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Akkord4gov:
It is only on nairaland that som1 will come for our advice whether to urinate first or shit first

Nevertheless,even if I no like some posts,crazy comments dey make me go gaga

I tell u,soon people will come here to tell us that their bra is old and ask for opinion if they should buy new one or go braless.

Trapnews:
You are just another hoe. You stylishly ruined the guy's relationship by misinforming the girlfriend. You said they were doing well before you came into their lives. its obvious you were not happy with their relationship. You are the devil pretending to be the peacemaker. Lord, save us from this Karishika

whats kitten meant for?

petkruz:
Roflmao @free punna! In his wildest imagination.

Op is a pro ( juicy j ft. Wiz Khalifa - everybody).
Nice thread though atleast am learning my mathematics, FFK keep it coming...

Until d guy bleep u, den u will knw he has a date...... pls whr r u from sef?

petkruz:
And the part where he switches off his electronics to eavesdrop countless times?

How do u know? Cud jst be a coincidence

I believe evrything is in ur head

petkruz:
Well this whole drama started 2yrs ago when we both moved into this new beautiful house.Initially his girlfriend comes from portharcourt to spend a month,she was always around. I never visited them,we just greeted from afar maybe weekends when they finally see my face due to my Job. Before I forget,i was still single and minding my business.

After some months I noticed his girlfriend wasn't coming around,even when she did they quarrelled through out her stay! Then again it wasn't my business. After sometime she collected my number and said she would like to discuss somethings with me. 2days later she called.

To cut the long story short she told me that my neighbour has decided to end the relationship because she's too fat and didn't have a job. I was confused because these 2 were so much inlove few months ago. I now noticed he was coming close to me! We normally contribute money for our prepaid, security man and maintenance guy,he stopped collecting money from me! When I asked he said he has paid,when I give him my share of the money, he rejects it.

Now my boyfriend comes weekends,he doesn't greet him,even when my bf hails him, he answers reluctantly! He then puts off all his electronics hoping to hear moanings and ends up disappointed. If I pack my bag for the weekend,he jumps out of his flat to stylishly ask if i'm going to the mainland or my aunty's house in Oniru. I usually give him same reply "i'm going to Aguda to see my bobo" He then offers to drop me off at the bus stop which I always turn down.

I'v never seen him with any lady, neither has any lady come to the house to visit,he's always alone.Even when I encourage him to start dating again,he usually says Slim, hardworking independent ladies are hard to find. My rent expires December dis year, what do you all think I should do to make this man look somewhere else because he's only wasting his time hoping that one day i'd look his direction.

PS: He's 13years older than me(got that info from his Ex) we live in separate flats and have a lot of boundaries! He has never visited me neither have I entered his house. Matured comments please!!!

Chai guys don suffer,u by urself without any word or pas from him concluded all in ur head?every lil friendly gesture a man makes u people will either say, "he likes me,'or 'he is toasting me'smh..plss wait till he actually says something b4 u start feeling like Kim kardashian cos e be like say na u de attracted to the guy and ur in denial..hmmm girls bin deceiving themselves since b4 adam

petkruz:
Well this whole drama started 2yrs ago when we both moved into this new beautiful house.Initially his girlfriend comes from portharcourt to spend a month,she was always around. I never visited them,we just greeted from afar maybe weekends when they finally see my face due to my Job. Before I forget,i was still single and minding my business.

After some months I noticed his girlfriend wasn't coming around,even when she did they quarrelled through out her stay! Then again it wasn't my business. After sometime she collected my number and said she would like to discuss somethings with me. 2days later she called.

To cut the long story short she told me that my neighbour has decided to end the relationship because she's too fat and didn't have a job. I was confused because these 2 were so much inlove few months ago. I now noticed he was coming close to me! We normally contribute money for our prepaid, security man and maintenance guy,he stopped collecting money from me! When I asked he said he has paid,when I give him my share of the money, he rejects it.

Now my boyfriend comes weekends,he doesn't greet him,even when my bf hails him, he answers reluctantly! He then puts off all his electronics hoping to hear moanings and ends up disappointed. If I pack my bag for the weekend,he jumps out of his flat to stylishly ask if i'm going to the mainland or my aunty's house in Oniru. I usually give him same reply "i'm going to Aguda to see my bobo" He then offers to drop me off at the bus stop which I always turn down.

I'v never seen him with any lady, neither has any lady come to the house to visit,he's always alone.Even when I encourage him to start dating again,he usually says Slim, hardworking independent ladies are hard to find. My rent expires December dis year, what do you all think I should do to make this man look somewhere else because he's only wasting his time hoping that one day i'd look his direction.

PS: He's 13years older than me(got that info from his Ex) we live in separate flats and have a lot of boundaries! He has never visited me neither have I entered his house. Matured comments please!!!

Unfortunately, I think you are starting to imagine things that don't exist. The boy is not into you and who told you he is not seeing anyone else?

I'm more worried about you. 2 years you've been there so I take it that you have been living there for so long.

