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Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by ideyhere(f): 10:40pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
phemmie06:Nigerians and hypocrisy...Mtcheew |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by GANJAFARMER: 10:40pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Sleekyshuga:Hehe How the man wan take return her nau ? This is for better for worse . 1 Like |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by onunwa21(m): 10:40pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Wot God has joined 2geda, let no man put asunder. |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by onunwa21(m): 10:41pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Wot God has joined 2geda, let no man put asunder. The woman is a gud xtain.. 1 Like |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by HANSEEL(m): 10:51pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Look Basirat, men are Rat. |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:52pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
GANJAFARMER:He should learn to respect her or grant her request ..The request still dey make me laugh, as I have never heard of that before... The women folks are learning .. |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by pajesu1(m): 11:04pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
orobs93:we don't know who is lying among of them only God knows, may God forgive them...... So guys watch before you enter same to you ladies |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by seaga: 11:06pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
cao: A lady that plays God of War , cool.! |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Na who we go believe now...mara don get k leg |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by dastudent(m): 11:15pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
So it's the fault of the man that you actually realxed and allowed yourself to balloon up abi? All the women who have stayed in shape for health purposes after giving birth to 3 children are also stupid abi? lol! 1 Like |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by meccuno: 11:23pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
dre11:gbese re oh! |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by IamAthens(m): 11:30pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Some men are just shameless and heartless as well. For goodness sakes if you want to flirt, don't get married cos your level of maturity isn't matured enough. Same goes to theladys too. Marriage is a union that should breed peace, mutual respect, love and happiness, but if you're not ready to PRAY and make serious sacrifices for such to happen, na God I take beg you, no go marry cos na d children dey suffer pass. 2 Likes |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by sexylogan(m): 11:32pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by humilitynike: 11:34pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
D man should take her to gym den. |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Houseofglam7(f): 11:35pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Godsonkemz(m): 12:06am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Bringing two captains in a ship what else does he expect except confusion. When he married the second wife, didn't he know that he who fetched an ant infested firewood is just calling for a meeting of lizards. |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by iykedare(m): 12:07am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Sleekyshuga: Brainless bimbo, do you know the meaning of Caucasian " ? |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Excuzeme: 12:14am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Too many silly "kids" on Nairaland! I was expecting people will focus on the "legality" of her request... instead of all these "she is brave" nonsense? What is "brave" in that "self-defeating" statement she has made? If she has a Lawyer (someone who is trained on what the law allows), do you think he will allow her make such foolish statement in front of a Judge...... or is that place a 'street fight' corner where we score cheap points meant for the public gallery? - Are we even aware that the LAW does not support "forced marriage"? That is, you cant keep a person (male or female) in marriage, against their wish? - Are people aware that in marriage, both spouses benefit from each other (I am sure the man is also not in the shape she met him, when they got married! maybe she should first try to put the man back in shape) and as such, none of the two can "reverse nature" moreso, none of the two can "prove definitively" that it was the other spouse that cause them to become as they are afterall, unmarried people dont remain how they were, as years go-by. Ageing is a normal and natural process not dependent on any spouse or person - Are we even aware that "not accepting to a divorce" as she has done, does not in anyway prevent the divorce from being granted by the court? Ofcourse, these Judges at times want to see if they can take the "easy option" (both spouses want a divorce and just divorce ...straight.) but where this is not possible, judges will first adjourn the case (with the hope that they will use the time to try to settle), but when they come back and one party still insists that he/she will not remain married to the to other spouse, the court has no choice than to grant a divorce..... .. since you cant force anyone to be married to another, against their will -.... it will be an infringement on their right to "freedom of association", as enshrined in the constitution! As a matter of fact, l am sure the judge is listening to her statements and concluding that "these two cant remain husband and wife anymore" and will use the woman's statement to further convince herself that the marriage should be dissolved immediately. No Judge would forcefully "tie" two cantankerous people together, knowing that frustration at not being able to get a divorce, may lead to "unwanted consequences" for one of the spouse. I have a feeling that "most women" think they have some kind of power to refuse a divorce, or they seem to think it is their "choice to determine" whether a divorce is granted or not. Well, definitely delusional. It is the Judge that decides.... and hardly will you ever hear a judge refuse a divorce, once one of the party vehemently refuse to remain married to the other spouse. Award of 'associated cost' is another matter entirely Please, let us always seek to enlighten ourselves....... ignorance is dangerous. |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Excuzeme: 12:24am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Sleekyshuga: What if he murders her the next day..... will you now call her " The DEAD brave lady"? Or have you not read of such stories before? Wantonly putting your life in danger, ... is not bravery! It is FOOLISHNESS 1 Like |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Excuzeme: 12:42am On Jan 26, 2016 |
