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Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 10:41am On Jan 26, 2016
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, embarassedwhat shld I do,, huhhow will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more embarassedPls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness embarassed
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by happyjuliet(f): 10:47am On Jan 26, 2016
Op dat guy naa one chance, how will u b dating a guy for 3yrs now and he hasn't introduced u to anyone not even his friends no abt U, Move on b4 it is too late and most of all pray towards it, u will get ur ans after dat.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Ebubeslym(m): 10:53am On Jan 26, 2016
Ladies and Gentlemen.

Let's pray for a sister who is dating a voice and a picture.

A moment's silence.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by uvalued(m): 10:53am On Jan 26, 2016
cool
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 10:54am On Jan 26, 2016
happyjuliet:
Op dat guy naa one chance, how will u b dating a guy for 3yrs now and he hasn't introduced u to anyone not even his friends no abt U, Move on b4 it is too late and most of all pray towards it, u will get ur ans after dat.
thank u my sister am trying to move on
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by octopusfreaky(f): 10:54am On Jan 26, 2016
grin grin And you were overly dependent on the online guy,chaiii OP check yourself,so u dont have an offline relationship abi u no ***e.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Smartguy001(m): 10:55am On Jan 26, 2016
Kilode not even 1 person...omo which kind guy b dat 1 he nids sum1 he can ride(f**k) wen he comes from France dats all grin....open ur eyes girl
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Pennah(m): 10:55am On Jan 26, 2016
[size=16pt]sooo na tru .... this kindov rel de exist and are taken serioushuh[/size]
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 26, 2016
I'm gonna be very blunt..... Extremely!


You're dying in silent for someone that's playing with You? Someone that YOU Haven't met with before?
Can't blame You, that's what desperation does. and Your family isn't making it any easier.


This is A Lost Cause.!! You're 27 for Christ's sake! how could You lay All Your EGGS in One basket? A faulty basket at that!


He hasn't met with You ever? You met Him on Facebook? this is Outrageous!!!lipsrsealed
nne, biko. get Yourself A Good job and Move on!!!undecided



Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by sirteayeni: 10:58am On Jan 26, 2016
Eeyah madam..

That yeye boi fit dey makurdi make him dey mumu u sey e dey france o..

Wise up ma'm...He isnt interested in you..
Cos even ur boo get a boo..
Patiently get another man...No rush o mk u no enter wicked guy..
Aspa ur sister ehn...You fit explain sey mk she chill...You're still watching and waiting for the righy guy..
My sis got married at 31yrs...
Ya still got time to build another relationship
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 26, 2016
Ebubeslym:
Ladies and Gentlemen.
Let's pray for a sister who is dating a voice and a picture.
A moment's silence.
gringringrinLoL!

Seriously!
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Pennah(m): 11:19am On Jan 26, 2016
Ebubeslym:
Ladies and Gentlemen.
Let's pray for a sister who is dating a voice and a picture.
A moment's silence.
[size=16pt] ** close eye tytly**

Amen


Amen

Amen



and amen ...
chai guy ur prayer was hot I felt d spirit ...
sis ur problem is solved [/size]
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Pennah(m): 11:22am On Jan 26, 2016
Estharfabian:
gringringrinLoL!


Seriously!
[size=16pt] good morning dearie wink[/size]
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 11:27am On Jan 26, 2016
Damsel21:
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, embarassedwhat shld I do,, huhhow will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more embarassedPls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness embarassed
You have told yourself the truth no boyfriend no fiance you are planted in reality. The guy is not real he is a fantasy thing.

Now you have experience in waiting for a dream you know never to do such again so free your mind and start enjoying present male company maybe one of them is the right one i hope you get a job soon not to distract you from the absence of a man in your life but because you need your own life and a job is part of what you desire in your life.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by kaziblake(f): 11:46am On Jan 26, 2016
Are you kidding me?
3yrs of Internet dating and you guys haven't seen each other.
How could you be so naive.
27yrs you are still young to start over again.
Pls you are not and never in a relationship with dat guy.Aunty move on.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by jmoore(m): 12:42pm On Jan 26, 2016
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by firstking01(m):
Firstly...summon the guy and make your intentions known to him and make him understand that if he's not serious with you, you'd move on..

