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Let's Discuss This by englishmart(op): 5:11pm On Jan 04, 2016
some ladies pack out from their parents' house and decide to stay alone.
Probably because they have grown older, or maybe they are capable of fending for themselves (thanks to their good salaries), or because they need freedom and need to be free from distractions.

Meanwhile, my elder in her mid twenties wants to stay on her own, but she's been deterred by my parents with so many reasons they came up with.

So, what are your opinions on this? Is it advisable she stays alone when she's unmarried
Re: Let's Discuss This by RexKexMilann: 5:13pm On Jan 04, 2016
cheesy
Re: Let's Discuss This by sinaj(f): 5:18pm On Jan 04, 2016
That is Independence wink
Re: Let's Discuss This by englishmart(op): 5:20pm On Jan 04, 2016
sinaj:
That is Independence wink
are you independent already?
Re: Let's Discuss This by englishmart(op): 5:21pm On Jan 04, 2016
lalasticlala. Biko bia mezie okwua
Re: Let's Discuss This by sinaj(f): 5:23pm On Jan 04, 2016
englishmart:
are you independent already?
will be b4 d year runs out.
Re: Let's Discuss This by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 04, 2016
You have no idea how good it feels to be independent.

Your parents dey fear unwanted kpekus visitors when she leaves the house.
Re: Let's Discuss This by nerdfrost(m): 5:26pm On Jan 04, 2016
If she's financially stable n able then yes,ur parents shud let her be!!
Re: Let's Discuss This by englishmart(op): 5:26pm On Jan 04, 2016
sinaj:
will be b4 d year runs out.
i pray you get married before the year runs out
Re: Let's Discuss This by falconey(m): 5:28pm On Jan 04, 2016
undecided
Re: Let's Discuss This by englishmart(op): 5:28pm On Jan 04, 2016
EverLily:
You have no idea how good it feels to be independent.

Your parents dey fear unwanted kpekus visitors when she leaves the house.
na wa to you o
Re: Let's Discuss This by englishmart(op): 5:30pm On Jan 04, 2016
nerdfrost:
If she's financially stable n able then yes,ur parents shud let her be!!
she earns a lot keep her up, but that doesn't seem like the criterion here.
Re: Let's Discuss This by Richiy(f): 5:40pm On Jan 04, 2016
It is depending on the parents. A lot of parents give so many restrictions and lines to their grown up kids hence making them want to leave because there are some things you can never achieve in their house especially if you want to have something in your pocket before getting married.

On the other hand, the attitude some single girls living alone display will leave you speechless, so you can't really blame parents for being uptight.

But I believe that if you have trained your child well, let her go find her feet if she chooses to.
Re: Let's Discuss This by vizkiz: 6:17pm On Jan 04, 2016
bro your sister want to be free because she wants to do what her friends her doing. Did you just asked me "what is it are friends are doing?"

What out for the kindda friends she hangs out with
Re: Let's Discuss This by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jan 04, 2016
Yes. There's nothing wrong in that provided that she's morally and financially capable.
Re: Let's Discuss This by englishmart(op): 8:17pm On Jan 04, 2016
vizkiz:
bro your sister want to be free because she wants to do what her friends her doing. Did you just asked me "what is it are friends are doing?"

What out for the kindda friends she hangs out with
grin
Re: Let's Discuss This by sinaj(f): 7:56am On Jan 05, 2016
englishmart:
i pray you get married before the year runs out
lol Amen smiley



Daz if my dad doesn't pursue d man nd I away lol.

I still have a long way to go.
Marriage ain't my thing nw
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