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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by onatisi(m): 9:08am On Jan 30, 2016
draftmaster:
Save a husband's marriage by advising him maturely






http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2016/01/i-made-a-horrible-mistake-with-my-lovely-wife/
You too give her some space .she will come back to you. She is playing on your feelings,you behave as if you don't care and you will see her coming to u asking you why you don't love her anymore. Women are like shadows ,the more you try to move closer the more they tend to shy away.
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by mildflame: 9:08am On Jan 30, 2016
Thou Man relax n cease thou personal torment, thy woman wants space n space thou give her. Behold when thou woman remove thy space, thou MUST tell her that thou man need SPACE.

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Icaretoo: 9:12am On Jan 30, 2016
She is a woman..she surely will not only forgive but also forget.
U can also buy her sumthing she likes to show how sorry u are take her to sum were she has not been but will bring chill to her body.

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by praxisnetworks: 9:13am On Jan 30, 2016
onatisi:

You too give her some space .she will come back to you. She is playing on your feelings,you behave as if you don't care and you will see her coming to u asking you why you don't love her anymore. Women are like shadows ,the more you try to move closer the more they tend to shy away.
She's not playing on your feelings.... She's hurt and needs some time and space to heal

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by CertifiedFreak(m): 9:13am On Jan 30, 2016
Antina:

no wonder u are still unmarried till now, or are u so small with this kind of ur comment?


lady, my marital status isn't the bone of contention here. It's ladies of ur ilk who would be pummeled by hubby and still defend him to the world.

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by shugaboy6102(m): 9:13am On Jan 30, 2016
disloman:
What if he was trying to walk away and the wife didn't allow him to.You know how you ladies act when confronting a guy.Like you want to enter the guy's body.
you are very correct.some women won't even let u pass or move out.some may lock the door and put the keys in their bra.it takes grace to never hit a woman especially when the woman runs her mouth like a tap @ free wheel.
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by lomprico(m): 9:13am On Jan 30, 2016
ibkgab001:
Suck her to stupor
Lol id¡ot! grin
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by midehi2(f): 9:14am On Jan 30, 2016
ikombe:
undecided
pours water on her small head tongue

babe dis is naija and not all dose telemundo wey u dey watch undecided
naija, really? until you kill someone one day


*pours hot oil on your small p* grin
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by cruzita(f): 9:15am On Jan 30, 2016
cbrass:


Because of a single slap? I should buy iPhone6 and a car? undecided
that single slap loose all the nuts for her body oooo
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by ritababe(f): 9:15am On Jan 30, 2016
skywalker240:
hahahaha i was once in dis situation and she needed space.....ur wife still loves u she just need to regain her mind due to dat shock.. thats women 4 u, they are easily hurt emmotionally. well 4 beta 4 worse they say,so marriage should not be smooth at all times.
Giv her some space sha, but make e no pass dat day oo then go pamper am well well and try and devote ur time to pleasin her dat week.
And asure her it wont happen again.


But if i may ask, WHAT HAPPENED TO WALKING AWAY PART?...works 4 me and my GF nowadays (cos d only day i hit her i was so mad at myself i lost concertration dat whole day i realy hate hittin women so took that bold step of always walkin away)

what if i block the door, where will you pass?
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by onatisi(m): 9:16am On Jan 30, 2016
Icaretoo:
She is a woman..she surely will not only forgive but also forget.
U can also buy her sumthing she likes to show how sorry u are take her to sum were she has not been but will bring chill to her body.
The man isn't been entirely open,it isn't the slap that is hurting the woman ,after all some women receive daily morning slaps from their husbands and yet they still love their man but the man must have said some very very very hurtful words which the woman never believed could come out from her husband mouth. Slaps no be any big deal grin

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Prdo: 9:17am On Jan 30, 2016
I think this will happen again except you kill the adamic nature in you and cultivate the fruits of the Holy Spirit. Give your life to Jesus and let go of hot temper. I know you will say some carnal christian also slap or fight their wives, but those are exceptions and not the norm.

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by midehi2(f): 9:17am On Jan 30, 2016
mildflame:
Thou Man relax n cease thou personal torment, thy woman wants space n space thou give her. Behold when thou woman remove thy space, thou MUST tell her that thou man need SPACE.
and dou maketh way for infidelity with some
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Kangol99(m): 9:18am On Jan 30, 2016
ikombe:
stop accusing devil for something he doesnt have an idea of undecided



Does devil realy exist self



Nigerians can blame anoda entity for dere misdeeds undecided

If you don't know the Devil exist pls know today.

Okay, wait till they call a person name 3 times and the person starts vomitting blood.

Lassa Fever sef na demonic attack!

Devil dey oooo.

Like one of my friend that said their is nothing like charm or devil. They just took him to an harbalist and the herbalist gave them a ring that makes one to be slowpoke and thw ring was use in his presence to hit a goat, which started vomiting serious saliva immediately. Since then he knew there was Charm and devil.

Open your eye,
Devil is real. Hold on to God, the father of our Lord Jesus Christ if you don't want him to catch you.

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Nobody: 9:18am On Jan 30, 2016
Taaaah! Very fake report. Just by hitting her and she asks for a space? I mean is this supposed to be a RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE?

