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I agree. Her story seems shady. As if she was telling it to seem victimised. Lots of unanswered question like why she slept with her boss without protection and why she never deemed it fit not to tell me all these.

angieberry:
Hmm... something not adding up here
Why did your girlfriend not tell you about her boss and his evil Intentions? I thought there was supposed to be honesty and transparency in a relationship. Are you sure she was not secretly going out with him but then started feeling guilty about it hence she confessed about her affair but lied about It? You should questions her more.
Has she even told her boss about It? What does she want from You? You all have a lot of discussing to do.
The first thing she should do is to tell her boss she's carrying his baby. It's more of their own problem, not yours. You're only the boyfriend.
You're not bound to her in anyway and the most you could do for her is just to show her support during this period. It's obvious you don't want to shoulder this burden she's brought upon herself, and you're not obliged to. Just support her till she passes through this phase and is able to stand on her own.

This is so irrational!

Has she stopped working there? Will she continue to work there?

OP, please jejely leave the lady and move on to the next thing.

But then kindly answer these questions?

1. Are you sure she loves you?

2. Can you "FATHER" a Bastard?

If the answers are in the affirmative still dump her.

My dad died when I was 5 yrs and I've got 2 siblings and we didn't have a sister supporting us and we survived.

NLDERS let's call a spade a spade!

Goodluck with the next one OP!

Oliviaarims:
Lalasticlala..

He needs ur advice,not calling Lalasticala for him,and why do girls really cheat on good guys?

HIGHESTPOPORI:
He needs ur advice,not calling Lalasticala for him,and why do girls really cheat on good guys?

Lalasticlala would be instrumental to seeing that he gets a lot of good advice...

As to why girls cheat on good guys, I wouldn't know... It beats me, too. Perhaps they feel all too comfy and assume he'd always take her back no matter what.

Guy go take a HIV test first abeg. Your girl went to have raw sex with her boss and during her unsafe period. You dey here dey proclaim love. All the while you have been fucking her, why she never dey preggie. Lemme tell you, her boss knew of that pregnancy before you sef and has denied it thats why she came confessing to you before you even knew she was pregnant. A woman hasnt seen her period for two months and she is just discovering she is pregnant. OP stop being deceived, that girl is still lying to you.

Oliviaarims:
Lalasticlala would be instrumental to seeing that he gets a lot of good advice...

As to why girls cheat on good guys, I wouldn't know... It beats me, too. Perhaps they feel all too comfy and assume he'd always take her back no matter what.

So how do we get faithful girls like You?

HIGHESTPOPORI:
So how do we get faithful girls like You?

Ohhh, I don't know. It's not written on the forehead.. And good girls go bad.. I don't know if saying it's all luck would be right, but that's just what it seems to be.

Congrats

All i wana say is if she is gona resign, let her hook me up with d job....i will just visit voodoo man to fix me thurnder bot bfor i resume to work

in another news, guy follow yur conscience if u still have one

I wonder what happened to Jeloma

Hope you've resolved everything

And more importantly, hope you're good.

hw much was d pay dat the op couldnt afford to support her financially?

she has lost both ways coz her boss could b a married man and will deny d pregnancy and eventually sack her.

she would av insisted on using condom rather than aving sex unprotected. it could av bin AIDS.

support her in d best way u can financially but dnt be a party to abortion. love is neva enough

as bitter as it sounds u sincerely nid to move on and stop being sentimental or pitiful.

she has no excuse.there are girls that have gone tru worst scenarios and stil held on to their pride.

if u av God,u have everything.
man cannot define your destiny,only God can

Hmmm, i just dunna what to say

Hmmm, i just dunna what to say ....

jmichlins:
This is the time she needs you to prove your love for her. Even if you will not marry her cause of the incident, just be there for her in this trying time though I know it will be difficult. All I see is a girl who loves you but events of life pushed her to where she doesn't want to be. A widowed mum and younger sibling coupled with Nigerian terrain are enough to make one a prostitute but she choose the right path but life will always come with it's trouble. If she had not told you the truth or even lured you to bed to confuse you, you will never know or suspect her. Forgive her and be with her is all I can say

what are you saying self? why ddn't she prove her love for him when she was faced with either sleeping with the boss and keep her job or walk away n keep her dignity and love for her bf.....abeg OP pls stand by her but move on cus she does not deserve you one bit and for sleeping with the boss just once i bet you that's a big fat terrible lie cus no girl will tell you they cheated n you more than once, just be smart.