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Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by greencard: 11:48am On Oct 15, 2023
People will say my fear of marriage is marrying the wrong person, so what is your definition of a wrong person?

What if you are the wrong person, How will you know ?

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Marynwachukwu21(f): 11:59am On Oct 15, 2023
Then you have to pray or visit the pastor to know exactly what the problem.I come in peace

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Jennyclay(f): 12:02pm On Oct 15, 2023
A wrong person is a broke, poverty stricken man.
A wrong person is a woman beater
A wrong person is a man who’s a rapist and murderer.
A wrong person is a man who have just 1 job he’s doing.
A wrong person is a man who is stingy! Nonsense bunch of stingy ko ko men!! Shoir!!
A wrong person is a man who still stay under his parent’s roof.
A wrong person is a man who don’t have a car.
A wrong person is a man who’s not romantic

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by maestro299: 12:03pm On Oct 15, 2023
Jennyclay:
A wrong person is a broke, poverty stricken man.
A wrong person is a woman beater
A wrong person is a man who’s a rapist and murderer.
A wrong person is a man who have just 1 job he’s doing.
A wrong person is a man who is stingy!
Hmmm....
Ok.
Now please describe the wrong woman.
Jennyclay:
Biko, do that yourself undecided.

I just described a wrong man according to my own definition.
There's a reason I asked you this question.
Your moniker is well known on this forum.
You seem to detest financially-challenged brothers.
Your appraisal of a man mostly appears to begin and end with how much money he has and how frivolously he can spend it on you.
What would you bring to the table?
Your 'beauty'?, sex, child-bearing ability?
Please...
A rich man has his pick of so many women who can fulfill all those...
So, please, why should a financially well-to-do man have anything to do with a woman who wasn't there when he was building his wealth?
Why should he allow such a woman indiscriminate access to his sweat?
Isn't she just a gold digger, coming to leech of his money?
Think about it, you have a very rich brother or a male relative who's single and looking for a woman to have a relationship with. You have described the wrong man. How will you advice such person on identifying the wrong woman?

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by wittywriter: 12:04pm On Oct 15, 2023
Getting the right person requires nothing but self-discovery .

@greencard get a befitting infographics attached to your thread so we can campaign it unto FrontPage by a nairaland moderator for wider inputs.
Dangerousboy:
so we now lobby to enter fp in nairaland? Failed Nigeria system. Why not push a post to front page based on views and interactions
Next time read to comprehend rather than to just mention...no one is lobbying.



Wittyness

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Jennyclay(f): 12:08pm On Oct 15, 2023
maestro299:
Hmmm....
Ok.
Now please describe the wrong woman.
Biko, do that yourself undecided.

I just described a wrong man according to my own definition.

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by oluwaseyi0: 12:48pm On Oct 15, 2023
What's wrong for you is the definition of perfect for someone else


What looks wrong today may be perfect along the way while what look perfectly right today may turn to nightmares tomorrow

This life has no manual, just do you and don't bite more than you can chew

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Johnjanrt: 12:48pm On Oct 15, 2023
cool
To me the wrong person can in the following:
1. Non virgin
2. Non domestic person
3. Not prayerful
4. Not romantic
5. Not intelligent enough
6. Terribly wasteful.
7. Not loyal

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by IyaTola: 12:48pm On Oct 15, 2023
greencard:
People will say my fear of marriage is marrying the wrong person, so what is your definition of a wrong person?

What if you are the wrong person, How will you know ?
A gambler

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by McLizbae: 12:48pm On Oct 15, 2023
The person you are finding it hard to be happy with.

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by SultanOfPuna: 12:48pm On Oct 15, 2023
Jennyclay:
A wrong person is a broke, poverty stricken man.
A wrong person is a woman beater
A wrong person is a man who’s a rapist and murderer.
A wrong person is a man who have just 1 job he’s doing.
A wrong person is a man who is stingy! Nonsense bunch of stingy ko ko men!! Shoir!!
A wrong person is a man who still stay under his parent’s roof.
A wrong person is a man who have a car.
A wrong person is a man who’s not romantic
Wow... You just described your Father.

Is that why you turned out to be a failure??

Because your dad couldn't show u love cry

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by phemmyfour: 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
greencard:
People will say my fear of marriage is marrying the wrong person, so what is your definition of a wrong person?

What if you are the wrong person, How will you know ?
Wrong person is the person that didn't agree with you on all issues

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by AllDModsAreMaad: 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
There is this lady I have been planning to marry early next year.

Something happened recently that made me suspend every financial assistance towards her.

The relationship don dey shake like this.


If not for Nigerian society, this marriage of a thing sef.

