pls what happens to the kids when they reach 18 years and above especially the men,how do they survive this our harsh society without kinsmen and relatives. pls I need to know

OP, strictly my opinion. Since they grew up with the other kids, they see them as their extended family. No worry about papa and mama.......
To them making decision, the SOS only guild them and allows them to integrate into the society by watching their back.

They must ve been going through skills acquisition . I guess they will just ve to find their place in a craft or something. Life is not fair just that we all get it in measures

I don't know.

Are you in an orphanage? Have you been adopted? It appears you worry about your future. Anyway, kindly remain there as the street is dull.

iamodenigbo1:
pls what happens to the kids when they reach 18 years and above especially the men,how do they survive this our harsh society without kinsmen and relatives. pls I need to know

Well, for those that were lucky to be adopted, things might turn out good, for thos who are not, I think the orphanage sends them to school, not sure but I guess when they get to a certain age, they would begin to fend for themselves, everytin is all about determination and the grace of God, if they are determined to make it, they can hustle and make something of their life, tho it won't be easy, having no immediate family to assist and support them

statistically kids with quite dysfunctional and trumatic childhood/teen hood have more tendency to become a productive adult, they would strive, nature always finds a way.....
Most kids from good home and upbringing ends up wasted!
So dis kids(orphans) works so hard so their seed doesn't go 2ru d same hardship... Dat why our parents gives us d best, so we will be beta off......
But finally I think Grace and destiny plays a big role in all of it.

good question

I know of one in my school, she won a beauty pageant last year or so and is a student.

It's a lot like coming from a family cuz her pet project involved the orphanage she grew up in. They go out into the society and make something of themselves, some, probably marry each other

If you ask me...na who I go ask

One thing i love bout God is..

He wll never allow those "kids turn adults" to b cheated..

Some are adopted based on
>Gender
>Looks(kinda look-alike with d adopter)
>Brilliant/sharp ( they v ideas bout things when you converse with them)
>Talented
# )
Some are just picked randomely by adopter to sponsor them..#

10% of them end up hitting it big..(Real big i mean) Their hustling spirit is "Strong"just a nairalander said"Its them against the world)
"Alone with my thoughts" This quote is for them
:-(
They v d greatest pain(No love-no one to look up to)No relative,nothing..)

Imaqine living for 20 years without having a memorable thing to think of except "no Love/care"..

I know a man who knws a man who knws another man who now knw another man who can answer this question.

Keneking:
I don't know

chai!!!

They have God... He care and he will always care for them

D only tym pple tink abt orphans is wen de want cheap publicity, giving indomie n soap to d orphans, very few individuals tink of providing scholarships for dem.

N even d orphanages don't do enough awareness to give des kids out to foster parents hence d children factories ar boomin, des churches ar also makin d children look like demons.

Anyway, I had a friend hu was an orphan as a kiid, he was given to foster parents, but his foster parents died soon he was labelled a witch, I ran into him sum weeks bak he is a sales man.

juliusogedengbe:

chai!!!

Only God knows

Ummm..nothing happens to them. They grow into the society and live their lives. After all, they have one of the biggest familial network ; tho not related by blood. They might even fare better than people with the so called family n kinsmen who don't give a damn about u


My 2 pence

They will be settled in one location or the order

Never thought of it before o...

This is a fundamental question that seeks one million dollar answer. Please, any body grounded in this matter should kindly share with us. "ls Annunciation"

I wonder what it must be like. I didn't meet my grandma and it breaks my heart each time I think if it.
Talk less of not knowing ones parents

geesilver:
OP, strictly my opinion. Since they grew up with the other kids, they see them as their extended family. No worry about papa and mama.......
To them making decision, the SOS only guild them and allows them to integrate into the society by watching their back.

wao I was at holy ghost cathedral Enugu and decided to visit the home there and this thought occurred to me me and I decided to ask

youngwarlocks:
I know a man who knws a man who knws another man who now knw another man who can answer this question.

Fish Brain

I will definitely adopt a child one day.

op what happened to you when you grew up?

bidemi12:
I will definitely adopt a child one day.

no take am do money ritual o

Even when they want to do traditional rites... I wonder how theses tinx goes... Still waiting to see a grown up tell me 'I grew up in the orphanage

ArchEnemy:
They must ve been going through skills acquisition . I guess they will just ve to find their place in a craft or something. Life is not fair just that we all get it in measures

and after getting the skills what else knowing the kind of society we live in?

Was actually thinking about this, I feel for them..

No comment, I'm also interested.









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