This question is for bother gender. Sometimes, many of us have done something worst in the past but later turn new leaf before meeting the one and only you are getting married to.

For instance, as a guy, can you tell your partner that you have once been gay? ( Just assuming )
As a lady, can you tell your partner you have once had sex with multiple of guys for some genuine reasons?

why not, its either he stays or quit...wait o

What she doesn't know won't hurt her. So I'll simply

Jackeeh:
What she doesn't know won't hurt her. So I'll simply

what if she get to know later from an outsider?

cutebobo:
what if she get to know later from an outsider?

Hmmmm, tough one. I take back what I posted earlier sha. "Some" details should be shared with a partner if the affair is "serious" and leading to spending their lives together forever. Like, child(ren) gotten out of wedlock, medical history etc. Certainly not the number of men or women one had conquered sexually.

Jackeeh:
What she doesn't know won't hurt her. So I'll simply

U sure?

RadicallyBlunt:

U sure?

Not so sure oh. Lol

Just STFU. If s(he) finds out, play the victim!

Well unless you have a very very hideous past that is an entire shocker eg,you birthed a child for you daddy? and one you are sure wouldn't get leaked along the way,partners should come out clean with their spouse,especially when marriage talks enter

if I tell him him and he can't handle it then he can use the door

I can't handle a chic who denies/lies abt r past.....if u ave done sometin nasty in d past if I can overlook it fine..if I can't I won't waste r time.....Wen I dnt ave an awful past God will nt allow me jam some1 wit 1......


Past is nt jst d past...becuz it shapes d present and "might" determine the future..

Who would I tell if not my spouse?? She's my partner for a reason.


Well, that's why I tend to study girls before going for them. I'm 100% open to my current girl. You know, it's safer. If anything happens in future, she'll know how to defend you and she won't be hurt. When you tell her from the onset, you can easily paint the story to make it seem less evil or for her to understand why it happened.

But if she gets to hear it from another source, prolly after long years of trusting. She might be devastated and you would have a big problem making her understand why it happened. So why don't you just clear it from the onset and if she's yours, she'll stay....

Same applies to ladies too







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midehi2:
why not, its either he stays or quit...wait o

talk is easy.

Sure i will but that must be at the early age of the affair,not when deep affection ad be developed.

I do not see it as bravery but as a duty