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I dont knw how to be concise or succinct bt i wil try to minimise this epistel
I started dating this gal since jan 2013 we become close very close dat we always stay in d same sit during my post jamb lesson in lagos she tells me things(nt all things) but me i do tell her almost evrytin my poblem wit ha is dat she refuse to tel me ha age up to dis day wen ever i ask ha she wil be like choose btw 1995 and 1994 or 1996 apart from dat she is extremly anoyingly secretive bt wen i refuse to tell ha tins she wil pick offense.fastforward to 2014 wen i gain admission in one of the university in the east i always call ha because she didnt get. i always encourage ha because it affected ha emotionally so i call ha almost everyday she came for ha post utme in ma school in july last 2 years and she stayed in ha cousine place we met d following day after much pleading. (We didnt have sex) bt wen she came she told me dat she wanted to suck me and i allowed ha she didnt evn allow me to touch ha boobs bt she was busy playing with my dick as if it was a blackberry phone. Wen she went back to lagos cos she didnt pass bt she later gain adimission in anoda sch in d same state wit me bt if i tel ha to come and see me she wil be giving me silly excuses dat shes busy wit ha studies bt wil be confessing ha un dying love me. Last yr i beg ha to see me bt she refuse stil givn me same silly excuses bt wen she finally came dats on nov(ie after one and 4 months we last met) she says she wants to suck me i allowed ha again bt afta getin me high she refuse to hav sex wit me giv me silly excuses and she promise to come b4 d yr runs out bt later change ha mind( like she dose all the time)at the 11th hour
Dis 2016 i promise neva to tell ha to come to my place becos i fill like am wasting my tym since she prefer calling me dan seeing me
Ha school to my sch is jst N100 bt she wont come and she has neva giving me anyting b4 apart from 200 card she sent to me last yr although she doesnt ask much from me bt i do send ha card once in a while
I forgot to mention dat she has to much pride and vry vry stingy and arrongant she talks to ppl anyhow and she maltreat ha sisters house boys (pple dat re older than ha) pls guys i nid ur help to know how to follow dis kind of gal hav dated ha for like 3yrs(thats 36 months) bt we have nt been together for like 4
days.i forget to mention dat she gets angry easliy and wen ever she ask me to do sumtin 4 ha and i wil refuse she wil stop picking my cals i hav to text ha and beg ha. B4 she dose guys i can go on and on bt want to stop here and hear ur views am realy fustrated wit ha
There was a day i was having nite calls wit ha she ask. Me to bring out my dick i refuse because i was alone der and she pick offense i cut d cal i called ha she refuse to pick the call. Even wen she came to my place in nov she was jts playing wit my dick afta refuse for sex i told ha to stop she picked offense b4 i jst let ha to do ha wil . The 2 days she spent wit me was d same drama. I have made up my mind to tell ha dat i hav be doing ha will since last 3yrs dat dis is ha turn to do my wil becos obi wil nt always be a boy
Sorry for the long epistle and my grammatical construction

Op it would have been better,if you had wrote in full english instead of the abbrevation and all that.it makes the whole post boring.


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Op i know this will hurt you but please,leave that girl aloneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.


Concentrate more on yourself,try to improve on yourself,and trust me,they will be the one writing application letters later.


From what you posted,it obvious the lady in question isnt even into you,and am pretty sure you wouldnt be able to cope with her judging from the way you painted her,so save yourself the stress and headach by concentrating more on yourself.

the last I checked Google is free so feel free to use it

You're responsible for her arrogant and unapologetic attitude towards you. People get treated the way they avail themselves to the other. From the inception of the relationship you shouldn't have condone any of her misbehaviour and you don't have to apologise all the time, at least not when you didn't offend her. And whenever you feel she has wronged you, you stop calling and cease every form of communication with her. To apologise when you never did any wrong is no gentlemanliness but cowardice and one without principle.

I'm surprised a lady went as far as performing fellatió on you two times and you didn't cease that moment stimulating her body in such a way that she'd be the one to remove her pants. You do realise not all women can be that outspoken when it comes to sex and expect the man to know when to leap. I'm no expert but I think you failed to take advantage and may not have done enough in any of those situation.

Don't call, don't communicate until she shows remorse for her action and possibly visits. Don't let yourself get manipulated and condone her attitude anymore.

