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MzPecs:
According to the OP's story, the lady is actually giving him an impression that she's still virgin.

So if she has truly decided not have sex again until marriage, why don't she just tell him of her past sex adventure and stop pretending!

Oliviaarims:
A girl isn't obliged to continue having sex just because her hymen has been broken.

The events that led to her pregnancy and subsequent abortion with ur friend may have been a mistake.. An experience she probably regrets and never wants to repeat. If u love her, then stay with her, with or without the sex. But if u can't, then pls, let her go.

amokeme:
from all your comments, seems you just want to have sex with her yeah?? Like it's some kinda right... I don't know why guys are complicated and they ll say we ladies are. This is a very simple thing, it's her body and her decision( which by the way she has everything right to it) and if you are not ok with her decision, c'mon, there are ALOT of girls you can have sex with, so what is the big deal or why exactly is the reason for this thread?


And oh, you could tell her since its a no sex relationship, it's also gonna be a no money/gift giving relationship. Cause that seems to be the only weapon yiu guys have against women that says no to sex before marriage

Oliviaarims:
Lol... Y'all should learn to get over that feeling, then. Coz that's how some girls end up sleeping around recklessly and increasing their body count all in the name of.. "Afterall, I'm no longer a virgin"

firstking01:
it's neva easy to get over such feelings, esp if you dearly love her,,,btw, i guess that's supposedly u @ur dp?

ayokellany:
Girls have guts, pls how do you explaining dating guy A deny him sex only to date guy B give away your virginity, come back to guy A n still have the effrontery to demand a no sex relationship knowing fully that he's aware you surrendered your virginity to another man ?

Did you ever consider the guy will feel belittled ? That she loves someone more that him n that could be reason why she sacrificed her virginity to the other guy n not him ?

chigoizie7:
Excuse me sister oh. I am with with on if "i" love her, I should let her be.


But she also claims she loves me too, and if she claims to love me, why not allow me to do d do? Afterall she loves me.




Na question I ask oh

Oliviaarims:
A girl isn't obliged to continue having sex just because her hymen has been broken.

The events that led to her pregnancy and subsequent abortion with ur friend may have been a mistake.. An experience she probably regrets and never wants to repeat. If u love her, then stay with her, with or without the sex. But if u can't, then pls, let her go.

Oliviaarims:
Hahahahahahahahahah... Why do I deserve a cookie, then?

Obioraaa:
[color=#990100] the cow above me tho..




Look man, you're trying to take advantage in a way and I don't think it's good.. She has climbed on your friend's weener, aborted a football team head count.... Doesn't matter, if you want to find out if she can give birth, go for a fertility test... Sex isn't the most important..[/color]

kaboninc:
When you see them, ye shall know yee

When ye shall taste that which is forbidden, then shall ye know why thou is warned never to have tasted in in thy first place

Obioraaa:
[color=#990100] Master! Why doeth thou speaketh in the old tongues of thy fathers?[/color]

kaboninc:
Because thou needed to caution thee of the things thy says.

Thou shalt not speaketh of what thou knoweth not until thou tasted it.

Then shall thou be guided on that which comes out of thy mouth.

amokeme:
now that is the problem!
What if he isn't spending money on her, or what if she never demands money and stood her grounds on no sex? What else will be your defense?

Oliviaarims:
Lol.. Do which do? Ehn? Is that how she'll continue to live her life? So, if u guys break up and she starts dating someone else, she'll strt sleeping with that one again... On and on like that. If she's old enough and u're old enough.. then get married. Otherwise, stay away from sex.

Qualer:
cos you so damn fwine, dazzol!!!!!

Oliviaarims:
If u dearly love her, u'll be OK with a "no-sex" relationship... And yea, that's me.

eightsin:
fvck d shii outtta her... but the question is.. how many u fit do inside?

Oliviaarims:
Falconey stated she was quite young then.. She must have made stu.pid decisions... And she doesn't want to go there again... It doesn't mean that she doesn't love guy A anymore.

Richardonald:
just take a look at ur write up, he wil not spend money on their tradit and wedding day feed children after birth and other necessary things as a man or is it the lady that wil do all this stuffs, so wht do u mean

ayokellany:
Silly decision yeah but the dude does not have to pay for her mistakes, in fact the guy stayed with her years back without sex, that alone is enough reason she as no moral justification to demand a no sex till marriage relationship from this particular guy. She can only demand that from does that never had the expectation to cherish that moment on their wedding night.

ayokellany:
Silly decision yeah but the dude does not have to pay for her mistakes, in fact the guy stayed with her years back without sex, that alone is enough reason she as no moral justification to demand a no sex till marriage relationship from this particular guy. She can only demand that from does that never had the expectation to cherish that moment on their wedding night.

scfg:
Your friend could be lying.... I don't trust him.
Why not confront your girl?

healthyarena:
Have you asked her why she never wants to have the sex talk? You should discuss your fears with her and ask her if she has aborted before! If you stay in the relationship without knowing the things you should know, those things will keep haunting you!

PS: That guy may or may not be right! she's In the best position to tell you what went down!

amokeme:
my comment is limited to the "boyfriend /girlfriend zone

amokeme:
my comment is limited to the "boyfriend /girlfriend zone