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I hope I got this on the right section. Things have really changed over the years, no wonder some nairalanders make some rib cracking "end time" comments. True to you all, this is really the era of end time where humans rarely care how the society feels about their ills.

This happened some days ago and I have come to the realization that some ladies, not all, really do not care being an option or better still "baby mama". They don't care about the drama that comes along with baby mama ish. For me, no baby mama drama; why plant seeds in a dirty B..tch waiting to trick me. Not the life for me.

I went on a visit to a close friend of mine who is married to a beautiful lady with good attitude and with a child less than 6 months. During our early morning conversation, he told me how he met a lady staying close by, exchanged contacts and are really getting along. I wasn't shocked but rather surprised because this is a dude I never expected such from. Before he got married, we do talk about fears in marriage, how we both want a beautiful life and not wanting to cheat on our spouse etc. I told him he just had to discard and let go of the said lady cos its gonna come back and blow into his face. I was made to know the lady had visited once the previous week. Funny enough, his living room is adorned with pictures of him, the wife and the kid which got me thinking how the lady felt so comfy visiting and wanting to visit again.

Fast forward to an hour after our conversation, he came to the guest room( the wife and the kid weren't in town all through these period) informing me the lady is around and I should kindly cooperate and act like its normal. I said Okay, but you need to watch it. Few minutes later, I walked into the living room, the lady was laying down comfortably on the sofa not even caring the wife could walk in. He introduced me, we exchanged pleasantries with a smile but angry inside.

After all the intro, I went back into my room with fear that the wife could walk in anytime and at that time I felt like leaving the house to avoid drama if caught up however, I couldn't leave cos I felt like speaking up not caring what might happen. Now to the best part of the visit, my friend left her in the living room to get drinks. On discovering he left, I walked into the living room and the following convo ensued between me and the lady:

Me: Having a great time?
Lady X: Yer, sure
Me: Can you see the pix on the wall? My friend, the wife and a baby less than 6 months.
Lady X: Sure, lovely family pictures.
Me: I'm not the innocent neither a seemingly good guy and you gotta understand nothing can come out of this.
Me: This isn't your first visit and I think its good you respect marriage institution and most importantly the wife. Your actions aren't good and wise enough. He is a married dude and you don't need this cos its temporary.
Lady X: Sigh

After letting her know how disappointing it is, my friend walked back in and we both acted normal feigning fake discussion. All through her stay after the convo, she was cold and left about 20 minutes later. Few minutes to her departure, the wife called my friend informing him she's on her way. Due to this, he couldn't see her off due to fear of being caught up and secondly, he couldn't stand the stares of being seen with another lady. I then decided to see her off and during which I told her it should stop as she wouldn't want such to happen to her when married.

It's really saddening some ladies don't mind being an option and being entangled with another lady's man. Though men as well must be blamed for our acts and the ego tripping of feeling "Its a man's world".......Our society is really sick.

If you know you aren't ready for commitment then why marry? Why do ppl cheat in marriage?

Sometimes the wives are the cause..

Mind ur business, pple will do wat dey like u cant stop dem. The wife may also hv shared anoda mans wife in d past

Ok

If u know u'll cheat, why wud u still get married?? End time cheaters!













And the Frost descended on them!!

Mama I made it......

panachuku:
Mind ur business, pple will do wat dey like u cant stop dem. The wife may also hv shared anoda mans wife in d past

. People like u are the reason behind marriage breakups












And the Frost descended on them!

panachuku:
Mind ur business, pple will do wat dey like u cant stop dem. The wife may also hv shared anoda mans wife in d past

Your comment is just a pointer to the ill society where everyone ignores insane behavioral attitude rather than speaking up. At least I had words with the lady and my friend and not the wife. Minding my business might be appropriate if I had written here I wanna tell the wife which I can't do.

Adventure. That's the chief reason why everyone cheat. We just get curious about the other person. But with love and maturity in a marriage such things can be curbed. As for the lady in the story, she is among the women that are out to destroy since their own love life is in mess.

I rada die single dan marry a cheater

Cos all my life i av never ever dated a married man
Nd never will

I rada die single dan marry a cheater

Cos all my life i av never ever dated a married man

OutOnBail:
Your comment is just a pointer to the ill society where everyone ignores insane behavioral attitude rather than speaking up. At least I had words with the lady and my friend and not the wife. Minding my business might be appropriate if I had written here I wanna tell the wife which I can't do.

bros can u change d society Hell no. Pastor, church brothers are also in d act of fornication and adultery. My colleague at work had sex with a ss2 old gal, pussy and a nal sex. D world has changed for the bad. Bt wat can be done

sickstars:
I rada die single dan marry a cheater

Cos all my life i av never ever dated a married man

Lol

bettercreature:
Lol

m crios o

sickstars:
m crios o

90% of rich husband cheats,you have to deal with that

bettercreature:
90% of rich husband cheats,you have to deal with that

no need to marry rich cos i cant deal with it

sickstars:
no need to marry rich cos i cant deal with it

God will do the best

bettercreature:
God will do the best

Amen

Monalisa185:
I have said it before, I'm still saying it....

if you know you won't be contented with your life partner, please do not get married... remain single and ball with whoever you so wish...I don't just get it...it's just greediness that causes this whole thing...really...it's just disgusting...

on another level, ladies who go about cheating with married men knowing fully well they are married...what goes around would surely come around....you will surely be given the same treatment whenever you decide to settle down.....same goes to the male folks...

Sister please school them

The poster above me nailed it
Married at home single online. Most of these guys portray their wives as very bad ppl and probably with a sympathetic story to back their shameful acts. In the case of the gal the op narrated.... The man is irresponsible...... He brought her into the house his wife stays!.... Myb his destiny can't be unconnected with polygamy. The girl is just foolish.




Op... You have done well but please since he is your friend.... Don't quit preaching to him.

sickstars:
Sister please school them

my dear, that's if they want to be schooled o, they just won't learn..

Monalisa185:
my dear, that's if they want to be schooled o, they just won't learn..

loooool dey wana b drop outs