Secondly...stop allowing people detect your life for you, it seems your sister is presurizing you into marriage, itz not supposed to be so...you are an adult, you should know what you want and what is good for you.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jan 26, 2016
Thank u sir
andromida:
You have told yourself the truth no boyfriend no fiance you are planted in reality. The guy is not real he is a fantasy thing.

Now you have experience in waiting for a dream you know never to do such again so free your mind and start enjoying present male company maybe one of them is the right one i hope you get a job soon not to distract you from the absence of a man in your life but because you need your own life and a job is part of what you desire in your life.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by cruzita(f): 1:16pm On Jan 26, 2016
READ MY LIPS *MOVE ON*OR YOUR BRAIN WILL SUFFER FROM DIZZINESS TOO
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jan 26, 2016
Thank u,pls put me in prayer
kaziblake:
Are you kidding me?
3yrs of Internet dating and you guys haven't seen each other.
How could you be so naive.
27yrs you are still young to start over again.
Pls you are not and never in a relationship with dat guy.Aunty move on.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jan 26, 2016
I sincerely agreed with u,putting my eggs in one basket is d mistake I've made in my entire sch days,i wish I can turn bk d hands of time...I wade every guy away Jst bcus I felt I was in relationship...jst put me in ur prayers I really need to this off my mind for good...
Estharfabian:
I'm gonna be very blunt..... Extremely!


You're dying in silent for someone that's playing with You? Someone that YOU Haven't met with before?
Can't blame You, that's what desperation does. and Your family isn't making it any easier.


This is A Lost Cause.!! You're 27 for Christ's sake! how could You lay All Your EGGS in One basket? A faulty basket at that!


He hasn't met with You ever? You met Him on Facebook? this is Outrageous!!!lipsrsealed
nne, biko. get Yourself A Good job and Move on!!!undecided



Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by oodua1stson: 1:23pm On Jan 26, 2016
Damsel21:
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, embarassedwhat shld I do,, huhhow will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more embarassedPls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness embarassed
so you're in a relationship with someone u don't know



Who you have never seen b4?



Your head is not correct oo
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by goshen26: 1:27pm On Jan 26, 2016
Hope he has not seen ur panties?.......oh sorry, its online.


On a serious note, u gat to move on ooo, u r a Lady, don't waste ur productive years on mirage
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 26, 2016
Thank u,i can't believe all this happening to me..i pray I get to meet some1 better soon embarassed
kaziblake:
Are you kidding me?
3yrs of Internet dating and you guys haven't seen each other.
How could you be so naive.
27yrs you are still young to start over again.
Pls you are not and never in a relationship with dat guy.Aunty move on.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by kaziblake(f): 1:37pm On Jan 26, 2016
Damsel21:
Thank u,i can't believe all this happening to me..i pray I get to meet some1 better soon embarassed
someone better will locate you soon..just believe.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jan 26, 2016
Amen
kaziblake:
someone better will locate you soon..just believe.
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by naijaboiy: 2:33pm On Jan 26, 2016
[color=#1980BC]seriously all I can do is laugh. gringringrin

Dating voice and picture for 3years. lipsrsealed[/color]
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Smellymouth: 2:43pm On Jan 26, 2016
OP, come and visit me.
I will cure your loneliness
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Slimzybaby(m):
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Sorry oo
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by jmichlins(m): 3:20pm On Jan 26, 2016
You were never in a relationship but you were living in your fantasy world. Just imagine he never existed and move on with life and if your sister becomes much trouble move out of the house and start hustling. You go see babe package you no go know her trouble reach everest but small sense to coordinate the issue no dey
Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Cutehector(m): 3:48pm On Jan 26, 2016
Estharfabian:
I'm gonna be very blunt..... Extremely!


You're dying in silent for someone that's playing with You? Someone that YOU Haven't met with before?
Can't blame You, that's what desperation does. and Your family isn't making it any easier.


This is A Lost Cause.!! You're 27 for Christ's sake! how could You lay All Your EGGS in One basket? A faulty basket at that!


He hasn't met with You ever? You met Him on Facebook? this is Outrageous!!!lipsrsealed
nne, biko. get Yourself A Good job and Move on!!!undecided



Esther relax cheesy when u get to Dat age, u will totally understand what she is passing through grin

What was she doin at ages 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26 when home boys were chasing her? Maybe forming hard to get I guess.. buh look at her nw. So neeeedy.. needy for a guy. Awwww. Aren't we guys awesome? grin
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