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Happy new year everyone,thankgod we all made it to this year..

I have something troubling me since few years now, infact ever since my first year in university back then as at 2008/2009. The problem is that the kind of girls i want i hardly get them or they dont feel like dating me,they are either dating someone else or heartbroken and never want to date again.. but the girls i dont really like and dont see them as my level or type to date,they are the once that flocks around me..

When im talking about my type i am not talking about the beauty alone, some other criteria like smart,intelligent,outspoken and so on.. and i am someone that do love tall slim and slender girls instead what i see on my way is either fat or short. Which i dont like..
Does it mean my type of girls are all taken? Or i am having a high level of expectations and class of the kind of girls i want.. am i expecting too much? Is my hope too high or what?
Please help me.. cos ever since then till now i havent had any serious stuff cos im being too selective or so.

I think the kind of help you need is psychological....

i THINK ur THINKIN is affecting ur THOUGHTS...... hav u ever done wat we call FAMILY LIBERATION b4? give it a try.

Op, i had wanted to creat a thread like dis, cos we are replicas in dis area of life...i guess our taste is just too high, bt dat doesn't mean i'm gonna settle for less...i advice u'd keep ur taste moderate...i just hope dis works, cos as i'm advicing u, i'm advicing myself too

Thanks.. is that really a high taste? I just av choices

firstking01:
Op, i had wanted to creat a thread like dis, cos we are replicas in dis area of life...i guess our taste is just too high, bt dat doesn't mean i'm gonna settle for less...i advice u'd keep ur taste moderate...i just hope dis works, cos as i'm advicing u, i'm advicing myself too

KingKonga:
Thanks.. is that really a high taste? I just av choices

my brother, its berra u start smwer...u myt end up loving her...reduce ur taste

But something av to make u like someone like a smart brilliant girl or so.. not really looks. But most of dem lack dese stuffs

firstking01:
my brother, its berra u start smwer...u myt end up loving her...reduce ur taste

Really?? For having a sense of choices

biz2get:
I think the kind of help you need is psychological....

KingKonga:
Really?? For having a sense of choices

Like I said.... psychological help that what you need....

It would be beyond your understanding now...

But you will thank me later

KingKonga:
But something av to make u like someone like a smart brilliant girl or so.. not really looks. But most of dem lack dese stuffs

yea true tho...bt i 've resolved within myself nt be in a haste or be desperate to go into any relationship for nw...i'm just very reserved nw waiting for destiny to decide for me...tho, there's dis gal on my radar nw...

Ok thanks.. lalasticlala