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I really dont understand why most girls tend to get angry whenever a guy doesnt give them what they ask for (especially money)... Most times, when a girl ask a guy for financial help, and the guy is unable to help her, it usually makes the girl to be angry with the guy. To the extent of not talking to the guy anymore. There are girls who sees their friendship with a guy as a means of getting some favors from him. Even if the guy doesnt want anything from her. Naija girls are just too dramatic. Same way some girls use guys to step up in life, only to start claiming they made it through hardwork.

marvelck:
I really dont understand why most girls tend to get angry whenever a guy doesnt give them what they ask for (especially money)... Most times, when a girl ask a guy for financial help, and the guy is unable to help her, it usually makes the girl to be angry with the guy. To the extent of not talking to the guy anymore. There are girls who sees their friendship with a guy as a means of getting some favors from him. Even if the guy doesnt want anything from her. Naija girls are just too fake and dramatic. Same way some girls use guys to step up in life, only to start claiming they made it through hardwork. Imagine? Girls should stop judging guys based on the financial favors they render to them. Cos there are girls who only laugh with you when you are able to assist them financially. But anytime the guy is not able to do such, they get so pissed off. Imagine, even when the guy is not dating her. Naija girls are something else these days...

My bro is the same too as to when a girl refuses sex to a guy we get mad...
Bt sha our girls are literally turning to Whor#s already i am just coming from Gra (PH)area to see a friend,the kind of girls i see lined up on the road i wonder if better girls still dey again.

Even you Boo get Boo dis days... what a world and Generation.

marvelck:
I really dont understand why most girls tend to get angry whenever a guy doesnt give them what they ask for (especially money)... Most times, when a girl ask a guy for financial help, and the guy is unable to help her, it usually makes the girl to be angry with the guy. To the extent of not talking to the guy anymore. There are girls who sees their friendship with a guy as a means of getting some favors from him. Even if the guy doesnt want anything from her. Naija girls are just too fake and dramatic. Same way some girls use guys to step up in life, only to start claiming they made it through hardwork. Imagine? Girls should stop judging guys based on the financial favors they render to them. Cos there are girls who only laugh with you when you are able to assist them financially. But anytime the guy is not able to do such, they get so pissed off. Imagine, even when the guy is not dating her. Naija girls are something else these days...

actually, the guys that ask such questions above is what amazes me.... shouldnt a man be RELIEVED when that broke ass babe dont talk to him any longer?! you got rid of her free of charge, count your blessings. each and everyone has the right to decide on what criteria they want to evaluate you as a man, and it is YOUR Godly duty to get rid of these no good parasites from your life, by any means necessary.

Its a democracy.

They have the right to ask.

I have the right to say NO.

They get angry. I don't care.

I have experienced that first hand and the outcome is bizarre. Only Nigeria girls does that and then they call you stingy to tarnish your image. Go get a job lazy a*ss.....

You ask; i don't give, you get angry unnecessarily; I dump your sorry a**.
When men turn ATM

Ladies often get angry when a guy denies them money because many perceive financial provision as a core, traditional responsibility of a man in a relationship, often equating it directly with love, care, and commitment. While some, often referred to as "entitled" or "lazy" in some threads, may use relationships as a survival mechanism, others view it as a necessary,Two-way exchange (transactional) where they offer companionship, affection, and, in some cases, submission in return for financial support.
Here are the primary reasons for this reaction:
Financial Support = Love and Value: Many women believe that if a man truly loves her, he will provide for her needs voluntarily without being asked. A refusal to give money is interpreted as a lack of affection or a sign that he does not see a future with her.
The "Provider" Expectation: In many Nigerian cultural contexts, men are seen as providers, even before marriage. A man who cannot provide is seen as failing in his primary role.
Transactional Relationships: Some perspectives suggest that relationships are viewed by many as transactional, where a woman provides companionship and "takes care" of the man, and in turn, the man covers her expenses. When a guy does not provide, the "contract" is seen as broken, causing anger.
Entitlement and Misplaced Priorities: Some discussions argue that a "culture of entitlement" exists, where some ladies believe they are owed financial support regardless of the man's financial state.
Fear of Being "Used" (by the girl): A common sentiment among guys is that a girl who doesn't ask for money doesn't love the guy, because she is not relying on him, making the man feel unneeded. Conversely, a woman may feel "used" for sex if the man is unwilling to invest financially.
Shame and Rejection: Some suggest that when a lady goes out of her way to ask (swallowing her pride) and is rejected, the anger is a defensive reaction to shame and rejection.
Men should avoid "parasitic" relationships by being clear about expectations early and not feeling obliged to fund a lifestyle they cannot afford.