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NakedSnake:
Women this women that.. This gender is becoming boring

emusmith:
Some Reasons Ladies Act The Way They Do.

Good evening peeps.
I have critically looked at some complains by Nairaland guys and to be honest, some of them sound so hilarious. They open threads about it and still, the truth remains covered. They leave more frustrated, I guess.

I thought it timely to unveil some of the REASONS LADIES ACT THE WAY THEY DO.

I'm no psychologist neither I TIM LAHAYE, but I believe some of these answers will help my Nairaland friends to better understand our ladies better and not get confused when these attitudes play out.

Let's see some reasons:


1. When she leaves her undies at your place

- A lady told me saying, it's a "possessing your possession" tactics. I was like, who does that? I thought differently until today.

- A few others (5%) just forgot it. Thanks to constant cohabitation.



2. When she starts over-demanding even when she knows your financial capacity.

- She just met some one else and wants a breakup via a quarrel.

- Must have heard friends boasting on how theirs involve in profligate spending on them.


3. When she gets angry each time you ask her about her past relationships

- She isn't proud of something there. Not like she is bad but it hurts her to have made some mistakes. Give her some time before proceeding to the next point...


- She is hiding something from you.
If she is a sincere girl who wants a honest relationship, she shouldn't get angry for crying out loud. All the time you gave her, yet, she wants to conceal it till...you hear it from elsewhere and she now comes begging, "hun, I'm sorry. It was the devil" lobatan!



4. When she tells you, "I'm in a relationship" and still wants to be your friend, and her supposed "imaginary" boyfriend isn't in sight."


- Have you noticed, the best thing to do
is to be her friend? That statement is a tricky one. Be her friend to the point of being a brother (Make her free, laugh and happy, with friendship in mind- cancel her thoughts) . At that point, she will focus her attention on you. She might even approach you. It might be too late then.


5. When she keeps changing her decisions about dating you.


- Sometimes, it's because there are other options available to her. But something about you makes her want to still consider you. She's still trying to keep you with one hand.

- Other times, it's just the influence of friends. Her bestie, perhaps.


6. When you are having an "emotional chat" with her and dp goes, wow, "I love you, Pete. and your name is Jamiu!

- Firstly Jamiu, she might be seeing you as a
stalker. Maybe, you forced your way into her Friend's List. She wants to get rid of you ASAP.

- Secondly, If you're James and not Jamiu, she's just trying to play with your mind by making you think she is surrounded. More often than not, Pete doesn't exist! She's so alone. It's a strategy called 5-4-1.


7. When she says to this thread and the Op, "You'll never be able to understand a woman, NEVER, no matter how hard you try!"

- That's a harsh defence tactics by Nairaland Ladies called 6-3-1 since 1672. .



Gnyt.

Nigerian girls font really worth this much tho

Nubian113:
Said this time and time


"Just because you play PlayStation don't mean you know the ins and out of it!"


Lil boys wanna teach subjects on lil girls then loosely use the words "Lady & Woman" lol!



I laffff in Somali



Look for your Queens fooooools instead of learning the tricks to pity sex

Orikinla:
OP, thanks for the analyses.
These must be Nigerian ladies.
Only players are best for them. especially players with power.
Majority of them are good actresses, and you have to be a good director to handle them effectively.
But I feel sorry for them, because majority of them come relatively cheap, otherwise they would have been more ambitious and successful and not still eating from hand to mouth and ending up with equally men without ambition.

ronald4lif:
In some cases it's worth asking but for others not so much. Let's say you've a girlfriend/boyfriend who just wakes up one morning and start uploading random pictures of a particular opposite sex with a loving note to go with it.

Not like it's their birthday, convocation or no personal convivial of his/her or any such thing. To rush in asking the person who's that is poor calculation so one have to first ensure they assimilate the objective and read in-between the lines before reacting.

Some could be a well design plan to make one jealous and to fall for the bait is foolish and capable of being used to manipulate one when ever the person feels like it. But if you don't ask them who's that person there won't be more subsequent foxy prank to get you jealous.

ronald4lif:
In some cases it's worth asking but for others not so much. Let's say you've a girlfriend/boyfriend who just wakes up one morning and start uploading random pictures of a particular opposite sex with a loving note to go with it.

Not like it's their birthday, convocation or no personal convivial of his/her or any such thing. To rush in asking the person who's that is poor calculation so one have to first ensure they assimilate the objective and read in-between the lines before reacting.

