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Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jan 18, 2016
I wouldn't wanna bore you guys with a long story.
I get to know this lady recently in my class & we've being getting along quite alright, I like her & I think she likes me too because I'm getting the message from her but I'm a bit skeptical on how it will look like if we start dating, I'm very confident of the fact that she won't turn me down.
Now my question is;
Will it work out well considering the fact that we are in the same department/class?
What are the consequences if the school management gets to know about it?

Please no hating but constructive criticism will be welcome.
Thanks!
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by fulfillbill(m): 7:05pm On Jan 18, 2016
Of course

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Hadez(f): 7:06pm On Jan 18, 2016
It is not. Especially if she is the jealous type

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 18, 2016
Please forgive me if you discover any grammatical blunder in my post.
Cheers!

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by gomzy121: 7:07pm On Jan 18, 2016
if I must talk then NO is the answer

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by executioner27: 7:07pm On Jan 18, 2016
sweetboiy:
I wouldn't wanna bore you guys with a long story.
I get to know this lady recently in my class & we've being getting along quite alright, I like her & I think she likes me too because I'm getting the message from her but I'm a bit skeptical on how it will look like if we start dating, I'm very confident of the fact that she won't turn me down.
Now my question is;
Will it work out well considering the fact that we are in the same department/class?
What are the consequences if the school management gets to know about it?

Please no hating but constructive criticism will be welcome.
Thanks!

Guy...not all relationships work out.Even if its one month then u break up..at least u tried.cos if u dont u will always wonder.take s3x out of the table..companionship 1st.and weda she be cosmate or not dont mata.people date their flatmate, neighbour, housmate,compound mate etc.follow ur heart head maybe or both.but never ur d1ck.

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by OreoPaschal(m): 7:14pm On Jan 18, 2016
Well...As for me, I can't date my coursemate,i can't date my neighbour and I can't date my hostel inmate...Reasons are not far fetched; But then,You are yourself and you are you!...I believe you guys know each other better what didn't work for me might work for you.
I wldn't advice you to date your coursemate as someday the relationship will become boring in the essence that you will be seeing each other on daily basis, no opportunity to miss each other aside holidays.
Secondly,when the relationship goes sour your coursemates will get to know. You will be drained emotionally. And lastly, During exams I bet you will attach emotions too if she is not the brainy type and you appear to be one. undecided
Well,i know a couple that are coursemates and at the same time lodge mates...They have been dating for 4yrs now. I hope they settle for each other at least and I also,know of my coursemates that were lovers but now,they are haters of eachother
I will advice you let the sleeping dog lie...if after graduation you still love her, then go for her but for now let her be your friend with benefit or no strings attached.#this is my opinion smiley

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 18, 2016
executioner27:


Guy...not all relationships work out.Even if its one month then u break up..at least u tried.cos if u dont u will always wonder.take s3x out of the table..companionship 1st.and weda she be cosmate or not dont mata.people date their flatmate, neighbour, housmate,compound mate etc.follow ur heart head maybe or both.but never ur d1ck.
thanks man but what will be the benefit if we remove s3x ? I'm very sure she won't accept that
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 18, 2016
OreoPaschal:
Well...As for me, I can't date my coursemate,i can't date my neighbour and I can't date my hostel inmate...Reasons are not far fetched; But then,You are yourself and you are you!...I believe you guys know each other better what didn't work for me might work for you.
I wldn't advice you to date your coursemate as someday the relationship will become boring in the essence that you will be seeing each other on daily basis, no opportunity to miss each other aside holidays.
Secondly,when the relationship goes sour your coursemates will get to know. You will be drained emotionally. And lastly, During exams I bet you will attach emotions too if she is not the brainy type and you appear to be one. undecided
Well,i know a couple that are coursemates and at the same time lodge mates...They have been dating for 4yrs now. I hope they settle for each other at least and I also,know of my coursemates that were lovers but now,they are haters of eachother
I will advice you let the sleeping dog lie...if after graduation you still love her, then go for her but for now let her be your friend with benefit or no strings attached.#this is my opinion smiley
thanks dude but she is the brainy type oo..na her the teach me maths sef
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jan 18, 2016
Hadez:
It is not. Especially if she is the jealous type
really? I will check on that tomorrow
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jan 18, 2016
fulfillbill:
Of course
Ofcourse what?
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by fulfillbill(m): 7:29pm On Jan 18, 2016
sweetboiy:
Ofcourse what?

