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Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? - Family (3) - Nairaland

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by nannyo(f): 6:09pm On Jan 20, 2016
if ur late husband was a wicked man, make sure u have a very very very BIG wedding at least to thank God for ur deliverance.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 6:20pm On Jan 20, 2016
johnjimiflex:
you need to start being a musician so you can make your own tunez... who cares if they wanna tag me proud? So my dead spouse's relatives should come and start dictating how they want me to live my life? mtchew..... And since when did having a loud wedding start being proud
lol,I'm a musician o,at least I play the keyboard and drumset.....on a more serious note you are somehow right.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 6:24pm On Jan 20, 2016
johnjimiflex:
And even if they don't..... What if I want a loud wedding?
hmmmmm
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 6:26pm On Jan 20, 2016
Olasco93:
I have catch you OP...
It seems OP got a share from Samb* Dazu** EFCC come and see one of them here planning to spending our Kudi/Ego/Owo.

Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 9:20pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
50 ginni,na porn movie?
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Simplymeah: 10:05pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
..of what relevance is dis 2 d question?

Personally,i feel it's not a good idea! Formalise/legalise d union but avoid anything elaborate. Even u wudn't want dat kind of noise anymore,especially if d first one was very elaborate...
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by andyanders: 10:34pm On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
Is it advisable to have another elaborate wedding after losing a partner of a year marriage to death?considering how your former inlaws and those who are close to you would feel about it.
Just a year and you want to get married? Mehn, just give her 2 yrs. With the rush, they will think both of you planned to kill the lady.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Diamonddamsel: 11:20pm On Jan 20, 2016
The awnser to your question is to ask yourself if you would be OK with it if it happened the other way round.Its been just a year .I don't know for how many years you were married before she died.Its insensitive to your former in laws they lost a daughter and after a year the pain is still there.If you truly had a bond with your late wife and respect her person and memories shared together a small classy wedding should do just fine.One year is to short a time to be doing an elaborate occasion. Your new wife oughts to understand.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jan 20, 2016
Seriously, its not their concern and its ultimately the newlyweds business only. However..... whats the point in wasting money like that twice embarassed
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 12:54am On Jan 21, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
I wrote the topic for someone and I guess he's viewing this thread and there's no kid yet,it's a year marriage,some couples don't rush into giving birth immediately after their marriage
he should have a quiet wedding, no need alerting all the witches and wizard that you are marrying again. That's just a joke ,but I really think he should have a quiet wedding in this instance. The fiancee will understand. Provide all the materials required for the trad, take your wide to registry and say I do.the family is aware he just lost a wife barely a year, if it's their daughter, they will want the same respect too.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by tpiar: 1:38am On Jan 21, 2016
What about when he or she needs to do more marriages later?
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 9:49am On Jan 21, 2016
andyanders:
Just a year and you want to get married? Mehn, just give her 2 yrs. With the rush, they will think both of you planned to kill the lady.
as in their marriage was just a year before the wife's death,the wife died like 3years ago
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 9:53am On Jan 21, 2016
tochimas:
he should have a quiet wedding, no need alerting all the witches and wizard that you are marrying again. That's just a joke ,but I really think he should have a quiet wedding in this instance. The fiancee will understand. Provide all the materials required for the trad, take your wide to registry and say I do.the family is aware he just lost a wife barely a year, if it's their daughter, they will want the same respect too.
cool
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by bensonAkw: 12:07pm On Jan 22, 2016
i was in tears while reading the topic and comments,7 months ago i lost my wife of 5years in marriage living behind 2 lovely sons who are age 4 and 2 respectively,she was a pillar to me while i was an undergraduate at uniben,the cause of her death is still a mystery, i ve been praying for God to see me thru,my 2 boys keep asking me 'Daddy when is mummy coming back from the market, cos the day this unfortuate incident happened, she called that she will pick up some provisions from the market while she drop the senior boy at school,before she left she complain that she was not too ok,i insisted she shd rest and she our Doc b4 leaving for the market 'dont worry dear am fine;she came back frm market while i was at work, she when to the clinic herself,she was diagnoze treated she ate very well,i closed frm work having picking up the kids frm schl,we were all 2gether at the clinic till 8pm when she requested that i shd send for her sister which i did,she told her sister that to take the kids to her place that let me remain,i stayed till 12am when nurses ask me to leave,while leaving she said 'take care of the children,then i said am i not doing well enough?she replied i know you can but i want to be sure,i told her the kids are fine and not to bother,not knowing i was seeing her alive for the last time,barely 30mins while at home trying to catch some sleep,the Doc drove to my place,which i find unusual,he was trying to be over friendly,i kept calm when back to the clinic,at the entrance my senior colleagues came to me and said God will take control,i went to her bed on looking at her closely she look as if she was sleeping,then i told them she will be ok everybody shld go and sleep,not until the Doc said ur wife is no more,at that moment i went blank,12hrs later having regaining consciousness,my mum,brothers were sitting by my bedside in a different hospital entirely praying,then i knew my wife is no more,its a terrible experience no one will understand except someone who have had similar predicament.the idea another woman is out of the question,how will i explain to my kids that am having another woman in there Daddys house.HOW?