Some could be a well design plan to make one jealous and to fall for the bait is foolish and capable of being used to manipulate one when ever the person feels like it. But if you don't ask them who's that person there won't be more subsequent foxy prank to get you jealous.

ronald4lif:
In some cases it's worth asking but for others not so much. Let's say you've a girlfriend/boyfriend who just wakes up one morning and start uploading random pictures of a particular opposite sex with a loving note to go with it.

Not like it's their birthday, convocation or no personal convivial of his/her or any such thing. To rush in asking the person who's that is poor calculation so one have to first ensure they assimilate the objective and read in-between the lines before reacting.

Some could be a well design plan to make one jealous and to fall for the bait is foolish and capable of being used to manipulate one when ever the person feels like it. But if you don't ask them who's that person there won't be more subsequent foxy prank to get you jealous.

ImaIma1:
I know guys will like this post. About understanding women...i don't even understand myself and i hv quit trying to.
People play too much games. Just come up abd say "i don't want again"! No time

ronald4lif:
You've a point but sometimes due to negligence or would I say laziness on author's part piece like this can hardly be disparate. Most writers just find it hard to add 'some' or 'many' as the case may be and just lumps everyone in. But either way, no cases can be absolute, I think we all know it's directed at a particular class irrespective of the obvious generalisation.

That said, perhaps we should start having females who 'exposes' some of men's perceived relationship 'misdemeanor' too from next year. The ladies-focused articles are becoming boring and some change of fresh air would do. I implore you to lead the campaign, nothing dey happen.

Orlaoluwayimika:
I will agree wit u partially dre re times d@ u will actually 1t 2 show blind eyes 2 it with d intention of not being jealous buh it may also be a test 2 show whether u really care abt her or not and if u refuse 2 comment on it, it may actually read another thing 2 dem. Things like[i]I will agree wit u partially dre re times d@ u will actually 1t 2 show blind eyes 2 it with d intention of not being jealous buh it may also be a test 2 show whether u really care abt her or not and if u refuse 2 comment on it, it may actually read another thing 2 dem. Things like[/i]I will agree wit u partially dre re times d@ u will actually 1t 2 show blind eyes 2 it with d intention of not being jealous buh it may also be a test 2 show whether u really care abt her or not and if u refuse 2 comment on it, it may actually read another thing 2 dem.

Oliviaarims:
Hmm. I think the OP was too general. I can't relate to any of those points. Never done any.


It seems as though u're saying girls are silly. Because I really don't know why a right thinking and mature person should do any of the afore-cited things.

gabinogem:
like the ones that goes to the extent of sleeping with ur friend(s) just to spite u... funny stunts some ladies pull these days.

emusmith:
You can't relate? Can you listen to yourself?

aprilwise:
An X called me telling me that she has been seriously thinking about her life nd our relationship. Age is not her side nd I am not ready for marriage nd she wanna marry so we should call it a day. Nd I said ok, fine wish best of luck in life nd I cut d call. After an hour later she called back started insulting me nd telling me all manner of words.

Oliviaarims:
Yes, I can't. Since the list's referring to girls and I'm most certainly a girl, I'm supposed to identify with at least one of the 7 listed points.



Now, don't don't take this the wrong way. I'm free to make my own assertion and disagree, since u just about generalised the 7 points. U shouldn't be taking any offence. I took none.

aprilwise:
An X called me telling me that she has been seriously thinking about her life nd our relationship. Age is not her side nd I am not ready for marriage nd she wanna marry so we should call it a day. Nd I said ok, fine wish best of luck in life nd I cut d call. After an hour later she called back started insulting me nd telling me all manner of words.

Oliviaarims:
If what he listed were applicable to a sizable majority, it would have been fine. But I believe those 7things apply to only a very minute percentage.


About the other thing, I think the lists concerning women are more rampant and interesting because women are believed to be a bundle of complexities and "lovers of money," as the men like to tag us.. Lol. Should anybody begin to expose male ill-attributes in relationships, that would certainly not be me. I really believe guys are simple to understand and a whole lot of mishaps caused by guys in relationships would be avoided if a lot more girls will be more attuned to detecting their silly and subtle machinations and ensuring not to be ensnared into them.
Some girls are just too quick to indulge guys in rubbish!

Coraje:
There's nothing special about women's way of thinking. If u know how to handle people in general, u'll know how to handle them and please stop making them look like mysterious beings roaming the face of the earth.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]spot on.

Putting up a guy's picture won't make me jealous....it will only drift me farther away from her. [/color]