I mean who behaves that way in MARRIAGE?
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by jaz(m): 9:18am On Jan 30, 2016
You need to show her love as a husband but don't over do it cos it will only show you're doing so out of remorse and not necessarily true love. Also this may be a good time to learn more about your wife and her will to make the marriage work. A slap as bad as it is is not enough reason to shut down on your marriage. Not canvassing for women battering but a woman must not take things out of proportion. He is still your husband. Something this 21st century wives must learn. Marriage is never a walk in the park. So show her love but in appropriate measure AND APOLOGISE. Seek other means to correcting your wife next time and stop bringing your family issues online

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Lexusgs430: 9:19am On Jan 30, 2016
The only way she can be convinced you are truly sorry and never do it again, is by amputating both hands you used to slap her!!!
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by onatisi(m): 9:19am On Jan 30, 2016
onatisi:

The man isn't been entirely open,it isn't the slap that is hurting the woman ,after all some women receive daily morning slaps from their husbands and yet they still love their man but the man must have said some very very very hurtful words which the woman never believed could come out from her husband mouth. Slaps no be any big deal grin
praxisnetworks:

She's not playing on your feelings.... She's hurt and needs some time and space to heal
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by midehi2(f): 9:19am On Jan 30, 2016
onatisi:

You too give her some space .she will come back to you. She is playing on your feelings,you behave as if you don't care and you will see her coming to u asking you why you don't love her anymore. Women are like shadows ,the more you try to move closer the more they tend to shy away.
wicked! grin


this kills love gradually
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by ritababe(f): 9:19am On Jan 30, 2016
kilokeys:
grin she verbally abused u

U physically abused her..

U guys are even jore

Dude.. U need some space too.

no they are not even, she abused him,. He abused her too and slap her.
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by ritababe(f): 9:21am On Jan 30, 2016
insycarc:
You have done the damage already. It goes a long way to show u cnt control your anger. No matter what your wife does to you, u shouldnt lay your hands on her, instead just take a stroll or go outside or keep quiet:Thats why u a man. She will forever remember the slap and the love she had for will never be the same no matter how much you spend and the love you show, you have already created a dark spot.. Just being nice and caring to her and avoiding arguments will help reduce the hurt for the main time but it cant eliminate it. It

yeah you are right, just like how a broken glass cannot be thesame after been merge.

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by onatisi(m): 9:21am On Jan 30, 2016
midehi2:

wicked! grin


this kills love gradually
There is nothing like love just interest.believe me

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by praxisnetworks: 9:22am On Jan 30, 2016
[quote author=onatisi post=42456311][/quote]
Dear slap physical assault could numb someone's feelings especially if It's from a loved one... I can tell you that kids don't like to be beaten... Not the pain but the act and shock especially by a loved one
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by fireforfire: 9:23am On Jan 30, 2016
CertifiedFreak:
Dude, she's ur wife. Where the hell is she going to? If the space sef too much, slap her some more.

All these 21st century ladies thinking gender equality is applicable at home. A lady who argues with hubby till he's so not conscious of his acts needs a factory reset slap.
He asked for mature advise not Gilberish.
So just SHUT UP!!

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by cbrass(m): 9:24am On Jan 30, 2016
midehi2:

hear him, so without slap you cant buy your wife iPhone and a car? gosh!


even the material things cant bring back the shockless love again, hate will set in


anyway, i know your type

You don't know my type cos I don't belong to the type you think of
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by onatisi(m): 9:25am On Jan 30, 2016
praxisnetworks:

Dear slap physical assault could numb someone's feelings especially if It's from a loved one... I can tell you that kids don't like to be beaten... Not the pain but the act and shock especially by a loved one

This na Africa ,you slap anybody that messes up then you apologize later. grin
But on a more serious note ,it was the words from the man that did the damage. Words are like eggs ,once broken can never be recollected back again
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by aymondw: 9:25am On Jan 30, 2016
Women mind are fragile, do not give a her space that will result in her falling victim to some womaniser in town. Get a day off in the office(like friday) & embark on a weekend trip with her. Go to a new area & come back on sunday. Within this period everything will be settled. Do not go back to the past, discuss more about your future plan for her & your children. Show her more love. Stay Tight To Your Wife.

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by cbrass(m): 9:26am On Jan 30, 2016
cruzita:
that single slap loose all the nuts for her body oooo

Hmmm then buy her a spanner to tighten it back na wink

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by praxisnetworks: 9:26am On Jan 30, 2016
onatisi:


This na Africa ,you slap anybody that messes up then you apologize later. grin
But on a more serious note ,it was the words from the man that did the damage. Words are like eggs ,once broken can never be recollected back again
I would not like to see you in jail.... Moreso only a coward beats up his wife... Guess you are not married

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by belissima(f): 9:27am On Jan 30, 2016
CertifiedFreak:
Dude, she's ur wife. Where the hell is she going to? If the space sef too much, slap her some more.

All these 21st century ladies thinking gender equality is applicable at home. A lady who argues with hubby till he's so not conscious of his acts needs a factory reset slap.

r u a boy or a man,smh.
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by midehi2(f): 9:28am On Jan 30, 2016
onatisi:
There is nothing like love just interest.believe me
i refused to concur

am madly in love now grin

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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by praxisnetworks: 9:28am On Jan 30, 2016
cbrass:


Hmmm then buy her a spanner to tighten it back na wink
Well since you married an Apapa Trinity gal I understand

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