Next, your rent expires in December and you've been dating your boo at Aguda? Listen, dude is wasting your time. If he does not propose by Sep/Oct, move onNNnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!

vani86:
Whether you like it or not, men have been getting free punna since 4BC

Lmao, guy why u con "personalize d matter" But u right sha, no mind dah babe

petkruz:
I no like the bobo, because he black like charcoal, I only date fair guys and my boo is very fair.

You mean, fair like an albino

petkruz:
I don't hate him, I only mean well by encouraging him to move on. He's way older so I give him that respect! As for your revelation, there's nothing to handle because my relationship has moved to its permanent site.

I think that's the thing avoiding you to see that you have feelings for him...You think you belong to someone alwedi and you don't want to look like a LovePeddler

If u didnt hv at least an atom of feelings for him u wouldnt hv created this topic

Ops, your neighbour in question is my friend. He was just laughing while reading this your concocted piece. I am quite surprise and disappointed in you for this monumental lie

petkruz:
Well this whole drama started 2yrs ago when we both moved into this new beautiful house.Initially his girlfriend comes from portharcourt to spend a month,she was always around. I never visited them,we just greeted from afar maybe weekends when they finally see my face due to my Job. Before I forget,i was still single and minding my business.

After some months I noticed his girlfriend wasn't coming around,even when she did they quarrelled through out her stay! Then again it wasn't my business. After sometime she collected my number and said she would like to discuss somethings with me. 2days later she called.

To cut the long story short she told me that my neighbour has decided to end the relationship because she's too fat and didn't have a job. I was confused because these 2 were so much inlove few months ago. I now noticed he was coming close to me! We normally contribute money for our prepaid, security man and maintenance guy,he stopped collecting money from me! When I asked he said he has paid,when I give him my share of the money, he rejects it.

Now my boyfriend comes weekends,he doesn't greet him,even when my bf hails him, he answers reluctantly! He then puts off all his electronics hoping to hear moanings and ends up disappointed. If I pack my bag for the weekend,he jumps out of his flat to stylishly ask if i'm going to the mainland or my aunty's house in Oniru. I usually give him same reply "i'm going to Aguda to see my bobo" He then offers to drop me off at the bus stop which I always turn down.

I'v never seen him with any lady, neither has any lady come to the house to visit,he's always alone.Even when I encourage him to start dating again,he usually says Slim, hardworking independent ladies are hard to find. My rent expires December dis year, what do you all think I should do to make this man look somewhere else because he's only wasting his time hoping that one day i'd look his direction.

PS: He's 13years older than me(got that info from his Ex) we live in separate flats and have a lot of boundaries! He has never visited me neither have I entered his house. Matured comments please!!!

petkruz:
Awwww I actually find this sweet poem with peotic words soothing to my ears, clearly describes my dark side! First time you'v made sense sonofmark sadly this is the only attention u would get from me! Perhaps when u have more darker poems like this and not your rants I may be pleased.

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Leprous witch, may your dry womb serve as a nest for wasp! So anyone who flaws and floors you lexically and articulately is KingSLAY?
May blowflies feed on your shriveled _clitoris!
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petkruz:
Well this whole drama started 2yrs ago when we both moved into this new beautiful house.Initially his girlfriend comes from portharcourt to spend a month,she was always around. I never visited them,we just greeted from afar maybe weekends when they finally see my face due to my Job. Before I forget,i was still single and minding my business.

After some months I noticed his girlfriend wasn't coming around,even when she did they quarrelled through out her stay! Then again it wasn't my business. After sometime she collected my number and said she would like to discuss somethings with me. 2days later she called.

To cut the long story short she told me that my neighbour has decided to end the relationship because she's too fat and didn't have a job. I was confused because these 2 were so much inlove few months ago. I now noticed he was coming close to me! We normally contribute money for our prepaid, security man and maintenance guy,he stopped collecting money from me! When I asked he said he has paid,when I give him my share of the money, he rejects it.

Now my boyfriend comes weekends,he doesn't greet him,even when my bf hails him, he answers reluctantly! He then puts off all his electronics hoping to hear moanings and ends up disappointed. If I pack my bag for the weekend,he jumps out of his flat to stylishly ask if i'm going to the mainland or my aunty's house in Oniru. I usually give him same reply "i'm going to Aguda to see my bobo" He then offers to drop me off at the bus stop which I always turn down.

I'v never seen him with any lady, neither has any lady come to the house to visit,he's always alone.Even when I encourage him to start dating again,he usually says Slim, hardworking independent ladies are hard to find. My rent expires December dis year, what do you all think I should do to make this man look somewhere else because he's only wasting his time hoping that one day i'd look his direction.

PS: He's 13years older than me(got that info from his Ex) we live in separate flats and have a lot of boundaries! He has never visited me neither have I entered his house. Matured comments please!!!

Ignore the trolls and the abusers. Some posters and made nice analysis and proferred suggestions.

You said the op had a girlfriend, which pretty much rubbishes insinuations that he is gay.

