EARLY MARRIAGE IN ISLAM. Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem. Zina (Fornication) is now the most common act in our Muslim communities today subhaaAllah. This major sin which distances us away from the blessings of Allah is now been taken as a fun game Astaghfirullah!. The only solution to this is Fear of Allah and Marriage. Marriage can be defined as a mutual relationship ordained by Allah for the believers as an act of ibadah between two people who love, trust, care, understand and respect each other for the sake of Allah so as to attain Jannah, procreate children, fulfill their sexual desires, unite and enjoy companionship. The Prophet (SAW) said, there is nothing better for two people who love each other than marriage (Jamii tirmidhi). The importance of marriage can be traced back to the early days of Adam alayhisalam... When Allah created him, the first thing Allah gave him is knowledge, and the second thing Allah gave him is marriage. Subhan'Allah!. This shows the significance of Nikkah. Adam alahyi salaam felt lonely, Allaah didn't give him a TV to watch, he didn't give him PS3, or blackberry, or a car or laptop, but Allah gave him our mother in marriage. How can we now hesitate to marry today? Brothers and sisters in Islaam, why are you still single? Are you not tired of having wet dreams? Are you not tired of staring at the opposite gender? Are you not tired of attending other people's marriage while you refuse or delay to marry? Money is never an excuse, some companions were almost penniless as at the time they married but became wealthy after marriage. May Allah aid us in our efforts to marry for Allah sake and may Allah protect our marriages. Aameen!!!

Nice post..... I am a proponent of early marriage as it goes a long way to improving our society at large. I am still a student but would like to get married before i graduate and i know Allah is my helper and would make it easy for me









You dont need to have money like dangote before completing half of your deen....

captaing59:
Nice post..... I am a proponent of early marriage as it goes a long way to improving our society at large. I am still a student but would like to get married before i graduate and i know Allah is my helper and would make it easy for me









You dont need to have money like dangote before completing half of your deen....

nice one bro may God help u

captaing59:
Nice post..... I am a proponent of early marriage as it goes a long way to improving our society at large. I am still a student but would like to get married before i graduate and i know Allah is my helper and would make it easy for me









You dont need to have money like dangote before completing half of your deen....

That's good of u brother bt start preparing for it and have small income. I mean start something that will help a little financially may Allah mk it easy

It's Allah's will

Dnt marry if u dnt have any money

Also marriage does not mean instant procreation. So money cannot be an excuse at all.

nice piece!

May ALLAH subhannaLLAH watahala ease our affairs. JazakumLLAH khyran to the poster. Early marriage with love because of ALLAH is the only solution to the problem we have in this country.

Jazakallah!
But the post didn't do justice to the title. I was hoping you dwell more on the word EARLY as the main issue. Nevertheless, it's a good and timely remainder.
Gracias OP.

My GF no go gree this one, bt we still dey Popo sha..May God Forgive us..

Nice

Nice write up

Nicely written

Early marriage is better than early fornication.
- Late Jaafar Adam

This is the religious problem in Nigeria.

Both the Quran and Bible have verses telling us to use wisdom in making choices. However, we in Nigeria just readily accept a conservative version of religion and continue without analyzing our choices.

Marriage is not a simple thing. There are many variables that have to be analyzed before settling down.

Here are the things one must think of with early marriage-

1) Marrying early has many benefits such as being able to have children at an early age when the body is still active and also, seeing your children becoming adults before one is very old.

2) Marrying early does not solve fornication or adultery. If one rushes into marriage, he or she might find himself or herself longing for divorce to meet a more suitable partner.

3) Maturity and responsibility are needed for any marriage to survive. Many young people do not have these two traits. A young wife or husband miight not be mature enough to handle marital responsibilities.

4) Patience is also a virtue in islam, isn't it? If one doesn't find a suitable partner, is he or she meant to rush? Do you know how hard it is to find a suitable partner in some societies? Ask any muslim woman or man living in certain parts of the west or secular cities, there are not many faithful muslims to enter relationships with. Sometimes, we have to wait/work for good things to come.

5) Pedophilia has to be mentioned here. How early is "too early"? This is because, it is common now both in the north for some people to look for brides as young as 14. Say "NO" to such practices. Say "NO" to VVF.

Marrying early is great but we must consider the variables, especially the kind of partner we want before we enter into it.


Salaam.

No I see reason why I should stope negating a sister that is geting married 2mao.



