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Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by PromiseJonah(op):
I just came back from school two weeks ago for xmass break and I noticed new neighbors moved into a near by compound, and there is a black, tall and skinny Delta Girl (Warri to be precise) that have been coming around our sitting room. Definitely she is one of my new neighbors so I was forming Boss at first smiley

She approached me by saying "hey! See this boy, you fine o, see your hair", OMG I didn't believe my ears so I was just blushing, I became dumbfounded and I was always shy anyways we rolled well that day, I wasn't expecting anything much but surprised me by saying u must take me out this xmass I was thinking its a child's play I never knew she meant it.

Therefore I took to my heels on 25 when I saw her coming, only to come back later when she has already gone. She told me that she has forgiven me for not taking her out that day, and that 1st January 2016 is a do or die affair, I was scared of loosing her that's why I did not tell her that I don't. Have capacity (as in cash :-) ) .


So now the money my uncle promised me has not yet arrived. My dad told me plainly before traveling back to work not to expect any money from this xmass because I extorted money from him early to host a party in school last month and he later found out.

So I want urgent advice (HELP) on how to go about this fortcoming mess, few hours to go... I don't want to embarrass myself, and I don't want to loss her either, I know I'm so cute that's why she admired me so easily and fell for me I'm aware that she is a Warri girl which might be more expensive to white wash her. Just help me out. Thanks in Anticipation••• No insult please.



The only plan-B I have because I have only =N=500 at hand is to pay our transport fare with =N=200 to and fro any available church service on 1st and then use =N=100 each for offering and then buy 2 bottled water =N=50 each and then cal it a day at least I would be nice starting up the new year with your [i] newly acquired bae in the church



but you think its a good idea?
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by PromiseJonah(op):
Please do the needful mods


FP/ Ftc is not by power or by might its just a priviledge



Cc: lalasticala
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I need urgent answers
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by misspicy(f): 4:56pm On Dec 31, 2015
lmao grin
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by Monalisa185(f): 4:57pm On Dec 31, 2015
if you enter new year like this, dude, your own Don finish be that ooo... smdh
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by firstking01(m): 4:59pm On Dec 31, 2015
Ok na..
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by Nobody: 5:00pm On Dec 31, 2015
hmmmm @op be a man, take the little money u have and take her out, haba!! guy how much will you spend? its not a big deal na, whether u dnt have plenty or u have, do this and earn respect, remember respect is earned.
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by obinnashady(m): 5:02pm On Dec 31, 2015
U aint got cash and u wanna impress a babe....work hard to play hard...




If u'll take this elderly advice,it will help
Invite her to ur house,make sure u give her whatever u have 4 new year
Buy her a drink @ home.
Tell her stories that u don't wanna go anywhere
Or u send me ur account number lemme show u love.
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by sinaj(f): 5:03pm On Dec 31, 2015
Itz new year!



Change nd focus more on ur studies and also how to make money wink
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by Tallesty1(m): 5:04pm On Dec 31, 2015
Your heels are still there with you bah?




Take on them again
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by dollyjoy(f): 5:22pm On Dec 31, 2015
PromiseJonah:
I just came back from school two weeks ago for xmass break and I noticed new neighbors moved into a near by compound, and there is a black, tall and skinny Delta Girl (Warri to be precise) that have been coming around our sitting room. Definitely she is one of my new neighbors so I was forming Boss at first smiley

She approached me by saying "hey! See this boy, you fine o, see your hair", OMG I didn't believe my ears so I was just blushing, I became dumbfounded and I was always shy anyways we rolled well that day, I wasn't expecting anything much but surprised me by saying u must take me out this xmass I was thinking its a child's play I never knew she meant it.

Therefore I took to my heels on 25 when I saw her coming, only to come back later when she has already gone. She told me that she has forgiven me for not taking her out that day, and that 1st January 2016 is a do or die affair, I was scared of loosing her that's why I did not tell her that I don't. Have capacity (as in cash :-) ) .


So now the money my uncle promised me has not yet arrived. My dad told me plainly before traveling back to work not to expect any money from this xmass because I extorted money from him early to host a party in school last month and he later found out.

So I want urgent advice (HELP) on how to go about this fortcoming mess, few hours to go... I don't want to embarrass myself, and I don't want to loss her either, I know I'm so cute that's why she admired me so easily and fell for me I'm aware that she is a Warri girl which might be more expensive to white wash her. Just help me out. Thanks in Anticipation••• No insult please.
sorry op,no offence meant but from your writeup i deduce you are still very young,.why not tell her you cant take her out because you lack finance and stand on that?

It is not easy,agreed but it will save a whole lot of stress.

Ask yourself this question,

after the outing what next?

If you dnt end it all now,you will end up using your school fees to make that chic happy.


Think man,thinkwink
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by PromiseJonah(op): 5:31pm On Dec 31, 2015
Tallesty1:
Your heels are still there with you bah?



Take on them again
Thanks but that means I'll loose her in shame and disgust huh
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by PromiseJonah(op): 6:01pm On Dec 31, 2015
dollyjoy:
sorry op,no offence meant but from your writeup i deduce you are still very young,.why not tell her you cant take her out because you lack finance and stand on that?

It is not easy,agreed but it will save a whole lot of stress.

Ask yourself this question,

after the outing what next?

If you dnt end it all now,you will end up using your school fees to make that chic happy.


Think man,thinkwink
OMG that's the point! I'll decide few hours time
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by dollyjoy(f): 6:04pm On Dec 31, 2015
PromiseJonah:
OMG that's the point! I'll decide few hours time
please do.

Thank me laterwink
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by Craigston: 6:08pm On Dec 31, 2015
We celebrate on 25 December and likewise on 1 January. Whatever you did on 25 December, do likewise on 1 January.
OP you ehn! Your previous scandal has not been forgotten (ur papa fit no give u cash till January end o) and you're hastening towards another scandal. One Warri girl just park in wan use u hold bodi and u dey shake bodi go: u sure say she no from Edo? That girl is a gold digger and she's not using a spade: she's gonna dig you with an excavator.
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by PromiseJonah(op):
dollyjoy:
Ask yourself this question,

after the outing what next?
Next? I'll just take her inside my room for dinner, and then pounce on her till her fixed nails and those scary eye lashes would become worn out overnight... smiley eat her up like sharwama


Because thinking of the stress she's been giving me is a nightmare!
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 31, 2015
Monalisa185:
[b]if you enter new year like this, dude, [/b]your own Don finish be that ooo... smdh
What to you mean by the bolded? smiley
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by PromiseJonah(op): 10:20am On Jan 01, 2016
daretodiffer:
What to you mean by the bolded? smiley
Maybe it means being Broke

HappyNewYear
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by Monalisa185(f): 1:12pm On Jan 01, 2016
daretodiffer:
What to you mean by the bolded? smiley
sorry, which is the bolded?
Re: Help: New Year Dating Almost Going Sour (urgently Please) by PromiseJonah(op): 11:37pm On Jan 01, 2016
Monalisa185:
sorry, which is the bolded?
The bolded is the bolded smiley


Anyways back to the. Matter I was glad when she did not show up today smiley though she latter came around late this evening and then I poured charges on her


so you kept me waiting eh?, I was supposed to met my uncle to collect a promised gift but you kept me engaged right?

For that I'm convinced you have a boyfriend already that suddenly took you out

and she was like I'm so sorry dear, my aunt kept me hostage, as in tied down to house chores

Silently I was overjoyed in my heart but showing wrong impression irronically


Signs of a #HappyNewYear
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