He is 13 years older, so I may be estimate he is 40ish. Ever wondered why he is still single at such age? He has specific expectation from his dream girl, ie slim, independent etc. Some guys may be on the autistic spectrum. That does not make them weird, but they are very choosy in life and set high expectations for themselves and others. From all you said, he has shown kindness to you and no hostility. Maybe he feels you are that slim and independent woman he dreams of dating but too shy or don't have the balls to ask you out. Your boyfriend may even intimidate him.

The guy being "black or dark" sounds like a very superficial excuse just like him breaking up with his ex for being overweight. Besides are there other flats in the compound or other residents so you can judge if he is equally kind to them? If you are ever to break up with your boyfriend he seems a good person who can cater to your needs.

Good luck.

It is still not your biz sweetheart, carry on like he's not there. I wouldn't trust him though, he's too vain. His love wears contact lens finished off with spectaculars! Slim girls too pill on the junk in the trunk someday...

petkruz:
I no like the bobo, because he black like charcoal, I only date fair guys and my boo is very fair.

woow fair guys rock .....u can add me up let's talk on fb ... chimzi ogbonna

so,u carried my matter 2 nl.ka!i nor know say u b ayana

torqque7:
Chai guys don suffer,u by urself without any word or pas from him concluded all in ur head?every lil friendly gesture a man makes u people will either say, "he likes me,'or 'he is toasting me'smh..plss wait till he actually says something b4 u start feeling like Kim kardashian cos e be like say na u de attracted to the guy and ur in denial..hmmm girls bin deceiving themselves since b4 adam

Hmmmmm

No comment until I hear from the guy !!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is no smoke without fire. Your own fire is within not on the mountain. To avoid danger PRAY. A word is enough for the wise.

Allow him one "gwatso" n den pat him on the head n send him on his way.

From your story I don't think you need any advice since you don't have any soft spot for him and no need for a soft landing ground

OP, you seems to know much about this man than he knows about you. Damn! You've got to stop stalking this man. I am tempted to think that you even hired people to watch this man for you. You know so much about his private life. Just stop this activity and make a move on this guy. You come across as very interested in him.

Melsan:
Hmmmmm

[Hi..happy sunday

:DU said it urslf already th@ u reltnshp has mvd to its permanent leveel!! Why not just continue being a nyc ngbr nd stop concluding !!! Other wise u wld personally complicate issue ur self!!!

Form the way you speak... you're a high priced olosho

Secondly u said u only date fair guys... who your love for fair guys don help... hope ur kpekus is fair too.


Leave that guy alone.... leave that guy alone.. he is not interested in you. Simple

Geez...... wat x d's?

How old is he? (i mean this your neighbour)

And has he come out openly to ask you out or to try and sleep with you?

petkruz:
Well this whole drama started 2yrs ago when we both moved into this new beautiful house.Initially his girlfriend comes from portharcourt to spend a month,she was always around. I never visited them,we just greeted from afar maybe weekends when they finally see my face due to my Job. Before I forget,i was still single and minding my business.

After some months I noticed his girlfriend wasn't coming around,even when she did they quarrelled through out her stay! Then again it wasn't my business. After sometime she collected my number and said she would like to discuss somethings with me. 2days later she called.

To cut the long story short she told me that my neighbour has decided to end the relationship because she's too fat and didn't have a job. I was confused because these 2 were so much inlove few months ago. I now noticed he was coming close to me! We normally contribute money for our prepaid, security man and maintenance guy,he stopped collecting money from me! When I asked he said he has paid,when I give him my share of the money, he rejects it.

Now my boyfriend comes weekends,he doesn't greet him,even when my bf hails him, he answers reluctantly! He then puts off all his electronics hoping to hear moanings and ends up disappointed. If I pack my bag for the weekend,he jumps out of his flat to stylishly ask if i'm going to the mainland or my aunty's house in Oniru. I usually give him same reply "i'm going to Aguda to see my bobo" He then offers to drop me off at the bus stop which I always turn down.

I'v never seen him with any lady, neither has any lady come to the house to visit,he's always alone.Even when I encourage him to start dating again,he usually says Slim, hardworking independent ladies are hard to find. My rent expires December dis year, what do you all think I should do to make this man look somewhere else because he's only wasting his time hoping that one day i'd look his direction.

PS: He's 13years older than me(got that info from his Ex) we live in separate flats and have a lot of boundaries! He has never visited me neither have I entered his house. Matured comments please!!!

It's obvious you aren't interested, and you don't need to be bothered unless he starts behaving immaturely. Continue your own life by focusing on your relationship and work commitments. l would also advise you mustn't on any occasion be alone with him, cos he's very much obsessed with you.

torqque7:
[Hi..happy sunday

Hello..same to you

petkruz:
O'boy so Nairaland is a place for recognition? I'd prefer forbes please,maybe your type pay rent here.

You will get tired of bringing everything that happens in your life to nairaland. Just don't worry. From the first 5-7 replies, you can see people are already getting tired of all your history.