You can date her...i have friend a whose relationship is 7 yrs old this year... same course.

The both of you should understand deeply what respect is before starting. And the secret to that is keeping everything that happens between the both of you secret, no matter how small.

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by OreoPaschal(m): 7:30pm On Jan 18, 2016
sweetboiy:
thanks dude but she is the brainy type oo..na her the teach me maths sef
It's your choice...whatever rocks your boat sails you. Just follow your mind and act maturely in the relationship

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by IamLEGEND1: 7:33pm On Jan 18, 2016
I dunno
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 18, 2016
OreoPaschal:

It's your choice...whatever rocks your boat sails you. Just follow your mind and act maturely in the relationship
thanks. I appreciate your comments

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Eleniyan15: 7:35pm On Jan 18, 2016
chai


me self get this issue for hand oooo

I dey try do d package tomaro..Buh I dey fear unto say nah coursemate....arrrggghh

make I forget about am


am here to read comment!!!

meaningful one ni ooo

Aminat508
lalasticlala

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jan 18, 2016
fulfillbill:


You can date her...i have friend a whose relationship is 7 yrs old this year... same course.

The both of you should understand deeply what respect is before starting. And the secret to that is keeping everything that happens between the both of you secret, no matter how small.
secret? Please I don't really get you
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jan 18, 2016
Eleniyan15:
chai


me self get this issue for hand oooo

I dey try do d package tomaro..Buh I dey fear unto say nah coursemate....arrrggghh

make I forget about am


am here to read comment!!!

meaningful one ni ooo

Aminat508
no be small mata my brother
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Aminat508(f): 7:43pm On Jan 18, 2016
Eleniyan15:
chai


me self get this issue for hand oooo

I dey try do d package tomaro..Buh I dey fear unto say nah coursemate....arrrggghh

make I forget about am


am here to read comment!!!

meaningful one ni ooo

Aminat508
am here, angry
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 18, 2016
Aminat508:
am here, angry
you are welcome
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Eleniyan15: 7:51pm On Jan 18, 2016
Aminat508:
am here, angry

should I??
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by ellechrystal(f): 7:59pm On Jan 18, 2016
NO!!!!
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by cruzita(f): 8:00pm On Jan 18, 2016
date her if u like her whether she us your course mate or curse-mate

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Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Aminat508(f): 8:03pm On Jan 18, 2016
Eleniyan15:



should I??
yea. Go ahead. Love is above all
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 18, 2016
Choii
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Eleniyan15: 8:21pm On Jan 18, 2016
Aminat508:
yea. Go ahead. Love is above all

Hmmm, speechless
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Eleniyan15: 8:22pm On Jan 18, 2016
ellechrystal:
NO!!!!

reason...
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by ellechrystal(f): 8:31pm On Jan 18, 2016
Eleniyan15:



reason...
Ask ur course mates
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Eleniyan15: 9:08pm On Jan 18, 2016
ellechrystal:
Ask ur course mates

*yinmu
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by naijaboiy: 9:10pm On Jan 18, 2016
Do it if you want to. smiley
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 18, 2016
There is Nothing wrong with it.
Re: Dating My Course Mate, Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jan 18, 2016
U can give it a try.. If n only if it wont get into ur head and hence ur G.P begins to cry for help.

Back then in sch. I knew someone who dated a coursemate. Infact dia love no b small and today dey both work in d same multinational coy. d guy offshore while d lady onshore and are happily married.

But u av to b sure its a green light cos @times one can confuse greenlight for likeness..

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