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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Ganjafama(m): 12:53pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
I can see that u like guys with big dick. Mine is 13 inches long with a girth of 6.5 inches and I can last up to 60 minutes per round. Pls send me a pm so we can hook up.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by babythug(f): 12:54pm On Jan 20, 2016
I feel the circumstances surrounding the situation should determine the kind of ceremony. If a widow(er) is remarrying barely a few months to a year after the death of spouse then perhaps a large ceremony would be insensitive and in bad taste!

The age of the couple also comes to bear here as well. But the truth is irrespective of whatever third parties may feel moderation in all things is key! The couple should follow their heart and do what is right by them both!
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 20, 2016
Cutehector:
Till death do you two part.. Dat includes your in laws cheesy
your head dey there grin
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Cutehector(m): 12:58pm On Jan 20, 2016
osedvgirl:
your head dey there grin
it's just as simple as dat. Duno why people just like to complicate issues for themselves cheesy
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jan 20, 2016
Ganjafama:
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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by pdpchangeapc(m): 1:03pm On Jan 20, 2016
Simply put, Its not ideal
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by nigeriancuban: 1:22pm On Jan 20, 2016
kaziblake:
Pls go to registry and do your marriage. Must everything in 9ja be loud.
a bottle of origin for you bro
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by twibs: 1:23pm On Jan 20, 2016
The last phrase in your last marital vows was "till death do you part". You have a fresh beginning
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Dom2020: 1:39pm On Jan 20, 2016
ur out of points.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by kaziblake(f): 1:43pm On Jan 20, 2016
nigeriancuban:
a bottle of origin for you bro
I don't drink origin. smiley
I'm a she not a he.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
Is it advisable to have another elaborate wedding after losing a partner of a year marriage to death?considering how your former inlaws and those who are close to you would feel about it.
It depends . . .

1. How long ago did your wife die? - If it's less than 5 years then keep it low-key!

2. Are your kids still young or more matured? Do they like your wife to be? - Are they old enough to think Mum is being replaced?

3. Lastly (and most importantly), do you have the funds for that? Hope it's not a farce to impress the new wife?

Personally I think second marriages should always be low key, be it divorcees or widowers. That's just one of those things the new spouse will have to expect for marrying someone who has been married before.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by udumosam23(m): 1:59pm On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
Is it advisable to have another elaborate wedding after losing a partner of a year marriage to death?considering how your former inlaws and those who are close to you would feel about it.
Just thinking about this too, a good friend and colleague just lost his wife and baby.
They wedded just a year ago, and the wedding was elaborate at least at his level.

She was from a decent home, a daughter to a renown barrester, and he a minister. They were so blessed before death came knocking. Wife and baby r gone, leaving the man more lonely than he was when he was single.

I was like thinking how he will start marriage proposals, rite and celebrations all over again. Left for me, he should just take a wife quietly and bless his marriage simply.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Abee79(m): 2:34pm On Jan 20, 2016
Nothing wrong with getting married again, elaborate or not. Just ensure you do not dishonour the memory of the departed one
#lifegoeson
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by karleone(m):
Cutehector:
Till death do you two part.. Dat includes your in laws cheesy
'Till death do you part', does not extend to the in laws o. What if they marriage was blessed with kids? You don't expect them to wipe off every paternal/maternal relationship.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by karleone(m): 2:39pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
Your point has nothing to do with the subject of this post. Try and make sense a bit.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by karleone(m):
daretodiffer:
Are you saying that people should stop living their lives because of the dead?sad They are dead and they are not coming back. Having an elaborate wedding does not mean you loved the dead less, it means you are ready to forge on with lifesmiley
The bolded reminds me of my dad's statement when I reasoned otherwise. What matters most is giving due respect to the dead and moving on with life.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 3:17pm On Jan 20, 2016
Ujoan:
It depends . . .

1. How long ago did your wife die? - If it's less than 5 years then keep it low-key!

2. Are your kids still young or more matured? Do they like your wife to be? - Are they old enough to think Mum is being replaced?

