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sickstars:
Yeah dont rush marriage enter marriage with the prepared mind bt i just hope to av a happy marriage

From the start av always been scared if marriage

U av to b a good mum nd wife

Dnt tink m even a good person to mysef


divorce is aweful

i Appriciate marriage alot. Even though i know i'm not suppose to.
Always in a hurry to be in a relationship but after a while i get tired...i felt i lost something like "Love" to someone 4years ago & i'm yet to find it. Then i keep asking myself..will i ever find it back?



For all these reasons...i don't do marriage talk...



Lols u not been good to yourself enough...common..no one was born to be a perfect mother u will surely learn it in gradual process...

kilode100:
Meaning?
A womanising man is a full LovePeddler in the bedroom.. They know the right places to touch and I love being touched..
Who cares whose bed he crawls out from??

Loving money more than me only means he's gonna be super duper rich and That's a nice thing abi?

I also smoke substances.. It all works out very well.

*barman o!!! another bottle of think black * she nailed it again miss another bottle of extral smooth coming up you just scartter my dada

kirchofff:
werey re o

I love her for that O strong Gan

danbrowndmf:
i Appriciate marriage alot. Even though i know i'm not suppose to.
Always in a hurry to be in a relationship but after a while i get tired...i felt i lost something like "Love" to someone 4years ago & i'm yet to find it. Then i keep asking myself..will i ever find it back?



For all these reasons...i don't do marriage talk...



Lols u not been good to yourself enough...common..no one was born to be a perfect mother u will surely learn it in gradual process...

Every one has been hurt at one point or d other

Just b happy always wen u least expected it love will come

Dont force ny one to love u

Nd dont force ursef to love ny one cos if u do u myt nt like ursef wen ur dream girl comes by nd u cant av her cos u forced ursef to love sumone else


I hope to learn m open to learning


M just scared of marriage cos of divorce cos to me marriage is nt hard its divorce nd cheatin dat makes a marriage hard

Thank God I don't fall in any of them.

mrtantalizers:
adamu, being broke is a temporary issue which could be as a result of different factors. Unfortunately i dont av enough time to explain but let me give u an example. In dec 2013, I spoke to a girl in my church, she really messed up. After speaking to her, she suddenly changed and showed obvious hatred towards me. I regretted going to her anyway, i was broke then. By dec 2014, i had bought my first car. Guess what? When she saw me, she suddendly changed and wanted my no. I was shocked. Since then i have been careful abt some ladies even in d church. Lesson: never despise a broke guy, there's a reason for everything only dat d reason may not b reasonable at times.

Just joking actually. May God continue to bless our hustle and shame all those who looked down on us

sickstars:
Every one has been hurt at one point or d other

Just b happy always wen u least expected it love will come

Dont force ny one to love u

Nd dont force ursef to love ny one cos if u do u myt nt like ursef wen ur dream girl comes by nd u cant av her cos u forced ursef to love sumone else


I hope to learn m open to learning


M just scared of marriage cos of divorce cos to me marriage is nt hard its divorce nd cheatin dat makes a marriage hard

Thanks. to be sincere with you..65 to 70% of married men in Nigeria cheat on their wives... Not praying for a man who will not cheat bur rather pray for a man who can take bullet for you..cus if a man can take a bullet for you...Divorce will surely be the last thing on his mind...

mrtantalizers:
What if he develops these qualities or should i say vices after marriage? Should d ladies opt for divorce? Op pls answer asap. Thanks

No man will develop such qualities just like that. The traces must have been there but it was overlooked. Don't opt for divorce, just visit Shiloh and pray.

Gaborone:
Even friend zone, numbers 1 & 2 will not see.

Number 3 will definitely not get to the promised land too.

Thanks op.

. You see, ur type I lik, get. Up close n wreck havoc in ur entire. Romantic life... U may eventually enter monastry n become a nun

danbrowndmf:
Thanks. to be sincere with you..65 to 70% of married men in Nigeria cheat on their wives... Not praying for a man who will not cheat bur rather pray for a man who can take bullet for you..cus if a man can take a bullet for you...Divorce will surely be the last thing on his mind...

I can take nt just a bullet bt bullets for my man bt i just dont pray for dat situation

I kno most man cheats av learnt dat way
I trust my bf

Why do men cheat?
Its nt fair

Exactly. Even brothel hoes want God-fearing men.

