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Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by tempilo2k(m): 11:09pm On Jan 05, 2016
In the end the only sure bet is the fact that besides God the almighty, all you truly have is yourself.
Embrace this and watch your loneliness become your strength.

The problem with the human race is that we gullibly long for acceptance from our various relationships, but the million dollar question is this: have we fully accepted ourselves as individuals?
Judging by the kind of reasoning I come across this days,sometimes I wonder if being on a quest to self discovery is such a bad thing in the 21st century.
Everyday I see people go into relationships that are doomed to fail from the get go. People projecting their loneliness and insecurities on unwilling partners,which makes me wonder, when are we going to love being with ourselves, when are we going to stop jumping into relationships,friendships and marriages hoping to solve the age long problem of loneliness when maybe the divine created it to mold our subconscious into a firmer more self aware reality.

Love yourself,be at peace with your existence, enjoy your own company, and all other relationships will follow naturally. #developthecore
(whatever typo you come across,blame it on my phones auto correct. Lol)

@lalasticlala @ishilove

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by RexKexMilann: 11:11pm On Jan 05, 2016
Both. It Depends.
Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by obiorathesubtle: 11:12pm On Jan 05, 2016
cheesy this is some indian guru mystical eastern temple_shit.

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by tempilo2k(m): 11:16pm On Jan 05, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
cheesy this is some indian guru mystical eastern temple_shit.
Lol. Mean, just had to let it out. People have been disturbing me with "when are you getting married" question and it's really beginning to pass me off.

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by dollyjoy(f): 11:17pm On Jan 05, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
cheesy this is some indian guru mystical eastern temple_shit.
omo english!!cheesy

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by tempilo2k(m): 11:17pm On Jan 05, 2016
RexKexMilann:
Both. It Depends.

Both? Care to explain it to us mere mortals? cry
Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by AVRecruit: 11:21pm On Jan 05, 2016
marriage today is a very very bad deal:

1. the system and courts have given women too much power in marriage.
2. what do I get in return for all the feminist clap trap, tolerating nagging, catty behavior etc
3. Most women today have been brainwashed to be independent.
4. Kids? From the way things are going in the world, apocalypse is nigh.
5. the women are not young enough.

I just dont see the benefits of marriage.

If I need a woman, I hire a personal support worker. It is the same thing. I can also hire a cook if I want someone to be cooking for me. Sex? Get a girl friend if not a christian or just bear the urge if a christian.

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by obiorathesubtle: 11:21pm On Jan 05, 2016
dollyjoy:
omo english!!cheesy
cheesy omo french!!!

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by donholy28(m): 11:22pm On Jan 05, 2016
I will say loneliness is a weakness because people can take advantage of it and get into ur heart

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by nerdfrost(m): 11:25pm On Jan 05, 2016
Loneliness can be bring strength n weakness!! It depends on how u manage it

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by tempilo2k(m): 11:26pm On Jan 05, 2016
AVRecruit:
marriage today is a very very bad deal:

1. the system and courts have given women too much power in marriage.
2. what do I get in return for all the feminist clap trap, tolerating nagging, catty behavior etc
3. Most women today have been brainwashed to be independent.
4. Kids? From the way things are going in the world, apocalypse is nigh.
5. the women are not young enough.

I just dont see the benefits of marriage.

If I need a woman, I hire a personal support worker. It is the same thing. I can also hire a cook if I want someone to be cooking for me. Sex? Get a girl friend if not a christian or just bear the urge if a christian.
Your number 5 got me laughing. How young do you want them? By and large I agree with most of your points,marriage this days is beginning to look very unappealing to the self possessed independent male.
Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by AVRecruit: 11:32pm On Jan 05, 2016
most women get married in their late 20s after they have given themselves over to boyfriends. Its a bad deal for the abstaining Christian man seeking only marriage. The woman should be in the early twenties to retain some sexual allure that will be used to seduce the man into marriage coupled with her good behavior of course. 21-28 are good ages.

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 12:14am On Jan 06, 2016
Where lalasticlacla sef... cheesy
Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 12:16am On Jan 06, 2016
nerdfrost:
Loneliness can be bring strength n weakness!! It depends on how u manage it
Gbam! U deserve 50litres of fresh palm wine cheesy

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by nerdfrost(m): 12:31am On Jan 06, 2016
grayht:
Gbam! U deserve 50litres of fresh palm wine cheesy
. Thank u ooo cheesy

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by tempilo2k(m): 9:08am On Jan 06, 2016
grayht:
Gbam! U deserve 50litres of fresh palm wine cheesy
I go must partake.

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Re: Loneliness: Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 9:10am On Jan 06, 2016
tempilo2k:

I go must partake.
U are welcome bro.. grin

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