you are married, you might attract gold digging men, just like what happened to my senior sistl, she has two cars, saloon and a jeep. She got a guy who used charm on her CU's of what she got, summary: marriage didn't last.

Just be simple. Candid advice.

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by sisisioge: 5:37pm On Dec 26, 2015

NO!

Getting a car sef will help u move around better and within the eligible men circle. Its a necessity not otherwise.

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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by dust88: 5:38pm On Dec 26, 2015

Cutehector:
In ur late twenties

Multinational coy

Buy a car

Hahaahahahahahahaha. Street!

And ur brother says it will chase men away from u?

Babe abeg pass me ur number

Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by ratchy: 5:38pm On Dec 26, 2015

E get as Nigerian men dey think, not always straightforward . Babe buy ur car abeg

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