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Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 09, 2016
You meet a girl, she sounds quite nice whilst 'the first' conversation lasted
Contacts exchanged and first date arranged...
Both were cool and things went fine till feelings cropped in and it was time to express (verbal)
The girl insists: "we can't be more than friends"
The guy goes quiet in an attempt to bury the 'feelings'

Now, the babe calls consistently, keeps in touch all the time, she can practically do anything to have the guy's time and attention...

Please Ladies, what could be running through her mind?

What does she really want?

Please advice the guy...

NB: omo babaolowi ni so she doesn't want anything from d guy.
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by falconey(m): 12:45pm On Jan 09, 2016
undecided
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by dollyjoy(f): 12:47pm On Jan 09, 2016
She is just a confused being!!

Who knows?she is either playing hard to get or just want you as a friend.cheesy
how guys hate that friendzone!!cheesy
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 09, 2016
She still wants to make sure you're in the game. Aka one of her admirers
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by sinaj(f): 12:51pm On Jan 09, 2016
Na wa o!



Na babalawo sure pass to read her mind lol
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 09, 2016
dollyjoy:
She is just a confused being!!


Who knows?she is either playing hard to get or just want you as a friend.cheesy

how guys hate that friendzone!!cheesy
It's really frustrating...

They guy genuinely cares about her...

Today she sounds like she's in it with him and d next moment she's completely weird!

God didn't create women like this na.

What happened to u guys? embarassed
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 12:53pm On Jan 09, 2016
dovelike:
She still wants to make sure you're in the game. Aka one of her admirers
oh, that's like the guy is just wasting his time?
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jan 09, 2016
tjark1:
oh, that's like the guy is just wasting his time?
Either that or she is scared (not into dating)
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jan 09, 2016
sinaj:
Na wa o!



Na babalawo sure pass to read her mind lol
is that all u can say swty? kiss
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by LaurelP(m):
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Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jan 09, 2016
Nawa o. When she don try others and realized no one shows care or husband material stuff shhe wan come twist am on u back probably with belle

In my own case, gal dey ask me 4 advice on relatnship with her bf and it went on like dat for like a month only to see that d advice begin turn to request for friendship and paying me a visit at home. I had to wake up from sleep b4 she tie me down..dat was abt 7months ago. Now she don born.
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by sinaj(f): 1:49pm On Jan 09, 2016
tjark1:
is that all u can say swty? kiss
yes o
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jan 09, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
Nawa o. When she don try others and realized no one shows care or husband material stuff shhe wan come twist am on u back probably with belle

In my own case, gal dey ask me 4 advice on relatnship with her bf and it went on like dat for like a month only to see that d advice begin turn to request for friendship and paying me a visit at home. I had to wake up from sleep b4 she tie me down..dat was abt 7months ago. Now she don born.
grin grin grin grin

Didn't quite get ur point... buh yo post is quite hilarious
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 09, 2016
Maybe she want to test the guy true love and maturity 4 her before saying yes to a Relationship.
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Monalisa185(f): 1:58pm On Jan 09, 2016
she wan friend zone you by fire by force.... lol

or maybe it's her own way of showing a green light abi blue light, whatever light it is they show...ion know...
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody:
Monalisa185:
she wan friend zone you by fire by force.... lol

or maybe it's her own way of showing a green light abi blue light, whatever light it is they show...ion know...
I can tell u d kinda light u hv on if u can simply show me yr backside grin
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Monalisa185(f): 2:11pm On Jan 09, 2016
pinceprinz:
I can tell u do kinda light u hv on if u can simply show me yr backside grin
Lol, goan modify your post
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jan 09, 2016
Monalisa185:
Lol, goan modify your post
shocked
what's wt d red light I'm seeing?
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Monalisa185(f): 2:49pm On Jan 09, 2016
pinceprinz:
shocked
what's wt d red light I'm seeing?
where you seeing the light?
have you modified your post, need to have a better understanding..
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Cholls(m): 3:20pm On Jan 09, 2016
dollyjoy:
She is just a confused being!!


Who knows?she is either playing hard to get or just want you as a friend.cheesy

how guys hate that friendzone!!cheesy
my are you so confused.
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jan 09, 2016
Monalisa185:
she wan friend zone you by fire by force.... lol

or maybe it's her own way of showing a green light abi blue light, whatever light it is they show...ion know...
I'm paying more attention to 'f' posts...
if u sound like this, you are worsening the situation embarassed
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 09, 2016
pinceprinz:
shocked

what's wt d red light I'm seeing?
grin
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Monalisa185(f): 10:07am On Jan 10, 2016
pinceprinz:
I can tell u d kinda light u hv on if u can simply show me yr backside grin
ehhhh...you didn't tell me you modified it already...ermmmm, want to see my backside? goto my backtongue
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by missKiffy(f): 10:32am On Jan 10, 2016
She wants to turn you to maga with no strings attached, it's only a matter of time b4 she start making requests, besides she's confused. She doesn't knw wat she wants
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 11:57am On Jan 10, 2016
Monalisa185:
ehhhh...you didn't tell me you modified it already...ermmmm, want to see my backside? goto my backtongue
Momma won't wanna hear about what I'll do when I assume that position 4 just 20mins.
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Monalisa185(f): 7:07pm On Jan 10, 2016
tjark1:
I'm paying more attention to 'f' posts...
if u sound like this, you are worsening the situation embarassed
@thebolded, I didn't post a comment to make your situation better or make you feel good...grin
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Monalisa185(f): 7:08pm On Jan 10, 2016
pinceprinz:
Momma won't wanna hear about what I'll do when I assume that position 4 just 20mins.
Lol, no one's gonn' tell momma...assume the position already grin
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by mamaafrik(m): 7:41pm On Jan 10, 2016
You knw wat try invite her over to your place,start normal conversation with her ,at the peak or most interesting part of it just ask dis"funmi......,do you knw i'm still tinking abt wat we discussed the last time about u ,i and relationship the other time",if she says anything outside "ok,i've heard u" or something simulacrum,u'll be playing an" extra-tyre " sqrabble if u try pushing further or act clingy toward her(and dat may just be her trap) ,your T-fare den to friendzone junction is going to be cheaper than #10,you must free her (with ur silence )if she says anything aside an affirmation.dont take it too serious bro.
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by firstking01(m): 8:07pm On Jan 10, 2016
LaurelP:
She has a boyfriend.
But she still wants to keep you in case anything goes wrong between them.


In summary, you're just an option.
bt mk she no dey ask the guy for recharge card o...dats my own prblm with friendzoning...they will say lets remain the way we are, u will agree, the next tin is...ud, pls can i ask for a favouresad, wats dat?, pls can u send me airtym i just ran owta airtym nw, with their tin continous small voice, u will hear long plssssssssssss...if u say u dnt have money, dey will be logical by saying, eheeeh, so, if i have agreed dating u, dats hw u wud 've been treating me, see sense, rubbishsad
Re: Ladies, What Could Be The Meaning Of This Attitude by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jan 10, 2016
Monalisa185:
@thebolded, I didn't post a comment to make your situation better or make you feel good...grin
u mean sha o.
as beautiful as u r
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