3. Lastly (and most importantly), do you have the funds for that? Hope it's not a farce to impress the new wife?

Personally I think second marriages should always be low key, be it divorcees or widowers. That's just one of those things the new spouse will have to expect for marrying someone who has been married before.
I wrote the topic for someone and I guess he's viewing this thread and there's no kid yet,it's a year marriage,some couples don't rush into giving birth immediately after their marriage
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 3:32pm On Jan 20, 2016
udumosam23:
Just thinking about this too, a good friend and colleague just lost his wife and baby.
They wedded just a year ago, and the wedding was elaborate at least at his level.

She was from a decent home, a daughter to a renown barrester, and he a minister. They were so blessed before death came knocking. Wife and baby r gone, leaving the man more lonely than he was when he was single.

I was like thinking how he will start marriage proposals, rite and celebrations all over again. Left for me, he should just take a wife quietly and bless his marriage simply.
that's the best o if he doesn't want to be a suspect for the his wife's death.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Omotayor123(f): 3:33pm On Jan 20, 2016
chocolateme:
I think so, atleast for the sake of the lady being married as its her own first time of being married and which is the joy of every woman though not every woman. It doesn't need to be expensive though.
You are on point.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by nigeriancuban: 3:45pm On Jan 20, 2016
kaziblake:
I don't drink origin. smiley
I'm a she not a he.
I drew ur attention with that,can I pm u so u can have a don perion? (typo)
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Thelmerh(f): 3:53pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
what has ur post got to do wit d original post. receive sense
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Olasco93: 4:09pm On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
Is it advisable to have another elaborate wedding after losing a partner of a year marriage to death?considering how your former inlaws and those who are close to you would feel about it.
I have catch you OP...
It seems OP got a share from Samb* Dazu** EFCC come and see one of them here planning to spending our Kudi/Ego/Owo.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Olasco93: 4:15pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
According to you Local Government
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by xtervaganza(m): 4:19pm On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
Is it advisable to have another elaborate wedding after losing a partner of a year marriage to death?considering how your former inlaws and those who are close to you would feel about it.
just have a low key wedding



No need to put yourself in evil eyes



Be wise
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Rexology: 4:22pm On Jan 20, 2016
How long have you mourned her death as a wife you once loved? While on that, is another elaborate marriage ceremony TOO necessary to you?... perhaps you will take a rightful decision while conscientiously answering these questions. Do not forget, its entirely your decision and you must be ready to take responsibilities of any outcome of whatever decision you would finally take. Goodluck!
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by TV01(m): 4:27pm On Jan 20, 2016
...how a couple decide to celebrate their wedding is totally down to them. They are free to take whatever they like into consideration when making their decision.


TV
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by gbens2000(m): 5:29pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
this ekiti gal,u like dck wella
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by johnjimiflex(m): 5:52pm On Jan 20, 2016
[quote author=austine4real post=42156666]Make sure it is not that expensive and u can do it in a location very far 4rm ur
I will even invite them self. there is no more relationship between us... so why should I care
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by johnjimiflex(m): 5:54pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
You are a fool of the first order... hopeless git... disguting vulture. where did that come from? your maggot filled brain I guess...
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by johnjimiflex(m): 5:55pm On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
you are right,because the new fiancee's relatives might want a loud wedding
And even if they don't..... What if I want a loud wedding?
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by johnjimiflex(m): 5:58pm On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
I would also prefer that,but at times,one needs to dance to the tune of those around us to avoid being tagged a proud one
you need to start being a musician so you can make your own tunez... who cares if they wanna tag me proud? So my dead spouse's relatives should come and start dictating how they want me to live my life? mtchew..... And since when did having a loud wedding start being proud
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by austine4real(m): 6:07pm On Jan 20, 2016
[quote author=johnjimiflex post=42165574][/quote]anythn that rocks ur boat
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