Meanwhile, I'm also getting married once the Miss right is available.



Early Marriage is better than Early Fornication and Early Adultery.

ALLAHU AKBAR..
May Almighty Allah bless my union

Those era of just getting married without clear resources is gone.

You SHOULD not get married without money.

Stability is neccesary this days O! All those era when you marry at youthful age is gone, then you would be given a house to stay, a business to flourish. Not today o! People only help you for wedding or naming ceremony. Everyother thing O.Y.O

I don't like the word early marriage, ppl should have the liberty to marry whenever they chose. Am a muslim, but I don't support the idea where immature gals are given out in marriage and later end up with Visico Vaginal fistula, bcoz their body isn't ready for the rigours of motherhood

Jazak Allahu Khairan

Jazakumlahkhairan.. May Allah reward for you.

This issue of early marriage in Islam iS not something trivial. We as men want to marry a focussed, classy and God fearing lady so as not to get tired of marriage. We want to be in courtship for long in other to understand each other better and reduce broken homes.

I believe the country's economy is also not helping this quest of early marriage. Though Allah(swt) has His plans for us, but it takes FAITH to make this huge step. No one wants to go into something they are not fully prepared for. It's not all about money, it's about being ready emotionally, it's a about being disciplined, it's about finding the right partner. We should think twice about this early marriage of an issue. May Allah grant us out heart desires

God pick up, I need to marry next year

tnx very much bro, may almighty reward ur effort. Though it is very good to marry early, but engaging in activity that can bring money before marriage is good. though i have seen brother that got married immediately after nysc without formal employement but by helping someone managing phone store. but after a year later, God bless him with good job. SO IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HAVE CERTAIN SOURCE OF INCOME even if it is small.
A guy from saudi arabia, us, morocco etc. can marry without a penny because GOD has made thier ENVIRONMENT to sustain marriage, but lagos is different. SO a muslim must be PRAYERFUL and HARDWORKER so as not to eat from what is harram.

Nice post OP, i'm stil a student myself, married wit a kid @400l. Alhamdulillah, wit Allah all tins are possible. D semeste i gav birth was challenging but had no carryova even 4rm my 1st year. My other mates dat are nt married had carryova(s) (not teasn dem but feeln grateful,hardwk determination and supportive hubby) . It's a mindset u knw if u have it mind right frm d start u will fail doing so and so,then u will no doubt. One other thing I noticed is that some students though not married would suddenly appear with pregnancy,don't ask me how come,it doesnt matter if they are muslims or Xtians,am sure they wish they are married also. So i urge my fellow sisters nt to tink dat if u marry early it wl cause a barrier in ur career, dats absolutely nt true. Idina siratal mustaqeem

ilyas26:
I don't like the word early marriage, ppl should have the liberty to marry whenever they chose. Am a muslim, but I don't support the idea where immature gals are given out in marriage and later end up with Visico Vaginal fistula, bcoz their body isn't ready for the rigours of motherhood

Been a Muslim automatically gives u edge to understand things before commenting so you don't hurt other people. The topic was very clear? 'EARLY MARRIAGE' Not 'MARRY LITTLE GIRL' understand topics before commenting so u don't type rubbish. Salaam

Nice piece, early marriage does not call for child bearing, try as much as possible to be financially responsible at least have a means of livelihood b4 getting married, exclusively for the guys, Salam alaikum.

May Allah reward you.

Jazakallahu kairan....

Tnx op for this topic, the problem's are:

1. finding the riqht partner to marry this days is an herculan task. Even if u the guy is ready to settle down and date only 1gal u wil be scarf of sincerity and trust 4rm her. Ofcus is nt nly the guy dat xperience it even the galz also. Xo it wil be more profitin to take ur time well b4 u court the pesin u wana marry to avoid regret later in life.

2.anoda problem is financial income u may want to get married this year or the next but due to the ecönomic condition of the country and the serious lack of job in the country that miqht hinder u 4rm marrying..

3. Anoda point is maturity , patience, and experience this three are very important to enter into any relationship to avoid any future problems with ur partner.

#Juma'at mubarak

If you have a wife or husband at home and shaytan ask you to commit adultery or fornication. If you yield to it then U have offended Allah. Even the bible states this.

Any affairs outside ur marriage is sinful. So do not say marriage doesnt mean no fornication. When you are married YOU MUST NOT FORNICATE!!!!