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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 5:05pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Osarieme415: Your advice is suitable only for d western world, not Nigeria. Please don't mislead d young lady |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by nikenry(f): 5:07pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
jackpot:So sad a fellow woman is still mentally enslaved. I can bet it with all I have dat you don't know where you are going in life. How old are you? Obviously, you are not married, and have little on hand experience of what marriage is . You need to learn from d elders dear! |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 5:17pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
At o.p, if you must get a car, get a cheap small Tokunbo car. You must understand d kind of society you live in. Buying a big car as a single woman in Nigeria will definitely reduce your chances of getting married by a large percentage. I used to have a friend who works in d financial sector, she went and acquired an suv at d age of 26 as a single woman, today she is 31, no husband. To make matters worse, she is a single mother, with a son she had at 23. I also have a married big sister who is a top manager in one of d biggest oil n gas companies in d world. She earns close to 2m every month, but can you imagine that she has never acquired a car even as a married woman.? Her husband is central responsible for buying cars for d family n acquiring other capital goods for the family. Please consider d kind of society you live in, and don't take a decision that would deny you of opportunities in future. Goodluck Doctor Denwa Dauda 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by cococandy(f): 5:48pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
After reading the comments on this thread, some people will still pretend not to know that the society we live in tries to limit women. They attack those who say it as if it's a lie. Mtchew. OP pls buy your car if you can afford it. Shikena. 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Osarieme415(m): 7:14pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
DrDauda:She will get to appreciate the wisdom in my counsel. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Osarieme415(m): 7:19pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
cococandy:The tragedy of it all is that some ladies, like some quoting me, choose to be repressed by the unfair obligations and expectations foisted on them by society. It is so sickening. 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by naijainfogalery: 7:31pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
That even makes it better. I would double her allowee CallMeMadMan: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by naijainfogalery: 7:33pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
It doesnt matter, the most important thiung is for a man to be the man of the house , the amount that i earn or she earns doesnt matter. May God always bless me to take care of ALL the bills ussy09: 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by naijainfogalery: 7:34pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
LOL its annoying when i hear people tthat are not married saying, their wife must split house rent and school fees , Thats foolish. may God bless me to sort all the bills notwithstanding who earns higher nikenry: 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Xplicit007: 9:08pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
@Goodsamaritan, you nailed it bro.
Regarding the ready ladies, i dont mind hook up. Damn serious! |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Xplicit007: 9:09pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
@Goodsamaritan, you nailed it bro.
Regarding the ready ladies, i dont mind hook up. Damn serious! |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by bukatyne(f): 12:51am On Dec 28, 2015 |
craziebone: This is really a nice post and I get your POV. Truth is respect/headship has been tied to finance and our society doesn't encourage women marrying men with significantly higher income/status because that is his means of control. Check out any thread the wife 'misbehaves'... The first question is ... 'Is she the breadwinner' like it matters. That said, I believe individuals should put the society aside and live their lives according to their convictions. 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Aude(f): 5:53am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Tolatutu: Well said. I wish I could give you a million likes. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Doobhem(m): 9:56am On Dec 28, 2015 |
omotohdarajugbogbolo:It will chase away the kind of men you wouldn't want in the first place. 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by damiso(f): 3:35pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
I have never understood this buying car= no suitors How is car or no car a marriage criteria? Na wa o . Make I no talk OP buy the car if you think YOU need it joor 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 8:21pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
arnold123:why would you put your sister and slut in the same sentence.? all I meant is there are occupations like Coca Cola where you work in non public exposed place. same with military, difficult to meet outsiders? so driving only makes it less likely |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 8:26pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
milowys77:to be accepted by society I'm not even bothered about the jealousy insecurity but the lack of confidence in approaching the lady abi him go fly hang for the months like James Bond de toast her. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 8:41pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
oglalasioux:so this young lady should reach 44 bfor she 'lowers 'her standard abi. . If you ask her she'll tell you men woo her but she has set her standards too high. Besides she is not too old to get married. What we need in Africa is a change in attitude.will she wait for Africa to change bfor she marries? Let's not marry solely for making babies.why else? They are many orphans one can adopt and better the society.our families go gree? It's wrong to allow extremely beautiful women suffer loneliness because of their age and the fear that they may not bear children.nobody allowed them, they allowed themselves |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by oglalasioux(m): 8:46pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
mikolo80:Thanks for your careful analysis of my post. You however went a little too far in portraying my intentions. Thanks anyway. You analysed with a typical African mentality. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by arnold123: 9:29pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
mikolo80:have it whatever way that makes u happy!! |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by JOAB2010: 12:20pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Seems like I'd like to meet you Mikollon, I like to associate with people like you who are broad-minded and confident enough to let people be who they want to be without battling with self-esteem issues. Nice one Bro. Mikollon1: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by ifyalways(f): 1:37pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
It's poverty mentality that would make anyone think cars are luxuries. I once thought like that too. My dear OP and any other lady, if you've worked hard, saved enough, invested a bit and need a car, please go for it. Be it tuketuke, Tokunbo or tear rubber so long as it moves and you can afford it. 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by milowys77(m): 4:59pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
mikolo80: Nice answer tho: to be accepted by society. I rest my case |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 11:57pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
arnold123:Wetin concine me. she requested advice. we're just giving it. she doesn't have to take it. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 11:58pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
oglalasioux:na oyinbo she wan marry? when in Rome... an all that |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by arnold123: 1:18am On Dec 31, 2015 |
mikolo80:lol |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by ladygudhead(f): 1:13pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
amunkita:. good analysis! though I support her getting a car if she need it;for mobility u know. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by ladygudhead(f): 1:26pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
don't mind them.its not like anybody is saying having a car as a human is bad.But the way you have just analysed it is good. Aigbehis: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by kesses: 2:57pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
actually am a miss. unless you are ready to give me money for trans operation becoming a guy is not totally a bad idea Eleniyan15: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nyceguy92: 3:41am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Analysiscorner: I guess by clean and modern you the latest BMWs, Mercedes, Lexus, etc? The point here is modesty. All the lady needs is reliable modest car that will take her to wherever she wants to go. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 3:48am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Nyceguy92:Sorry to cut in but please what is an immodest or innappropriate car And what if she has a dream car in mind that she's thought of and wanted since youth.... What do u suggest |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by teetee2(f): 12:02pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Please my dear, car is not a luxury but a necessity. If you were given an official car + a driver, would you say no. Somebody was advised same way then up till this moment no car, no husband. Just follow your spirit. |
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