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I don't even know if this should be in either Romance ,Education or Religion.

The message is what matters though

Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering who the focus of this post should be – girls or guys or both.

In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you find ‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands and wives. You find a lot of these misguided people in virtually all schools. It’s so bad that, often times,they are duly recognised and acknowledged as couples by lodge neighbours, classmates and even leaders of various students associations. Little wonder there is such an award as “The best couple of the year award” shamelessly and thoughtlessly received by students..

Like I said earlier, I really don’t know the particular gender to address but let me just keep typing. The rate at which girls live with their boyfriends in their various off campus hostels is painfully alarming. Most times, these young girls are very beautiful, with bright and promising future.They cohabit with boys who are their fellow students as roommates. The lugubrious part of it is that the silly girl would always introduce the small boy as her fiancé..

Our society is really sick courtesy of those that live in it. These girls collect either hostel fees or house rents from unsuspecting (and sometimes, struggling)parents and end up in the house of a boy. You struggled possibly for several years to gain admission. Then, you became a prayer warrior posting and shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation. You fasted. You had one prayer point filled with promises of your loyalty and devotion to God if only He would answer your prayer. Now that He has fulfilled His part by answering and granting you admission, don’t you think He is expecting you to fulfill your own part, to keep whatever promises you made to Him??

Many of you just got admission and once you settle down (especially from your second year), crazy thoughts will begin to creep into your minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush would have been over; If God didn’t capture you (possibly through the various campus fellowships), boys would have caught you. In my school we even have an unrecognized, unregistered but well offered course(Moz101. moz, being the short form 4 Mozambique hall, were fresh female students are accommodated). For d guys its a course that shouldn't be carried over. Soon, they would persuade you to move in with them. Of course, they’d give you one thousand
reasons to make you give in to their prodding..

Before you agree to move in and live with a boy on campus, consider the reason why you are in school in the first place. What image would you be creating about yourself?
Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant for him as is always the case, or will you resort to series of abortions like many other girls before you?
What advice will you give your children in future concerning this kind of things?
After school, what next? Will the relationship really lead you anywhere?

This post is finally addressing the female folks. I didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s because they are the worst hit by the grave consequences of illicit sexual relationships. They are the ones that turn out to be the sore losers in the end. They call it school life but they don’t realize how idiotic they have been till it’s too late. You are not in school to
get married. Part of the reasons why you are in school IS NOT to get the husband-and-wife
experience, to see what it feels like for the boy to provide the money for food and for the girl to go to the market for food stuffs and cook. That’s pure misplacement of purpose!
A guy told me that he was practically learning how tobe a caring and romantic husband. Such shameless! Then you hear the girl say, “We are not doing anything, we are just roommates”. Yet she commits countless abortions before graduation..

Yes, your admission has given you
unlimited freedom. Yes, your parents are not there to tell you what to do or what not to do. There is even no blood relation around, so there's no fear of someone reporting you. But what about giving your womanhood respect and protecting your dignity? What about living in such a way as to have a positive story to tell the next generation (including your children) without your conscience pricking you?

What Goes Around Will Definately Come Around....

WHY not exercise a moment of thorough thinking....

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Buhari is the cause

No, Don jazzy and Olamide caused this...

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Estharfabian:
It's A Nice piece Op..Really enlightening.

I Honestly Concur. I'd never stay with A Bf..the thought is somewhat weird...Seeing the same face Everyday? LoL! I'd be bored!

PS-Where's the dignity?

Thanks......couldn't agree more @ emboldened

@ucheHapers and Akuneshiobike....... SMH

yaff nor marry and yet u let ur babe move in with you... am still looking for the sense in that.

so they are married and single at the same time

megawax8:
I don't even know if this should be in either Romance ,Education or Religion.
The message is what matters though

In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you
find ‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands and
wives. You find a lot of these misguided people in
virtually all schools. It’s so bad that, often
times,they are duly recognised and acknowledged as
couples by lodge neighbours, classmates and even
leaders of various students associations. Little
wonder there is such an award as “The best couple of
the year award” shamelessly and thoughtlessly
received by students..

This OP doesn't know the meaning of couple.

megawax8:
I don't even know if this should be in either Romance ,Education or Religion.

The message is what matters though



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You are just on point, there was this room mate and cousin of mine during my malabite days in the year 1999/2000, before i know it he brought in his girlfriend who even wanted me to sleep with her also at my guy's back, but due to the love i have for my guy i didn't do it and i am not regretting, later in her second year she got pregnant for the guy honestly this made the both of them to leave school, the worst is that they did not later marry themselves ooo in the future as they presumed cos they later separated after the girl gave birth to a baby girl, this ruined the girl's academic and future, this guy turned to a hustler and open a boutique, again no man went near her for marriage as at the last time i saw her in 2013, her father wanted to kill my guy, my people if i continue to tell you what happened you will think am narrating a nollywood movie.

That reminds me, i can write it down and produce it as a nollywood movie, who knows, this might be a hit in this 2016, (In Korede's Voice ) i don get idea GODWIN !!!