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by thelish(f): 1:14pm On Jan 22, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
Is it advisable to have another elaborate wedding after losing a partner of a year marriage to death?considering how your former inlaws and those who are close to you would feel about it.
But u dey hurry ooo
Were u dating her while ur spouse was alive? Just after a year, u r ready to settle down? Even thinking of elaborate wedding? If na woman now, na now her mourning start.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by thelish(f): 1:22pm On Jan 22, 2016
bensonAkw:
i was in tears while reading the topic and comments,7 months ago i lost my wife of 5years in marriage living behind 2 lovely sons who are age 4 and 2 respectively,she was a pillar to me while i was an undergraduate at uniben,the cause of her death is still a mystery, i ve been praying for God to see me thru,my 2 boys keep asking me 'Daddy when is mummy coming back from the market, cos the day this unfortuate incident happened, she called that she will pick up some provisions from the market while she drop the senior boy at school,before she left she complain that she was not too ok,i insisted she shd rest and she our Doc b4 leaving for the market 'dont worry dear am fine;she came back frm market while i was at work, she when to the clinic herself,she was diagnoze treated she ate very well,i closed frm work having picking up the kids frm schl,we were all 2gether at the clinic till 8pm when she requested that i shd send for her sister which i did,she told her sister that to take the kids to her place that let me remain,i stayed till 12am when nurses ask me to leave,while leaving she said 'take care of the children,then i said am i not doing well enough?she replied i know you can but i want to be sure,i told her the kids are fine and not to bother,not knowing i was seeing her alive for the last time,barely 30mins while at home trying to catch some sleep,the Doc drove to my place,which i find unusual,he was trying to be over friendly,i kept calm when back to the clinic,at the entrance my senior colleagues came to me and said God will take control,i went to her bed on looking at her closely she look as if she was sleeping,then i told them she will be ok everybody shld go and sleep,not until the Doc said ur wife is no more,at that moment i went blank,12hrs later having regaining consciousness,my mum,brothers were sitting by my bedside in a different hospital entirely praying,then i knew my wife is no more,its a terrible experience no one will understand except someone who have had similar predicament.the idea another woman is out of the question,how will i explain to my kids that am having another woman in there Daddys house.HOW?
This is so touching, pls take heart n be strong for d kids. It is well.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(op): 1:27pm On Jan 22, 2016
bensonAkw:
i was in tears while reading the topic and comments,7 months ago i lost my wife of 5years in marriage living behind 2 lovely sons who are age 4 and 2 respectively,she was a pillar to me while i was an undergraduate at uniben,the cause of her death is still a mystery, i ve been praying for God to see me thru,my 2 boys keep asking me 'Daddy when is mummy coming back from the market, cos the day this unfortuate incident happened, she called that she will pick up some provisions from the market while she drop the senior boy at school,before she left she complain that she was not too ok,i insisted she shd rest and she our Doc b4 leaving for the market 'dont worry dear am fine;she came back frm market while i was at work, she when to the clinic herself,she was diagnoze treated she ate very well,i closed frm work having picking up the kids frm schl,we were all 2gether at the clinic till 8pm when she requested that i shd send for her sister which i did,she told her sister that to take the kids to her place that let me remain,i stayed till 12am when nurses ask me to leave,while leaving she said 'take care of the children,then i said am i not doing well enough?she replied i know you can but i want to be sure,i told her the kids are fine and not to bother,not knowing i was seeing her alive for the last time,barely 30mins while at home trying to catch some sleep,the Doc drove to my place,which i find unusual,he was trying to be over friendly,i kept calm when back to the clinic,at the entrance my senior colleagues came to me and said God will take control,i went to her bed on looking at her closely she look as if she was sleeping,then i told them she will be ok everybody shld go and sleep,not until the Doc said ur wife is no more,at that moment i went blank,12hrs later having regaining consciousness,my mum,brothers were sitting by my bedside in a different hospital entirely praying,then i knew my wife is no more,its a terrible experience no one will understand except someone who have had similar predicament.the idea another woman is out of the question,how will i explain to my kids that am having another woman in there Daddys house.HOW?
God will surely take care of your kids for you,but the topic is mostly directed to those who their husband/wife died within a year into marriage,you know that's a hard one,considering there's no child yet,especially the husband,no wife,no children,he'll have to move on.The wife might be pregnant and decide to remain single after giving birth to after her child.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Blissquare(f): 12:31pm On Apr 21, 2017
selfish fools. what is wrong is wrong. if one loses a spouse, u shd not hav an elaborate wedding after. a new spouse tht caant understand that is not A real partner.
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