murphyibiam15: Obviously you are not Yoruba ... but your question still deserve some attention. Though there is no "datum" that l am aware of, showing that Yorubas divorce more than any other tribe in Nigeria but let us take your assertion at "face value". let us assume what you "observe" is actually true! Look at it from this angle: White people (Americans and Europeans) have the highest rate of divorce worldwide. It is not a coincidence that these two continents are also the most developed, civilized and exposed, of all nations. So, what id it that makes divorce and those attributes to go together? It is because as you become more exposed (and our Nigerian women especially, are threading this path), civilised, developed and advanced, you abandon "old laws and taboos" which forbids divorce and shames divorcees. In the Americas and Europe, being divorced is not considered a stigma. So, if you walk back from the last line of my post (okay, you have to be intelligent to be able to do that), you will realize that there is a correlation between the level of "racial/tribal development, civilization and exposure and general sophistication of the populace" ...and the propensity to divorce, when the marriage fails. It might interest you to note that Igbos have the highest rate of "wife-murder" within Nigeria and especially in diaspora, even though they have a lower rate of divorce as you seem to suggest! In other words, when "shyte" happens, while one tribes rushes to get a divorce, ......the other rushes to "get their cutlass"! Reflect on it a little bit, before you hit reply button because l know you are already fired-up and fuming! 2 Likes |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by queenfav(f): 1:37am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Matrimonial matters are just the sweetest.Free comedy guarenteed in court..lol.Meanwhile,her request is very crass to say the least.The law cannot order the doing of an impossible act na. 1 Like |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Holamidhe(m): 2:21am On Jan 26, 2016 |
ideyhere: My comment was not directed to you, so it funny the way you took it personal |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Holamidhe(m): 2:34am On Jan 26, 2016 |
mineANDurs: Disclaimer : Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland. Sis, I think you are one gate girl that doesn't know what carnival has turn to in Nigeria (esp. Lagos) or you are a carnival addict. If you still believe in Dictionary meaning of some popular Nigeria words after this, then you need tutorial |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by canDy4eva(f): 2:50am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Lollipop247:...datz wot dey get wen God z nt d third party! |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by padrey(m): 3:17am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Isele re ooh, Oya Mr Morufu Alatise e shoro si abi nah lie.... |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Aleora(f): 6:12am On Jan 26, 2016 |
My dear u are blessed##MARIO |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by McPhilz8(m): 6:19am On Jan 26, 2016 |
holyFRED: Exactly |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by allthingsgood: 6:27am On Jan 26, 2016 |
This woman is the biggest foool ever liveth! What if u stay married and he infect u with hiv from all his philandering When God wants to save some people they will still choose destruction |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by Sleekyshuga(f): 6:29am On Jan 26, 2016 |
iykedare:It's been a while I got a useless quote from a senseless moniker.. So, enjoy the attention while it last .. humilitynike:Simply put!! He should register her in a gym.. From all I gathered, her drama is in a bid to resolve with her husband, and maybe, make him see divorce as a last option as there is no way he can bring her back to what she was.. Excuzeme:If he murders her, he will face the LAW as two wrongs cannot make a right .. His reasons to end the marriage ain't genuine enough.. Did you for once think that she may be buying time to resolve her marital issues with her husband as divorce is not always an option? I had my first post with lots of smileys because her request was near impossible, if not impossible.. Her bravery here (to me) is not been in a rush to end it up.. So, pls, take a chill.. And to the e-idiots quoting me, spewing trash, you should learn how to use a smiley, it's interpretation, and fully understand what sarcasm means.. 1 Like |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by uboma(m): 6:48am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Sleekyshuga: Some men are just devils. I support the woman in the story jare! Imagine his flimsy excuses for requesting for a divorce. |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by phemmie06(m): 6:49am On Jan 26, 2016 |
ideyhere:What his hypocrisy tell me the caliber of people that goes to Street carnival. I guess you are one of them. By there fruits we shall know them |
Re: 'return Me To My Former Shape Before A Divorce' - Wife Tells Husband by phemmie06(m): 6:50am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Sleekyshuga:The woman must be smarter than the man |
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