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Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 10, 2016
ronald4lif:
Stop making assumptions and unfounded claims. I'm a man and I don't value a non virgin better than the virgins and I'm certain there are people like me. That you're a virgin doesn't make you any better than non virgins or olosho like you put it.
That is your opinion,doesn't represent other men's opinion

BTW who says virgins are not better than none Virgins?
lemme call shortty to explain to you smileysmiley
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by falconey(m): 6:15pm On Jan 10, 2016
Xiadnat:
.........I know most people will adhere to the op's notion just to feel good about themselves and indirectly supporting immorality. Just because we failed to keep our body shouldn't stop us from saying the truth, any form of sex before marriage is bad, virginity is a key!


falconey? really... good for you..... Like watching my little bad brother become a good man. smiley

...just soo sooo where's a smiley with tear drops when you need one.

Go forth and spread this your message to start from NL---too many boys here don tire me sooo angry
bros today na sunday na.

Saint mode activated.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:16pm On Jan 10, 2016
Xiadnat:
.........I know most people will adhere to the op's notion just to feel good about themselves and indirectly supporting immorality. Just because we failed to keep our body shouldn't stop us from saying the truth, any form of sex before marriage is bad, virginity is a key!


falconey? really... good for you..... Like watching my little bad brother become a good man. smiley

...just soo sooo where's a smiley with tear drops when you need one.

Go forth and spread this your message to start from NL---too many boys here don tire me sooo angry
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Bad... Only in the religious context.


Premised on that, it wouldn't apply to ATHEIST folks, would it?
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Re: Virginity Brouhaha by GodpunishBuhari: 6:17pm On Jan 10, 2016
Alisha chris the failed blogger good post
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ipledge10(m): 6:18pm On Jan 10, 2016
MzNelly:
What?

It's true.

You guys are so quick to define who is a virgin and what-not.

Nobody tells you how to use your dïck....

Let private parts flourish in peace, pls.
who is talking about virginity or not..i dont even think I read what you wrote...

Where have you been? Been a while...Happy new Year
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ronald4lif(m): 6:19pm On Jan 10, 2016
falconey:
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True. The virgin and non virgin threads and topics are vestigial and doesn't even deserve the attention it gets. Even then, we can all learn to address issues without assuming that the person is speaking out of experience and with intent to berate others.

Virgins should take pride in their chastity if they want to and if it makes them feel good about themselves and likewise non virgins but individual opinion shouldn't be seen as personal experience. The topic is overflogged already.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jan 10, 2016
ipledge10:
who is talking about virginity or not..i dont even think I read what you wrote...

Where have you been? Been a while...Happy new Year
Ipledge10?

How many times did they ban you?

You didn't even bother to reach out. Shift jhoor
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ipledge10(m): 6:22pm On Jan 10, 2016
MzNelly:
Ipledge10?

How many times did they ban you?

You didn't even bother to reach out. Shift jhoor
reach out when i cant even find you...Happy to see you wink
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ronald4lif(m): 6:23pm On Jan 10, 2016
pucelle:
That is your opinion,doesn't represent other men's opinion

BTW who says virgins are not better than none Virgins?
lemme call shortty to explain to you smileysmiley
I stated that it was my opinion and I didn't need you to echo it. And just like my opinion doesn't represent other men's so it's your colligated claim that men value virgins. It doesn't represent the views of all men as I'm one.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 10, 2016
ipledge10:
reach out when i cant even find you...Happy to see you wink
Same here... smiley
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ipledge10(m): 6:26pm On Jan 10, 2016
ronald4lif:
Stop making assumptions and unfounded claims. I'm a man and I don't value a non virgin better than the virgins and I'm certain there are people like me. That you're a virgin doesn't make you any better than non virgins or olosho like you put it.
Bro we are the same..virgin to me are like every other gals...if not worst because they are betrayer...Some gals think every guys will worship them because they are virgin.

Many are virgin under...but countless dick have enterd somewhere else in their body
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ipledge10(m): 6:27pm On Jan 10, 2016
MzNelly:
Same here... smiley
I know see many strange faces in romance section...their crazines tripple mine,i just have to lay low
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jan 10, 2016
TheSonOfMark:
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Bad... Only in the religious context.


Premised on that, it wouldn't apply to ATHEIST folks, would it?
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Nah..Not just religious. In every other way too.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jan 10, 2016
ipledge10:
I know see many strange faces in romance section...their crazines tripple mine,i just have to lay low
grin grin Nobody's craziness triples yours
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:32pm On Jan 10, 2016
falconey:
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Sigh

You don't get it. What's the essence of arguing with a non virgin about the importance of keeping yourself? Especially when the person has zilch fvcks to give about what you're trying to prove? Continuous back and forth on the subject somewhat makes you appear you portraying yourself a better person.
Same goes to the non virgins. What's the argument about? If you're not comfortable with threads on virginity, kindly avoid them instead of sinking your immoral lives down our throats.