Mhizkel:
I thought as much. No sensible lady'd wish for such.

kilode100:
All these menstruating abi menopausal men sef.
Swerve jor.

he's right abi u dey smoke ni? I hate smokers they are d most lazy men in the world and they are full of weaknesses

Odani:
Clearly english is an issue to u

Locate the error and help me correct it Sire.

sickstars:
I can take nt just a bullet bt bullets for my man bt i just dont pray for dat situation

I kno most man cheats av learnt dat way
I trust my bf

Why do men cheat?
Its nt fair

when i say "he can take a bullet fo you" does not really mean gun bullet...simply means he can go to a certain extend for you..
Is good to trust your partner..
Why men cheat? Well no actuall reason for that...peopl do say they have reasons sha...even if you dating nicki minaj if u don't make principle of "I will never cheat" your still gonna cheat..ts all about principle & control...
I once place my self under such principle & it was cool but at the end of the day twas not worth with d the person i did for...

CalebIkechi:
ride on bro Baddest

Baddest?

Ladies Believe it, and remain single.

Op following this your advice is the quickest way to menopause and still single. Which man no get any of the 3 things you list?

wat of men wit bald heads?

kilode100:
Meaning?
A womanising man is a full LovePeddler in the bedroom.. They know the right places to touch and I love being touched..
Who cares whose bed he crawls out from??

Loving money more than me only means he's gonna be super duper rich and That's a nice thing abi?

I also smoke substances.. It all works out very well.

you"re the one i have been looking for! Ps gimme ur number or something!!

danbrowndmf:
when i say "he can take a bullet fo you" does not really mean gun bullet...simply means he can go to a certain extend for you..
Is good to trust your partner..
Why men cheat? Well no actuall reason for that...peopl do say they have reasons sha...even if you dating nicki minaj if u don't make principle of "I will never cheat" your still gonna cheat..ts all about principle & control...
I once place my self under such principle & it was cool but at the end of the day twas not worth with d the person i did for...

Really it wasnt worth it for d person u did it for?

Dats sad nd bad so sorry

Almighty God pls choose for me

sonofananimal:
there is this proverb:

if you are a Shiite! you will always see Shiite around you

you people will be coming here and be shouting God fearing man, pray you find God fearing man blablablab!

are you that God fearing YOURSELF


are you that person who will reflect the God fearing factor in you!

you just don't sit ya ass and pray you see God fearing man be the God fearing WOMAN yourself and see if the God fearing man won't CHASE AFTER you!

I just keep looking at you people after you must have CHASE the God fearing people out of ya life!

Oh Yes! I am God fearing you hear. So don't compare me with the demonic girls you have come across. I made a statement and it's not enough reason for you to be bitter.

sickstars:
Really it wasnt worth it for d person u did it for?
Dats sad nd bad so sorry

it been 4years or so. It's like that sometimes.

kilode100:
These are the things I love in my men.

Stop deceiving yourself! U like a man that womanise or takes weed? Watch him dump u soon.

And where on earth do u hope to find a man that doesn't possess one of those 3 characters.... Except u're indirectly telling the ladies never to marry anymore, Mr man grow up... We are living in an imperfect world and it will only takes the Grace of God to live a fulfilled life. How about the ladies for the men, any advice for the men because we are now living in a world where people will tell u, what a man can do a woman can do it better. Hope to hear from u Mr perfect.

danbrowndmf:
it been 4years or so.
It's like that sometimes.

So sorry i hope u all ryt now

it will get better ur better half will locate u or u will locate her at d best time so u can b happy u seem calm nd cool dats nice tho

kilode100:
These are the things I love in my men.

How many men you get?

OP dem never born dis type of men. Infact ur post is useless.

sickstars:
So sorry i hope u all ryt now

it will get better ur better half will locate u or u will locate her at d best time so u can b happy u seem calm nd cool dats nice tho

it gone...been years now... But something is still missing about me since then...i get tired of relationship these days.. I rather watch & enjoy how others cuddle in luv...Tho i crave to really be my self back some day.


Calm & cool?lols yes.but naughty sometimes..me & u don quarrell b4 for this forum sef...remember?

adorablepepple:
Oh Yes! I am God fearing you hear. So don't compare me with the demonic girls you have come across. I made a statement and it's not enough reason for you to be bitter.

you are not the one to conclude weather you are God fearing or not!

its by your actions and not just by saying it!

babe! who is comparing you with my demonic girls I have come across?

don't just jump into conclusion! try and understand the motive behind it.

danbrowndmf:
it gone...been years now... But something is still missing about me since then...i get tired of relationship these days.. I rather watch & enjoy how others cuddle in luv...Tho i crave to really be my self back some day.


Calm & cool?lols yes.but naughty sometimes..me & u don quarrell b4 for this forum sef...remember?

Na dont get tired in love o

Please dont force love either

Just b ursef wen d girl dat wud b ur dream girl comes u wud kno ok?

Nd again cant remember if we fought o sorry tho