HI guys,ur bro here needs a little piece of advice....am in a dilemma of maself....have been in a relationship for about 3years and some months now..h=This relationship started all the way from school during our 3years programme in the college..While in school then,we both are very close and fond of ourselves,truly the love and intimacy was there and we both respect each other...Buh no how,frequently we do fights for about 3 to 4 days before we both settle the riffle through an elderly woman whom who both took as an advicer..We both have d plans of getting married to each other after our education processes..
after our 3years programme in school,the contact and everyday gist and talks ended,cos she lives in Lagos state with her parents while I stay with my parents here in ogun State....Our relationship was nt that hiden one in which way our parents knows everything going on btw us...To cut all the whole story,since we left school,there has always been a regular disagreement btw us cos of the distance I guess..after the fight we still talk out and settle the riffle not forgetting the plan we both av cos w [/color][color=#770077]e love each other..to be honest am a type of person who gets angry easily buh after my angriness I still look back and make her happy,buh for her she is always pissing me off with expensive jokes,and it has come to a stage now of me to loose my trust and hope of lasting with her...Though ,I love her buh her behaviours is annoying,she is really taking advantages of me in every way...and she never sees anytin bad in d bad she did at any time..pls am I still in the best track to continue the rel with her cos am confused nowww

Hmm op, back then when I was in school too I experienced this kinda thing... I'll like to tell you that since she's not that close to u again the feelings has reduced and you know women, as long as they see you all d time the affection and love grows but as soon as there's this distance brother I want to assure you the feeling wouldn't be the same has when ure together. My advise you you just preparing to hear the lamest excuse for you impending separation soon only if she's willing to make it work tho but if she doesn't seem interested anymore, I guess u know d meaning... All the best tho

Only ur English go make her "angriness " increase..

If she ain't giving you joy, it's time to get the fuc.k out.

OP, you need a new English tutor. You just punished me unjustly by making me read that. No offense.

You love her? Then It's best you endure & try to make her retrace her ways.

On the other hand, if you are not happy & your heart is not really in the relationship, You don't have to waste your time any further, Quit!.

Op let me be very frank, most of the school relationship don't get to the extent of being married, my former girlfriend while i was still in school has since married with two issues while I'm yet to marry, you better start planning ahead about your future.

Note: your wife to be may still be in secondary school. If I may ask; did you have money to maintain her till you get a job? Such as pocket money, to make hair, buy brazilian hair, goat hair, Sanbisa hair, Niger-Delta militant hair and above all three square meal plate of Amala/Ewedu and tick Kpomo (Ishon)? You better park well o because by now her parents would have stop financing her now that she's out of school. I don't want to hear that you stole a goat because you need money to maintain her o. Lol.

u were sent to school... to study ... U went there to cohabit ... wen u are not ready ....... Now u are looking for advice ..... as If Am ur Staff adviser

LOVE LOVE LOVE, This sh!t is fvckin overhype... #nooffence

OKUCHI11:
u were sent to school... to study ... U went there to cohabit ... wen u are not ready ....... Now u are looking for advise ..... as If Am ur Staff advise.....

staff advise? Apparently you also didn't attend school. Though there were some clangers in his post, you could have done better by actually advising him. NOTE: Advice: noun, advise: verb. You seriously need lessons.

All of you children that will live like married couples while in school, when ur eyes open to notice other pple does exist after school; you begin to give urself reasons to separate.
Biko end the relationship if u guys are tired of each other.
Ogini self?

oyehdiran:
staff advise? Apparently you also didn't attend school. Though there were some clangers in his post, you could have done better by actually advising him. NOTE: Advice: noun, advise: verb. You seriously need lessons.

sorry Staff adviser

@Op... I see 2 things here

you neither don't have a sense of humour and thus can't tolerate a bad habit... like expensive jokes

or

you just don't love her the way you did and you're looking for some excuse to break up the relationship


whichever would be the case, I think you should forget marriage and deal with the issue... or move the fvck on

#My2Cents

Lordprez:
@Op... I see 2 things here

you neither don't have a sense of humour and thus can't tolerate a bad habit... like expensive jokes

or

you just don't love her the way you did and you're looking for some excuse to break up the relationship


whichever would be the case, I think you should forget marriage and deal with the issue... or move the fvck on

#My2Cents

Ur point is so on fleek

N*ggas b forcing love nd looking for ways to get out like d girl forced them smh! wana eat their cakes nd av it i laugh nt every one is kim k

I no even read am.

Michizzy:
I no even read am.

U for no comment then...

pweshboi:

U for no comment then...

I just wanted to write.

Op, since you guys have been fighting and an elderly lady usually settles the dispute, if you happen to marry such lady, my best guess is your disputes later on will be settled either by an Ifa priest, Ayelala priest, Sango priest or Amadiohia priest. Kidding bro.

Seriously bro, you don't have to force yourself into something you know is not right. What's your's will definitely be your's when the appointed time comes. Peace bro.

what I'm I suppose to type self?I don tire abeg

sickstars:


Ur point is so on fleek

N*ggas b forcing love nd looking for ways to get out like d girl forced them smh! wana eat their cakes nd av it i laugh nt every one is kim k

ah tell you... the OP seems frustrated

or maybe is just dealing with some of them chicks that turns out to be annoying after a while

what I don't get, is why he is complaining instead of packing up his stuff and leaving... its not like he is being forced

Lordprez:

ah tell you... the OP seems frustrated

or maybe is just dealing with some of them chicks that turns out to be annoying after a while

what I don't get, is why he is complaining instead of packing up his stuff and leaving... its not like he is being forced

Nah no chick changes without d guy avin a hand in it

if op wana leave he shd heart breaks doesnt last for long jare

Team supporting d girls she will move on find better guys

sickstars:


Nah no chick changes without d guy avin a hand in it

if op wana leave he shd heart breaks doesnt last for long jare

Team supporting d girls she will move on find better guys

Everybody changes... not just chicks and definitely not because some guy had a hand in it

buh then I concur the OP should leave, if he complains now that he is yet to marry then I can't(don't) wanna imagine what sh!t we'd see after their marriage

Don't get why you're supporting the girl... its not like the OP did anything wrong so far.... Buh I guess its now a gender thing, so carry on

I'm not a grammar nazi but emmm......