Bottom line, encourage sexual purity. You don't have to argue this and that while encouraging sexual purity.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ipledge10(m): 6:32pm On Jan 10, 2016
MzNelly:
grin grin Nobody's craziness triples yours
mehn am now gentle oo...many people dont even know i exist...where have u been?
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 10, 2016
Will be back..
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ronald4lif(m): 6:39pm On Jan 10, 2016
ipledge10:
Bro we are the same..virgin to me are like every other gals...if not worst because they are betrayer...Some gals think every guys will worship them because they are virgin.

Many are virgin under...but countless dick have enterd somewhere else in their body
There are core values to look out for in a woman more than her virginity status and men who know their onions know better than examining a woman's value based on some hymen clot. Not everyone is moved by such paltry.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jan 10, 2016
ipledge10:
mehn am now gentle oo...many people dont even know i exist...where have u been?
School....

We're derailing this thread...
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jan 10, 2016
falconey:
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Ta.... was going to ask if you are sitting by the pastor's daughter on the church bus. cheesy

.....sunday saint, monday to saturday sinner. I see how it is.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ipledge10(m): 6:41pm On Jan 10, 2016
MzNelly:
School....

We're derailing this thread...
let me take you home then...i will mention you somewhere else
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ipledge10(m): 6:43pm On Jan 10, 2016
ronald4lif:
There are core values to look out for in a woman more than her virginity status and men who know their onions know better than examining a woman's value based on some hymen clot. Not everyone is moved by such paltry.
it pains me when guys hype those gals that still have hymen in btw their legs...I can write a book on virgins..I know them very well
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ronald4lif(m): 6:46pm On Jan 10, 2016
ipledge10:
it pains me when guys hype those gals that still have hymen in btw their legs...I can write a book on virgins..I know them very well
Well, virginity isn't a vice and not bad but my point is they aren't better than non-virgins and I stand to be corrected.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ronald4lif(m): 6:50pm On Jan 10, 2016
Xiadnat:
.........I know most people will adhere to the op's notion just to feel good about themselves and indirectly supporting immorality. Just because we failed to keep our body shouldn't stop us from saying the truth, any form of sex before marriage is bad, virginity is a key!


falconey? really... good for you..... Like watching my little bad brother become a good man. smiley

...just soo sooo where's a smiley with tear drops when you need one.

Go forth and spread this your message to start from NL---too many boys here don tire me sooo angry
Lol. Just seeing this now. About the emboldened what if the people involved doesn't want to ever get married? Are we going to deny two consenting adults sexual benefits coz they don't want to participate in a ceremonious fanfare?
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by falconey(m): 6:58pm On Jan 10, 2016
ronald4lif:
Lol. Just seeing this now. About the emboldened what if the people involved doesn't want to ever get married? Are we going to deny two consenting adults sexual benefits cozc they don't want to participate in a ceremonious fanfare?
all ethnic group in my country condemn that.

Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Poseidon000:
iAmCharis:
Sigh

You don't get it. What's the essence of arguing with a non virgin about the importance of keeping yourself? Especially when the person has zilch fvcks to give about what you're trying to prove? Continuous back and forth on the subject somewhat makes you appear you portraying yourself a better person.
Same goes to the non virgins. What's the argument about? If you're not comfortable with threads on virginity, kindly avoid them instead of sinking your immoral lives down our throats.

Bottom line, encourage sexual purity. You don't have to argue this and that while encouraging sexual purity.
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Its lyk you didn't deduce his assertion well.

He said, creating pro-virginity thread isn't to spit vitriol on none-virgins. But to induce the importance of virginity in the upcoming generation.

The problem here; is that none-virgins pick offence by this threads, when the apt thing to do is "ignore".

I personally don't give a hoot if my woman is a virgin or not, but that doesn't mean that one should blanket what is morally right, just lyk he opined.
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Re: Virginity Brouhaha by ronald4lif(m): 7:22pm On Jan 10, 2016
Falconey, but the world doesn't evolves and ends in your country. Also, what a group of people frowns on shouldn't always dictate individual's lifestyle and choices.
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jan 10, 2016
TrapLORD:
I like fork.



