IamLEGEND1:
no be today she start to dey bang the guy,so why complain now?

No mind her o!

He consoled her the way he knows best....Women sef...u re insatiable...if he left her u ll say he is a bad person. ...he knack am to show her despite the rape he still loves and will kpansh her

YourMain:
Please delete him from your life.

I am about action. Now, can we make it happen?

I could have done the same. He didn't want her to feel less, and he still cared for her. Sincerely, I don't know what he could have done, if he kept quiet nd probably consoled her, she won't believe him. But to be honest, it all depends on the relationship, if there was trust, or whatever issues they had going

IamLEGEND1:
no be today she start to dey bang the guy,so why complain now?

You are very st...upid

bolajibreeze:
I could have done the same. He didn't want her to feel less, and he still cared for her. Sincerely, I don't know what he could have done, if he kept quiet nd probably consoled her, she won't believe him. But to be honest, it all depends on the relationship, if there was trust, or whatever issues they had going

Can you read at all?

nastyesco:
He consoled her the way he knows best....Women sef...u re insatiable...if he left her u ll say he is a bad person. ...he knack am to show her despite the rape he still loves and will kpansh her

It is going to happen to your daughter too and I hope you will also be able to say this

I would say something but I am afraid that it wouldn't go down well with many people.


The fact he slept with her after hearing such a traumatic story does not mean he does not love her.


It's just insensitive.

But then again, a sad and crying woman can actually be a turn on for some guys.

Michellla:
dump the guy, and move on with your
life! You are better than that and worth it!

after everything in her is gone?

My friend go and marry...u want to tell me supposing u were married now n dis happened u will post this trash on NL...

probably so you can forget the rapist.

U sure u didn't enjoy the sex.....cos u ve chances of preventing ur bf 4rm having sex wit u bt u did nothing.......

U ve bn raped severally by ur so call boy friends.......y is dis particular rape so special?

daretodiffer:


It is going to happen to your daughter too and I hope you will also be able to say this

That's the truth.....he still wants her despite being raped. Look at it from that angle.

I ve done something like that before, in fact the lady demanded for it as a proof that I m not irritated

MarieSucre:

wow! This is the most retar.ded shiit I have ever read.

abeg no bite your tongue ooooooo..
English teacher

MarieSucre:

wow! This is the most retar.ded shiit I have ever read.

abeg no bite your tongue ooooooo..
English teacher

Only God knows how some people think. Most of them are hypocrites. It is easy to judge and advice people who this events happened to but would definitely be clueless if in same shoes.

Instead of crucifying anyone, I'll agree that its your personal opinions and you're entitled to it. Would just be ambigous to coerce others to them.

For me, if I don't love my girlfriend, and this happens to her, won't mount her for a long time coz I won't be able to keep d picture off ma head. Another thing is how sure I am she was raaped. A complain had to be lodged at the police station.

What some guys forgot to understand was that they've been having sex before. He consoled her, maybe in the process of holding her close to herself, gving her a chest/shoulder to cry on, he had the urge and it happened. I don't see why she should dump him for this.

Let's be practical, some rape scenario is a scam. I am of the believe that a single man with no weapon can rape an adult/matured lady successfully. It can't happen, xpt the lady is somehow interested too.

If you would not like me assuming that it was just an excuse to justify her unfaithfulness, then you shouldn't reach conclusion on the guy too.

Let's endeavor to always be practical and realistic in giving advices. Some say things that are only possible in their heads. If the same guy started avoiding sex with her, you'll still complain.

She said they've had sex for a long time, was it the reason y she allowed herself to be raped? Just thinking aloud. The guy might think abt this too and may want to make up or change things n their sexual life.

Besides, her bf didn't rape her. She could have resisted him if she didn't want it too, you guys are so hypocrite to see that right? If he had forced her after she resisted then its a rape then we may tag the guy insensitive hence someone that should be dumped

And you were crying emotionally? Hmmm.

He tried to console her with his diçk

On a serious note,
I don't she should dump him. Last time I checked , sex is a spiritual activity. It could be used as medium of bonding, expressing love, & a way of reassuring your partner.
Read people...Read!!!

---

I don't think the boyfriend was just being an inconsiderate perv. Was his mien like that of a hõrny boyfriend, or did he bed her because he wanted to help her get through the trauma?.
Y'all fleetly type, & are quick in arbitrating without knowing what fully transpired.

Besides, if anyone is to blame, it's the girl. Why did she open her legs for him, & still come to wail after the act had been completed.
Women are such unbelievable species.

Am sure ur so called religion did not advice u to sleep around and call it boyfriend. My dear. Gals like u are loose. He wont waste his time on public property

Learn not to cry over a spilled milk... You consented to your guy having it with you, and here you are asking people that don't even know him if he loves you...
You shouldn't have opened your legs for him in the first place...

At Miss writer, sorrry for what happened to you. Are u really sure you were raped? Cus if u r as u said, you wouldn't have opened your legs for Your so called boyfriend. As for your boyfriend, he doesn't love you one bit he only care about your body and also to satisfy his sexual urge. Quit the relationship.

changingtimes:
this one na just story

To be honest, a story of rape always ignites election in the sexually active male. So forgive him, because he felt jealous that some mad guys were bashing what he has missed for a long time. As far as you still enjoyed his own.

Pig and Ram sex kwa? hmm...end time wazobia rape!

Dynamite02:
She has been raped for the second time

. No
He gave her sexual therapy. If he refused to have sex with her, she would say it was because she had been raped.

ARE U SERIOUS
WHY ON EARTH WUD THIS THING TAKE FRONT PAGE?

once I teased my ex i was raped.

the next thing he did was to ask me if I enjoyed it....I felt like strangling him coz I thought if it had happened for real, how am I going to feel.

that same day he insisted its over.... before I told him it was all fake.

femi4:
AY.com

. Una don start. Na so one Nairaland babe advertise herself before and Orikinla no waste time to lay her.

He took complete advantage of your ordeal...if u later tell him u were robbed, dnt be surprised he will just tell you go to ur ATM and withdraw the remaining balance in ur account because it's being long u gave him money....run for ur dear life, because there are signs he will later dump u, citing the same experience, that he cannot marry a gal who has been raped b4....