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Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning;
you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate
their calls, want their touch, and like their
idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it
was a completely natural and spontaneous
experience. You didn't have to Do anything. That's
why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my
feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you
were just standing there; doing nothing, and then
something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous
experience. But after a few months or years of
being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a
natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if
they come at all), touch is not always welcome
(when it happens), and your spouse's
idiosyncrasies,instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every
relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you were in love and
a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start
asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you
reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that experience with
someone else.

This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not
finding the right person; it's learning to love the
person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness
and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital
fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes
people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive
TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this
dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It
lies within it.


I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with
someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd
feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few
years later.


Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not
finding the right person; it's learning to love the
Person you found.


mynd44
Lalasticlala
guess the above has being on FP bf? if no .....

You are right....

skiborobo skibo skibaraba skiba ebaaaa this op is right.

the writer is right!

U can always love dat person u av found wen extramarital affair is not involved, but d moment dat sets in believe it or not - things will neva b d same again

Simplymeah:
U can always love dat person u av found wen extramarital affair is not involved, but d moment dat sets in believe it or not - things will neva b d same again

we are on the same page here... don't allow the extra