I can't date a vrigin. Except she's ready to take my phallus then we cool. gringrin
And so? Why are you whining about it?
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by Rukkydelta(f): 7:33pm On Jan 10, 2016
Nice one op
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by HaneefahRN(f): 7:37pm On Jan 10, 2016
iAmCharis:
Recently I noticed some an influx of threads talking about virginity with several back and forths. Some claiming virginity makes a woman complete, for some, it's a woman's dignity while some believe it'll make your man love you more. The latter might be true as I have seen a young man that was so excited to find out his wife was a virgin that he had to give it as a testimony in church the Sunday after their wedding. That notwithstanding, as a lady, if you expect a man to love you because you're a virgin, a fatal heartbreak is lurking around the corner. There are several men out there dumping the virgins they deflowered.

One thing I'm not comfortable with is the way some of you continually come up with threads to talk about this overflogged issue. I also don't understand why non virgins seem to have high blood pressure at the sight of threads on virginity. What's wrong with avoiding such threads instead of arguing endlessly?

Then to the virgins, what are you trying to prove? What's the point in discussing the importance of virginity to a non virgin? or are you trying to prove that you're better off? Abeg leave matter for Matthias

But come to think of it. Are you really a virgin? You say you're a virgin but you've kissed, you've had your boobs manipulated, some engage in fellatío and receive cunnilingus. Many have had orgasms from these act yet you still claim to be a virgin. Funny! The height of it was when I read from a guy here on nairaland that said he had anal sex with his girlfriend because she was preserving her virginity. shocked shocked shocked And she's still going to call herself a virgin. shockedshockedshocked

Abeg leave trash for LAWMA

Have a great week ahead.
U said one thing while doing the opposite. The virginity issue is already overflogged, why bring it up again?
What I noticed abt the thread relating to virginity was tht most were created by non-virgins to wc many pple made comments, another common notion I felt was the perceived hatred against virgins by some non-virgins and men. Some pple were trying to hard to black name and soil the very term virginity like call virgins those wt low IQ, losers, weirdos, claim most virgins dnt av manners, or tht virgins are worse than non-virgins, talk like virginity is filth etc , still wondering what they gain from it.
If u want to commit fornication, fine, it's a free World afterall. Virgins don't av to prove anything to anyone, u make ur choices, they make theirs. And the claim tht virgins think they are better than other women is ur inferiority complex speaking, if u're a non-virgin, it is ur choice, I dnt knw why u'll now seek to black name virgins just to feel, shld I call it 'superior'?
Finally, let all this virginity whatever stop. This is the 21st century afterall, all we civilized and free pple can decide to do whatever we want, virgins are just old-fashioned, archaic pple, whatever reasons they may av for saying 'NO' to premarital sex is baseless.
No virgin is rubbing being a virgin or whatever in non-virgins face. Even going by those threads u wld notice most pple doing the talking were men, the same pple busy disvirgining willing (nt referring to rape here) women abt. They will even boast abt the no of women they av disvirgined and slept wt (shame is indeed gone wt the wind).
Those speaking against virginity shld pls place their girls and boys from the age of 13 on birth control and encourage them to av sex. This is 21st century afterall
Re: Virginity Brouhaha by flokii: 10:39pm On Jan 10, 2016
iAmCharis:
Recently I noticed some an influx of threads talking about virginity with several back and forths. Some claiming virginity makes a woman complete, for some, it's a woman's dignity while some believe it'll make your man love you more. The latter might be true as I have seen a young man that was so excited to find out his wife was a virgin that he had to give it as a testimony in church the Sunday after their wedding. That notwithstanding, as a lady, if you expect a man to love you because you're a virgin, a fatal heartbreak is lurking around the corner. There are several men out there dumping the virgins they deflowered.

One thing I'm not comfortable with is the way some of you continually come up with threads to talk about this overflogged issue. I also don't understand why non virgins seem to have high blood pressure at the sight of threads on virginity. What's wrong with avoiding such threads instead of arguing endlessly?

Then to the virgins, what are you trying to prove? What's the point in discussing the importance of virginity to a non virgin? or are you trying to prove that you're better off? Abeg leave matter for Matthias

But come to think of it. Are you really a virgin? You say you're a virgin but you've kissed, you've had your boobs manipulated, some engage in fellatío and receive cunnilingus. Many have had orgasms from these act yet you still claim to be a virgin. Funny! The height of it was when I read from a guy here on nairaland that said he had anal sex with his girlfriend because she was preserving her virginity. shocked shocked shocked And she's still going to call herself a virgin. shockedshockedshocked

Abeg leave trash for LAWMA

Have a great week ahead.
in my own opinion.. virginity is a thing of choice, shows that d guy/girl has self discipline

not being a virgin could be due to so many reasons eg. rape, sports etc.

so it's actually hard to conclude or judge..

whichever comes ur way.. gba kadara
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