chocolateme:
End time wife, she better be careful especially on this new year we are entering.
Oga if you know that this situation is going to get worse in future, I suggest you clip her wings now before she soars higher than the eagle. Terminate that jib of hers, heavens will not fall, with time she will get over it but your family will still be intact

Miami11:
When did men start picking maids, end time husband

What would be his reason for him not wanting an elderly maid, why can't he make breakfast himself for the kids, some of this bushmen husband masquerades smh,

I only hire elderly women in my house, no young maids for hubby to abuse and impregnate, ( that hubby probably has hidden agenda)

How should she live her job, will he provide all the household needs, I thought the more income in the family the better

The wife is right

You are not being sincere a bit. The wife was the first to break a mutual agreement on the basis of self desire and fulfilment yet will not see to the upkeep of the house. Do you need to be told that the husband went out of his way first to get a maid. A responsible wife will not allow her husband to do that.

Your final assertion reveals a lot to desiring less of people who still think in this way.

bebene:
She is a graduate and before they got married, he made her promise she will not go for Bank job, But later after the marriage,she got an offer from one of those banks and acaccepted it. seeing the level of her excitement, he allowed her to go for the job. She now doesnt have time to prepare breakfast for the family and mostly come back late. He now hired a19year maid, but the wife said she doesnt want young girl as a maid, she wants elderly woman. And he said he doesnt want elderly woman in his house and gave his wife the option of quitting the job or that young maid continues.....

She now doesnt listen to him, come back around 11pm, if he talk, she will say 'i thought you have a second wife'.

pls what should he do,?

bebene:
She is a graduate and before they got married, he made her promise she will not go for Bank job, But later after the marriage,she got an offer from one of those banks and acaccepted it. seeing the level of her excitement, he allowed her to go for the job. She now doesnt have time to prepare breakfast for the family and mostly come back late. He now hired a19year maid, but the wife said she doesnt want young girl as a maid, she wants elderly woman. And he said he doesnt want elderly woman in his house and gave his wife the option of quitting the job or that young maid continues.....

She now doesnt listen to him, come back around 11pm, if he talk, she will say 'i thought you have a second wife'.

pls what should he do,?

desmond122:
Which bank do close by 11pm, End time couple

bukatyne:


Since you are not the he, help me ask him the following questions:

1. Where do they live and where does Wifey work?
2. What dept does she work as a banker?
3. What is the range of her pay?
4. What else does the maid do apart from prepare your breakfast?
5. Are you opposed to a wife working or a wife working in the bank?

Compliments of the season

ronald4lif:


You should have done better to proffer a remedy to the quandary than bickering about which is better between marriage and a career. None should be substituted to the other regardless of which you consider better. What you assume to be better isn't same for another.

While I have admitted that divorce is a premature option at this time but I would maintain it shouldn't be dismissed if they can't arrive at a solution. Divorce isn't sacrilegious nor a taboo and the best approach for any couple with irreconcilable differences and I don't know what's your problem with divorce.

Your rhetorics about fornication is frivolous as I don't know what that means outside the perimeters of religion. And it might also interest you to know that not everyone is religious thus not bound by it teachings.

Vikky014:
Anoda one don land

whn will peopl strt sharing good stories abt marriage

MrsChima:


Unfortunately, Modern marriages aren't the same as our forefathers. However, some people have this idea that marriage is peaches and cream, it isn't. There are good moments in marriage when the couple is genuine, loving, respextful, comoassion, trustworthy, and intimacy with one another. If any of those things lacks then there are sad stories about marriages.

Some people don't marry for the right reasons or right person then hence grievances and disdains.

I am sure there are good stories about marriages but, we can also learn from the sad stories about marriages as well.

Vikky014:
Thank u very much for dis

dasparrow:


And this advice is coming from a woman. You Nigerian bred women are indeed your own worse enemies. Let me ask you this, is his wife an eagle that she will need her wings clipped or is she a child? Why should he terminate his wife's job? Is he her father? You think heavens will not fall should he do such? You are indeed naive. Let him go ahead and eradicate his wife's livelihood. When she poisons his food or does some diabolical sh!t on him to make his life turn upside down, then he will know how far. This is why so many Nigerians are constantly having to deal with spiritual attacks. You people are good at aggravating the hell out of other people thinking you can get away with your foolishness because you are in a place of authority. Then when you get attacked you begin to jump from church to church, pastor to pastor seeking deliverance from your woes.

Do you think we are still in the 16th century? We are in the 21st century and communication is key. He and his wife must find a way to sort out their differences. If they cannot even do that, then maybe they ought to have remained single because marriage is no joke and requires a lot of patience and compromise. No be to marry be the matter. Staying happily married is where many Nigerians fail woefully.

Miami11:


I'm not wrong I don't hire anyone young in my house, my mom gets me those village women her age that need help, all they do is primarily take care of kids and very little house work, me and hubby do chores together

I like older women because they are mature, hubby will never sleep with them you can never mistreat a person your moms age so your conscious is always right.

cococandy:
In one breath you see people lashing women for being dependent and waiting for men to provide everything for them. In the next breath they agree women shouldn't have a life or career except one dictated by the hubby. I tire for this confusion.

Anyway @ post, I'd stand my ground if I was her. But of course not deliberately come home very late like she seems to be doing.
He should be skilled enough as an adult to fix himself up some food am when she's not around except he's quadriplegic. WTH?

They both need to compromise. I know a couple that both work in a bank and have no house help. They both Leave home early and come back late. Yet they do just fine. And have never had any problems because of their jobs.
That's what happens when two people are willing to be with each other and are ready to make it work.
Not one person sitting in a high and mighty chair dictating what the other should do without making room for compromise.

SAMBARRY:
Bukky bukky
inspector general of police. Shan ma

Compliments o

bukatyne:


Merry Christmas dear

How are you and family?

@bold, Lols.

Maybe not same set of posters.

RockMaxi:




You are not being sincere a bit. The wife was the first to break a mutual agreement on the basis of self desire and fulfilment yet will not see to the upkeep of the house. Do you need to be told that the husband went out of his way first to get a maid. A responsible wife will not allow her husband to do that.

Your final assertion reveals a lot to desiring less of people who still think in this way.

bukatyne:


Lols

How are you &,Wura?

Miami11:
When did men start picking maids, end time husband

What would be his reason for him not wanting an elderly maid, why can't he make breakfast himself for the kids, some of this bushmen husband masquerades smh,

I only hire elderly women in my house, no young maids for hubby to abuse and impregnate, ( that hubby probably has hidden agenda)

How should she live her job, will he provide all the household needs, I thought the more income in the family the better

The wife is right

agarawu23:
That bank job is a NO go area for my wife.
If she like make she read all the whole book for this world with masters and thousands of degrees, she will end up having her own business where she can close or go to shop any fvcking time. If you aren't pleased with my principal, go for another guy. Simple as ABC

quivah:

Lmfao!!!!

agarawu23:
yes o
That's my policy

quivah:

You are such a principled man..don't you think?

Miami11:
When did men start picking maids, end time husband

What would be his reason for him not wanting an elderly maid, why can't he make breakfast himself for the kids, some of this bushmen husband masquerades smh,

I only hire elderly women in my house, no young maids for hubby to abuse and impregnate, ( that hubby probably has hidden agenda)

How should she live her job, will he provide all the household needs, I thought the more income in the family the better

The wife is right