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Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by RichieF27(op): 2:10am On Jan 05, 2016

Please nairalanders help..

I have an ex, we broke up about 2 years ago but we are still in contact and we are friends or maybe were friends...firstly I will narrate our breakup.. We dated for some months then I was still with my boss and I had no money really, she was a virgin then just as she claimed..I loved her and we were really close.. I traveled one time for my sisters wedding and I promised her I was gonna stay for 2weeks but due to issues I had to stay for 2months I was still calling her then but I did not call her much during the last few weeks before I got back..when I got back I called her and she told me she was dating someone else,I thought it was all a joke until I met a friend of hers the friend confirmed that she was dating a boss in her office..I still liked her but she told me she can't come back and she is happy where she is..I left her alone few months later I saw her and we talked then she told me she broke up with the boss and the guy and she is no longer a virgin..I tried for us to come back she said no that we should be friends..now I no longer stay with my boss stay alone and doing good by Gods grace.. Most times she calls me from school and tell me how she is suffering and how broke she is..as a nice guy I send her money any time she makes such request..then before the holidays she told me she will be coming home I asked her to come to my place before going to her sisters house because she stays with her sister..she gave me excuses and did not come to my house..I did not complain still forming the nice guy that I'm ..she came to my house on the 25th, I tried some funny and nasty thing she refused and changed her mood I let her be when she was going she said she is broke I gave her some money she left..I told her to come the next day she gave me some excuses.. I still did not complain.when she wanted to go back to school she remembered my number and asked for money she said I promised her..bellow is our conversation please did I do wrong ?

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Lordskyes(m): 2:14am On Jan 05, 2016

Lol... OP why....??

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Deejavuu(f): 2:22am On Jan 05, 2016

Lool. You took your generosity way too far. You don't owe her anything, she's trying to emotionally blackmail you too with those words. Don't fall for it, let her go. She's just sticking around because of the money you give her.

I don't know why girls do this shii, she don see maga sha grin

. You better stick to your words, she's all for the money .... Go Usain Bolt on her

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by johnPollock(m): 2:26am On Jan 05, 2016

what's her problem?trying to form responsibility

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by ronald4lif(m): 3:39am On Jan 05, 2016*

Life has a simple rule, which is often disregarded, raped, breached with wanton impunity. The successful people of every society are those who not only recognize this principle, but adhere to it strictly. I have come to understand in my quest for knowledge that it is not from the benevolence of the butcher, the brewer, or the baker that we expect our dinner, but from their regard to their own interest.

The average man wants gifts, favours and charity. Charity is not a crime, but do not ask for charity except you have no other choice, even then, you have the choice not to ask.

The ordinary Nigerian wants to live off people, his girlfriend/boyfriend, friend, brother, sister, uncle, cousin. You may be accorded this degrading and debasing opportunity once in a while, but never allow yourself to live off the benevolence of others. Man naturally is a very selfish animal, whose personal interest must come before all others.

The next time anyone want someone to speedily assist them, offer them in return, something of value. You will not only get a very quick response, you will get your request obligated.

Like I have read and noted, despise the free lunch. There is a price for everything, find out what it is and pay upfront. She knows the price for her request, either pay it or forget it.

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by richie9093(m): 4:02am On Jan 05, 2016

OP dont give her shanghai, nada, zilch. Let her go. let me be honest with you, you cant get back Into that place with her. Just free her and dont look back otherwise you'll turn to a pillar of maga.

She'll keep using emotional blackmail to string you along. I've been there and its not a nice place to be.

Abeg run away for my sake.

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by donholy28(m): 4:31am On Jan 05, 2016

u acted mumuish in ur story but u come get sense for una chat

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by callMeAlpha(m): 5:04am On Jan 05, 2016

How can she be ur Ex wen u didn't bleep her?......or did I miss dah part undecided

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by kaziblake(f): 6:10am On Jan 05, 2016

Serve her right,if she don't like you,she got no right to collect money from you.
She wanted to take you as a maga,I'm a lady but I hate it when girls behaves like this.
Don't talk to her again, block her on watsapp, you are not her atm.
Rubbish.

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by femidejulius(m): 6:52am On Jan 05, 2016

ronald4lif:
Despise the free lunch. There is a price for everything, find out what it is and pay upfront.

My best part.. Well written.

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Nobody: 6:55am On Jan 05, 2016

ronald4lif:
Life has a simple rule, which is often disregarded, raped, breached with wanton impunity. The successful people of every society are those who not only recognize this principle, but adhere to it strictly. I have come to understand in my quest for knowledge that it is not from the benevolence of the butcher, the brewer, or the baker that we expect our dinner, but from their regard to their own interest.

The average man wants gifts, favours and charity. Charity is not a crime, but do not ask for charity except you have no other choice, even then, you have the choice not to ask.

The ordinary Nigerian wants to live off people, his girlfriend/boyfriend, friend, brother, sister, uncle, cousin. You may be accorded this degrading and debasing opportunity once in a while, but never allow yourself to live off the benevolence of others. Man naturally is a very selfish animal, whose personal interest must come before all others.

The next time anyone want someone to speedily assist them, offer them in return, something of value. You will not only get a very quick response, you will get your request obligated.

Like I have read and noted, despise the free lunch. There is a price for everything, find out what it is and pay upfront. She knows the price for her request, either pay it or forget it.

I live by this

No matter how little it is, I ensure I pay back the favour however I don't think it is morally right for people to expect something on return. Imagine a world where people always expect something in return for their ‘charity'

. Whether the giver likes it or not, he/she has lived off the benevolence of others and would continue to as long as he/she is alive therefore I refer to such people as morally bankrupt individuals. They are no different from murderers and rapists (far fetched, I know).

