Well this whole drama started 2yrs ago when we both moved into this new beautiful house.Initially his girlfriend comes from portharcourt to spend a month,she was always around. I never visited them,we just greeted from afar maybe weekends when they finally see my face due to my Job. Before I forget,i was still single and minding my business.

After some months I noticed his girlfriend wasn't coming around,even when she did they quarrelled through out her stay! Then again it wasn't my business. After sometime she collected my number and said she would like to discuss somethings with me. 2days later she called.

To cut the long story short she told me that my neighbour has decided to end the relationship because she's too fat and didn't have a job. I was confused because these 2 were so much inlove few months ago. I now noticed he was coming close to me! We normally contribute money for our prepaid, security man and maintenance guy,he stopped collecting money from me! When I asked he said he has paid,when I give him my share of the money, he rejects it.

Now my boyfriend comes weekends,he doesn't greet him,even when my bf hails him, he answers reluctantly! He then puts off all his electronics hoping to hear moanings and ends up disappointed. If I pack my bag for the weekend,he jumps out of his flat to stylishly ask if i'm going to the mainland or my aunty's house in Oniru. I usually give him same reply "i'm going to Aguda to see my bobo" He then offers to drop me off at the bus stop which I always turn down.

I'v never seen him with any lady, neither has any lady come to the house to visit,he's always alone.Even when I encourage him to start dating again,he usually says Slim, hardworking independent ladies are hard to find. My rent expires December dis year, what do you all think I should do to make this man look somewhere else because he's only wasting his time hoping that one day i'd look his direction.

PS: He's 13years older than me(got that info from his Ex) we live in separate flats and have a lot of boundaries! He has never visited me neither have I entered his house. Matured comments please!!!

from ur story i don't think u need our advice

donholy28:
from ur story i don't think u need our advice

Click like if you think this Op wants cheap recognition...

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donholy28:
from ur story i don't think u need our advice

It is only on nairaland that som1 will come for our advice whether to urinate first or shit first

Nevertheless,even if I no like some posts,crazy comments dey make me go gaga

At my age,..... I don't comment on stupiid post

I don't even know what advise to give. uhmm OP as soon as your rent expires,pls join him in his apartment and help him end the burden. Abi


if you are building or you are a builder,pls check my signature.


My signature


My business


My concern!

super story
you be Kim Kardashian abi Angelina jolie?

He's only trying 2 b nice 2 u dats all or do u spend 24 hrs with him 4 u 2 knw dat he's nt seeing any1 again Nd cum 2 tink of it if u r nt interested in him y r u now all up in his matter 2 d extent dat e evn knws wen u going out .

If u wnt 2 help him as a friend tell him 2 his face dat u r off d market or u distance urself 4rm him 4 a while, he'll get d gist n move on

Stop giving yourself headache Op, the guy has not said anything but been friendly, u are just insinuating everything.

Stop thinking for him coz u are not in his mind except u are interested, if you are not, face your business coz his life is his business and until he tries to make his personal life part of your business, continue to be a neighbour to him.

Hmmmn nairaland is becoming a dumb site
Start yashing the guy now

Don't you think you are making things up Maybe deep down you want him... Just saying

this Op is a wicked person, after u Don use the juju wey ur body carry sent his gf away ... u won kon decline d guy impending request...... I dey joke oo.

U need to act fast b4 dis neighbour of yours start making ur boo feel insecure around u n ur relationship...

It's ridiculous to ask ur NB what he wants from u cos he hasn't said anything...

But u can ask em why he is so generous to u,
So d conversation starts, den u let em know your stand....

No insults, dis advice is useless if Op is not d loyal type...

you know the guy isn't dating??....u are really sure he has no one he's dating and he's always alone...

you must be really interested in his life to know about these....I have neighbours I don't even know or care to know anything about and we're cool like that...

Point of my rant is you like this guy and from the look of things, he likes you too..how u guys are gonna handle my revelation, I don't know.

AwesomeDuru:
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I love Nairaland On Sundays!

O'boy so Nairaland is a place for recognition? I'd prefer forbes please,maybe your type pay rent here.

Who brought this poo to the front page?

niceeric:
you know the guy isn't dating??....u are really sure he has no one he's dating and he's always alone...

you must be really interested in his life to know about these....I have neighbours I don't even know or care to know anything about and we're cool like that...

Point of my rant is you like this guy and from the look of things, he likes you too..how u guys are gonna handle my revelation, I don't know.

I don't hate him, I only mean well by encouraging him to move on. He's way older so I give him that respect! As for your revelation, there's nothing to handle because my relationship has moved to its permanent site.

Trapnews:

theunnamed:
Don't you think you are making things up
Maybe deep down you want him...
Just saying

Just lewkat wat dis wan is saying

****TSCHEEW****
U LYK D BOBO.
NO LIE

StefanSalvatore:
He's only trying 2 b nice 2 u dats all or do u spend 24 hrs with him 4 u 2 knw dat he's nt seeing any1 again Nd cum 2 tink if u r nt interested in him y r now all up in his matter 2 d extent dat e evn knws wen u going out .

If u wnt 2 help him as a friend tell him 2 his face dat u r off d market or u distance urself 4rm him 4 a while, he'll get d gist n move on

We are always distant and he sees my man

petkruz:


I don't hate him, I only mean well by encouraging him to move on. He's way older so I give him that respect! As for your revelation, there's nothing to handle because my relationship has moved to its permanent site.

hmmm....we shall see

my dear continue ignoring him .men looking for free punna since 200BC

ANTONINEUTRON:
****TSCHEEW****

U LYK D BOBO.

NO LIE

I no like the bobo, because he black like charcoal, I only date fair guys and my boo is very fair.

cruzita:
my dear continue ignoring him .men looking for free punna since 200BC

Roflmao @free punna! In his wildest imagination.

petkruz:

Just lewkat wat dis wan is saying

Why else would you be monitoring his every move?

You are certain the dude likes you and you started showing off.... The aboki you run to meet all the time may be treating you like a piece of shit. Seriously.... are Nigerian girls this dumb

theunnamed:




Why else would you be monitoring his every move?

Again just lewkat what dis wan is typing! Go back and read properly to see who's monitoring who, u hear

petkruz:


I don't hate him, I only mean well by encouraging him to move on. He's way older so I give him that respect! As for your revelation, there's nothing to handle because my relationship has moved to its permanent site.

Maam, your topic contradicts ur story. you never mentioned anywhere where he said he wont date anyone because of you.
This guy is just been nice. you dont need to give urself some headache.
And why would you want to move out of your apartment?

Trapnews:
You are certain the dude likes you and you started showing off.... The aboki you run to meet all the time may be treating you like a piece of shit. Seriously.... are Nigerian girls this dumb

Lord distribute sense this year, most people lack it.

Fraih:

Maam, your topic contradicts ur story. you never mentioned anywhere where he said he wont date anyone because of you.
This guy is just been nice. you dont need to give urself some headache.
And why would you want to move out of your apartment?

And the part where he switches off his electronics to eavesdrop countless times?

petkruz:


Lord distribute sense this year, I personally lack it.

You are just another hoe. You stylishly ruined the guy's relationship by misinforming the girlfriend. You said they were doing well before you came into their lives. its obvious you were not happy with their relationship. You are the devil pretending to be the peacemaker. Lord, save us from this Karishika