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Chigozie321: 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
Jennyclay:
A wrong person is a broke, poverty stricken man.
A wrong person is a woman beater
A wrong person is a man who’s a rapist and murderer.
A wrong person is a man who have just 1 job he’s doing.
A wrong person is a man who is stingy! Nonsense bunch of stingy ko ko men!! Shoir!!
A wrong person is a man who still stay under his parent’s roof.
A wrong person is a man who have a car.
A wrong person is a man who’s not romantic
Wetin man do you?

Wahala dey ooo

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Wealthoptulent(m): 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
greencard:
People will say my fear of marriage is marrying the wrong person, so what is your definition of a wrong person?

What if you are the wrong person, How will you know ?
Wrong Recognizes WRONG
Nothing like WRONG PERSON in marriage but when you MARRY for WRONG REASONS 🤏
I Was A VICTIM, xo know ur point to engage me.

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by robinfemi: 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
Marrying Wrong person is when you marry someone who doesn't understand you.


Holy holy no fit marry tout cheesy

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by hotspec(m): 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
A Wrong person is the one who will not give the partner a lasting peace of mind and joy.

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by socialmediaman: 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
The wrong partner is someone whose values don't align with yours, you both are not on the same page, and there's something about them that's a deal breaker for you. Examples:

Values don't align: You're religious, it's important to you, your partner is atheist, and it's also important to them.

You both are not on the same page: Your values may align but one of you wants to settle down and have children, It's very important to them due to age, the other person feels young and wants to pursue a degree, and not ready to have children, it's also important to them

There's something about them that's a deal breaker for you: Your core values may align, and you both may be on the same page in life, but they can't have children, they don't have a job etc.

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Biola67: 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2023
Jennyclay:
Biko, do that yourself undecided.

I just described a wrong man according to my own definition.
This village girl and wahala.

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by josite: 12:51pm On Oct 15, 2023
a wrong person is the one that sees every man or woman desirable as a spouse other than you his or her actual spouse

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by cenaman(m): 12:51pm On Oct 15, 2023
Baby mamas
Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Rumundele(m): 12:51pm On Oct 15, 2023
Jennyclay:
A wrong person is a broke, poverty stricken man.
A wrong person is a woman beater
A wrong person is a man who’s a rapist and murderer.
A wrong person is a man who have just 1 job he’s doing.
A wrong person is a man who is stingy! Nonsense bunch of stingy ko ko men!! Shoir!!
A wrong person is a man who still stay under his parent’s roof.
A wrong person is a man who have a car.
A wrong person is a man who’s not romantic
That means you are wrong person

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by ILoveNG: 12:51pm On Oct 15, 2023
Now i see why many of you are single and won’t find anyone to love you

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Aybiochem: 12:52pm On Oct 15, 2023
If I'm the wrong person no harm no foul I'm satisfied
Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by oluwaseyi0: 12:53pm On Oct 15, 2023
phemmyfour:
Wrong person is the person that didn't agree with you on all issues

Agree with on ALL issues? shocked shocked shocked shocked

Seems you are the wrong person looking for a dummy even while you lead them to abbys all they have to do not to be wrong is blindly follow you to their death

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by King3urna(m): 12:53pm On Oct 15, 2023
Jennyclay:
A wrong person is a broke, poverty stricken man.
A wrong person is a woman beater
A wrong person is a man who’s a rapist and murderer.
A wrong person is a man who have just 1 job he’s doing.
A wrong person is a man who is stingy! Nonsense bunch of stingy ko ko men!! Shoir!!
A wrong person is a man who still stay under his parent’s roof.
A wrong person is a man who have a car.
A wrong person is a man who’s not romantic



So the only right man for you is the one with riches alone abi I no read well ni

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by phemmyfour: 12:53pm On Oct 15, 2023
oluwaseyi0:


Agree with
yes. Marriage is all about AGREEING on issues
Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Hndrrxxx(m): 12:53pm On Oct 15, 2023
Dd
Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by Spunick(m): 12:54pm On Oct 15, 2023
Unfaithfulness is the kind of sin I can never forgive

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Re: Marriage : Define A Wrong Person? by tete7000(m): 12:55pm On Oct 15, 2023
Jennyclay:
A wrong person is a broke, poverty stricken man.
A wrong person is a woman beater
A wrong person is a man who’s a rapist and murderer.
A wrong person is a man who have just 1 job he’s doing.
A wrong person is a man who is stingy! Nonsense bunch of stingy ko ko men!! Shoir!!
A wrong person is a man who still stay under his parent’s roof.
A wrong person is a man who have a car.
A wrong person is a man who’s not romantic

So any man who is non of the above is at least a right man for you? If your answer is yes, we thank God you at least have something you are looking for. I guess your paranoia is rooted in the past experience you had. That man with all the above qualities who did you did you wrong, God will judge him.

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