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sickstars:
Smh wen guys b tinkin dey are one minigod

I blame mysef nd oda girla like me out there makin dem feel way too important iresspective of their level of achivement girls needs to dump some certain guys before u get dumped nd get hurt most of dem gat no heart even for a sec

dump some certain guys, after dey bleeped ur brains out abi...abeg who lose?

Gabaleve:
dump some certain guys, after dey bleeped ur brains out abi...abeg who lose?

The girls according to the society

sickstars:
The girls according to the society

so why would u wanna be a loser when u can make things work

Gabaleve:
so why would u wanna be a loser when u can make things work

I tried to make it work

But wen they make u feel worthless nd mentally unstable ow will u work it out wen dey make u fesl hopless with ursef?

First relationship is to get experience. Maybe when you guys break up you will get your brain back to normal cos you are not

Not happy in a relationship, don't try marriage.

I advice u buy a book on temperament, especially "WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO" By Tim Lahaye

@op If you truly love this man and want to marry him, stop having sex with him. Some people may not want to agree, but sex before marriage can reduce trust between couples.

DExplorer1:
Indeed!
You the one on glasses?

Yes. How did you know?

I always tell people to get their shit together before getting into a relationship. Madam look for ur kind and allow that younger to go, instead of dragging him into this psychological shit of urs.

ERCROSS:
sorry for quoting u oooo sister... what's it like to be a melancholy... ?

the are quiet n lonely n prone to depression quickly. They dont like much company

its just a psychological phase you need a shake to overcome,I hope your guy is the understanding and easy type,cuz this defect can only be corrected via love,I wish you the best dear.

Nothing is wrong with you dear, you just need to understand your temperament and work on it, because you are likely to be predominantly Melancholy.


I am also in your shoes in fact at times I'm not even in the mood to answer phone calls even parents' except my boss of course. But others tend not to understand people like us.


I will advise you read books on temperaments.

rockstarB:
I don't even know where to start. Anyway i have been dating my man for close to 4years now and we are both cool together and we planning to get married after am done with my youth service. The number one factor why i decided to have like a distance relationship with him was the fact that i didnt see myself dating a guy from my school, so i choose him, tho he lives in same town with me we do not see that often cos of school and other stuffs.
I am introvert and i deal with mood swing and emotional problem even when my guy is around i sometimes feel like not going to see him because i feel like am not in the mood to see him, i say something like "you saw me last week/2weeks ago why do u wanna see me again?" I love him so much and i dnt even have what it takes to cheat so i have not for once in our 4yr course cheated on him. My attitude almost broke us up last year cos he felt like he was not loved the way he ought to be loved.
I also have problem with sex, he is the first and only guy since we first had it together but i always feel like he is dating me for sex even tho its so glaring that he is not. We dont usually have sex cos we dont see often. Lets just say at most two times in a month which is rare or lemme say three times in two months which is also rare, but going by this i still think he loves sex so much. My emotion always come first before or during sex, little thing easily piss me off, i remember a night we were about having sex but i stopped him simply because my system spoilt a day earlier and i felt like sex is the last thing on my mind, sex is always the last thing on my mind I may even start crying after sex if my guy doesnt stay in bed to cuddle me, he is a faithful guy and i dont want to lose him to my emotions.
I dont see myself going through all these after marriage, is this how i will be depriving my husband of sex just because of some petty stuff that should not count in the first place? My baby is coming home after over two months now and i already feel like am not in the mood to have sex or anything. Is anybody going through this? Please i need help bfr its too late.

sickstars:
I tried to make it work

But wen they make u feel worthless nd mentally unstable ow will u work it out wen dey make u fesl hopless with ursef?

u sound like one who gave too much in a rship...like someone who was givin more love 2 some guy dat wasnt realy in love
u shuld sitdown, flashback and review whr d faults came from

Gabaleve:
u sound like one who gave too much in a rship...like someone who was givin more love 2 some guy dat wasnt realy in love
u shuld sitdown and flashback and review 2 knw whr d faults came from

tank u for d advise

sickstars:
tank u for d advise

u welcom



and please,which netwrk do u use?...is it 6G?

Gabaleve:
u welcom




and please,which netwrk do u use?...is it 6G?

12g

bigiyaro:
U need a thorough psychological review and possible treatment.

pls who do i meet,,,,am an introvert too and i have the same problem,,,,,pls help

The bitter truth is that you have a spirit husband. I'll advice you go for deliverance

sambisa5:
pls who do i meet,,,,am an introvert too and i have the same problem,,,,,pls help

u can try the guidance and counseling dept of a church, hospital or an NGO involved in social networking or charity. Gud luck. If you are in jos, i can help you further.

sickstars:
12g

no wonda....i fr lyk tap from d netwrk

Hello sister, you need serious prayer and a counselling for ur unstable emotional, it better u change or else you will com back here complaining he dump you for now reason.

Gabaleve:
no wonda....i fr lyk tap from d netwrk

Cum nd tap

sickstars:
Cum nd tap

lol..wher do we begin from?....maybe u shuld whatsap me...

sickstars:
Cum nd tap

lol..wher do we begin from?....maybe u shuld whatsap me...

Gabaleve:
lol..wher do we begin from?....maybe u shuld whatsap me...

Na whatsapp is busy now

Some guys are proposing to their gfs now

whatsapp is over crowded

asatemple:
The bitter truth is that you have a spirit husband. I'll advice you go for deliverance

Could you explain why you think that is the OPs case?

confess, u re a guy and u shud probably get a job to keep u busy....like fast

sickstars:
Na whatsapp is busy now
Some guys are proposing to their gfs now
whatsapp is over crowded

U knw we could actually knock em over and do ours as well

Gabaleve:
U knw we could actually knock em over and do ours as well

Na am good

rockstarB:
No. This is actually my first relationship. I do love him, maybe i dnt know how to express it

just tell him "i love you"
that's all he needs to hear.
then have sex.lots of it,without any inhibitions.