Bro, Shiit is Too Long! I barely remembered the Story when I was through reading.

Damn! 68 Minutes Gone down the Drain!

Estharfabian:
3 yrs is 36 months? yes, we did maths in Highschool...Thankyou!


Anyhoo...She gives you A Bj and you're not happy?
I thought You guys love that more than the Real Thing??


PS--if she's Arrogant, You should quit n stop whinning!

i think something is fishy about the b.j thiggy.

The funny thing is you actually assume or rather think you're in a relationship.

RexKexMilann:
Bro, Shiit is Too Long! I barely remembered the Story when I was through reading.

Damn! 68 Minutes Gone down the Drain!

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so practically , it took you 68mins to read that?

Kaiii. Where I won start dey read from now

lol...Bj? and she likes taking charge? I can bet it she is cheating on u ! guess u r her sidedicki

ronald4lif:
You're responsible for her arrogant and unapologetic attitude towards you. People get treated the way they avail themselves to the other. From the inception of the relationship you shouldn't have condone any of her misbehaviour and you don't have to apologise all the time, at least not when you didn't offend her. And whenever you feel she has wronged you, you stop calling and cease every form of communication with her. To apologise when you never did any wrong is no gentlemanliness but cowardice and one without principle.

I'm surprised a lady went as far as performing fellatió on you two times and you didn't cease that moment stimulating her body in such a way that she'd be the one to remove her pants. You do realise not all women can be that outspoken when it comes to sex and expect the man to know when to leap. I'm no expert but I think you failed to take advantage and may not have done enough in any of those situation.

Don't call, don't communicate until she shows remorse for her action and possibly visits. Don't let yourself get manipulated and condone her attitude anymore.

I tried my best i even perform cunnilingus on ha bt she refuse giving me silly excuses
The fact i apologise doesnt make me a coward rada i hate keeping malice wit someone i cant be my self or concentrate if i hav any beef wit a close frnd bt anyway thanks for ur advise

PrimeMinisterr:
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so practically , it took you 68mins to read that?

68 Seconds Niqqa! Don't be a Nerd.

Long shit who has the time to read the yeck

dollyjoy:
Op it would have been better,if you had wrote in full english instead of the abbrevation and all that.it makes the whole post boring.


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Op i know this will hurt you but please,leave that girl aloneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.


Concentrate more on yourself,try to improve on yourself,and trust me,they will be the one writing application letters later.


From what you posted,it obvious the lady in question isnt even into you,and am pretty sure you wouldnt be able to cope with her judging from the way you painted her,so save yourself the stress and headach by concentrating more on yourself.

she is really into me because ha frnd told me and i hav spoken to almost all ha frnds i knw (she doesnt keep much frnds)
D thin is dat i jst dont knw ha problem or rather she doesnt knw wot she wants
Anyway thanks for ur advise

RexKexMilann:
Bro, Shiit is Too Long! I barely remembered the Story when I was through reading.

Damn! 68 Minutes Gone down the Drain!

68 minutes!


Op, you can do better than her. You should let her go and stop been apologetic for every little thing.

If this whole story is about that girl you are deceiving;I don't even know who is deceiving who you or her,in fact the both of you are deceiving your self.
Some times you just have to let go to avoid the heart break

Profnedu:
I tried my best i even perform cunnilingus on ha bt she refuse giving me silly excuses
The fact i apologise doesnt make me a coward rada i hate keeping malice wit someone i cant be my self or concentrate if i hav any beef wit a close frnd bt anyway thanks for ur advise

No worries bruv. But I urge you not to apologise this time and even if the relationship break downs, learn from it and don't repeat same on your next affair. You're soft hearted and normally people of your type ought to be appreciated but most ladies will only assume you to be a weakling thus take advantage of you.

It has nothing to do with malice and malignity. When someone offends you they're expected to apologise, not the other way round and if they don't you keep to your beliefs. Egos can be clinged. You can be malice-free but still be principled. I don't think women are attracted any man who's not ethical and principled. They want someone who knows when to control her, treat her right but still doesn't entertain bullsh1t. Anyway, hope it pans out well.

Tanx bro

na only HA HA HA HA I jus dey see....

Was I the only person who laughed really hard to this. . Op obviously the girl don suck your brain . OMG. Thank you for this I have been sad all day.

U re welcome