In this scenario, the lady in question must be crazy. There is certainly nothing wrong in asking for money to cover significant expenses like school fees provided she couldn't get it from anywhere else. However she has decided to make a culture of it and also developed a sense of entitlement.

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by SexyStrawberry(f): 7:23am On Jan 05, 2016

Lawd!!!! Plzzzz gimme dis kind Maga just like the OP naaw, stop bringing all these guys wey get too much sense my way, I need a mugu like the OP, this is pray for this 2016 IJN, Amen.

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Nobody: 7:40am On Jan 05, 2016

SexyStrawberry:
Lawd!!!! Plzzzz gimme dis kind Maga just like the OP naaw, stop bringing all these guys wey get too much sense my way, I need a mugu like the OP, this is pray for this 2016 IJN, Amen.

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Nobody: 7:43am On Jan 05, 2016

you were making sense till you got to the last paragraph and told her to come collect another money..like really?

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Monalisa185(f): 7:46am On Jan 05, 2016

mesf tire o

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by petux(m): 7:58am On Jan 05, 2016

bro...did love really make u so senseless... tell her to qo qet a life...she no qve u punany nd u kip qivinq ha moni.....who does dhat?

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Nobody: 8:31am On Jan 05, 2016

You are really a nice guy and ur type is scarce but u need to stop being a maga. I don't know why girls acts lyk dis, it's a shame on them. I go for a better guy better than my ex to prove a point to him not to come back and beg 4 money. Don't attempt to send her #1 nd I mean it. Get urself a girl and let her know you have another responsibility rather than wasting ur money on 'unprofitable' biz. Peace out

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Qualer: 9:06am On Jan 05, 2016

HateU2:
You are really a nice guy and ur type is scarce but u need to stop being a maga. I don't know why girls acts lyk dis, it's a shame on them. I go for a better guy better than my ex to prove a point to him not to come back and beg 4 money. Don't attempt to send her #1 nd I mean it. Get urself a girl and let her know you have another responsibility rather than wasting ur money on 'unprofitable' biz. Peace out

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Nobody: 9:19am On Jan 05, 2016

Op serves you right oga Atm! Another Sambo dasuki protegee on the lose. Maga christmas Are you a learner? This is exactly what you get when you think you can change your past. An ex represents the past and should stay in the past thats why they are called ex.
Accept the fact that you were never meant to be and stop wasting your time and resources. To whom brain is given sense is expected. Borrow a brain today and start saving and investing.

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by SexyStrawberry(f): 9:34am On Jan 05, 2016

quiinnBee:

Plz instead of laughing, just help me and say a huge AMEN, this is 2016 naaw, things have to change a bit naaw lolxxxx

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Nobody: 9:39am On Jan 05, 2016

SexyStrawberry:
Plz instead of laughing, just help me and say a huge AMEN, this is 2016 naaw, things have to change a bit naaw lolxxxx

amen.some blokes are hella smart grin

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by Nobody: 9:41am On Jan 05, 2016*

OP are u her FATHER? Why do females do this? Asking for money from a man we are not married to and not even our parents. Asking for money makes me shy, even asking from my parents wwho would gladly give to me. Not to talk of a frnd.

She even wants to play 'victim'. She will chop ur money and clean mouth OP. If u give am shishi, den we all deserve shishi too for commenting on her head.

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by XtraSmooth404: 10:26am On Jan 05, 2016

She can't have her cake and eat it. @op, tell her you left her in 2015. She oughta move on! angry

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by TheGeneral1(m): 11:57am On Jan 05, 2016

ronald4lif:
Life has a simple rule, which is often disregarded, raped, breached with wanton impunity. The successful people of every society are those who not only recognize this principle, but adhere to it strictly. I have come to understand in my quest for knowledge that it is not from the benevolence of the butcher, the brewer, or the baker that we expect our dinner, but from their regard to their own interest.

The average man wants gifts, favours and charity. Charity is not a crime, but do not ask for charity except you have no other choice, even then, you have the choice not to ask.

The ordinary Nigerian wants to live off people, his girlfriend/boyfriend, friend, brother, sister, uncle, cousin. You may be accorded this degrading and debasing opportunity once in a while, but never allow yourself to live off the benevolence of others. Man naturally is a very selfish animal, whose personal interest must come before all others.

The next time anyone want someone to speedily assist them, offer them in return, something of value. You will not only get a very quick response, you will get your request obligated.

Like I have read and noted, despise the free lunch. There is a price for everything, find out what it is and pay upfront. She knows the price for her request, either pay it or forget it.

Nice one there!

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by flokii: 1:03pm On Jan 05, 2016

the way girls turn some guys to ATM ehnnn...

@OP no be her fault na..

you failed to deflower, someone else did

and now you want to enter just so you don't lose completely

news flash... d kitty belongs to d boss while your duty is to keep vomiting cash like ATM

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Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by ronald4lif(m): 2:14am On Jan 06, 2016

daretodiffer:
I live by this

No matter how little it is, I ensure I pay back the favour however I don't think it is morally right for people to expect something on return. Imagine a world where people always expect something in return for their ‘charity'. Whether the giver likes it or not, he/she has lived off the benevolence of others and would continue to as long as he/she is alive therefore I refer to such people as morally bankrupt individuals. They are no different from murderers and rapists (far fetched, I know).

In this scenario, the lady in question must be crazy. There is certainly nothing wrong in asking for money to cover significant expenses like school fees provided she couldn't get it from anywhere else. However she has decided to make a culture of it and also developed a sense of entitlement.

Very apt.

Re: Pls Is This Reply To An Ex Bad?? by itstpia8: 2:18am On Jan 06, 2016

ok, now we know you're home as per your concocted write up, and so? huh

who is home?

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